This boy came along and my friend introduced me one night to him and i fell in love at first sight. I wanted to be with him eversince but worse is HE IS MY FRIEND'S BF. I know im wrong and i tried hard to keep my feelings but still it showed. We spent times together, stole moments with each other and altho I felt guilty i pursued for my love because i felt i loved him more since my friend is cheating on him. I felt so deeply in love with this guy and he said he loved me back but then he's still with my friend and i dont want him before to have him choose between us because in the first place im wrong there and i dont wanna be more selfish. So I let him go, and yes my friend did found out but were okay now and i sacrificed my love even tho it was my first real love and its been five months already and i still love him. Someone pls tell me how to forget him coz the pain is still here and now im so afraid to fall again and i feel that i'll never ever love again :(
2006-11-23 05:25:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 18 years old :]
2006-11-23 05:39:06 · update #1
The friend and I are not that close as we used to be, I'm not mad at her, but if she's mad at me then i cant blame her coz i was just following my heart and i was the one who ended it with him coz i just cant take the pain anymore.
2006-11-23 05:42:39 · update #2
you WILL love again..and you will have a great guy who cares more about you than he cares for your friend. Trust me, everything happens for a reason and it WILL all work out! just stay strong and you will find someone great. don't worry. the right guy is out there somewhere just waiting to find you. good luck
2006-11-23 05:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by DefLeppardxXx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll fall in love again. I gotta be cliched on this one. Time heals all wounds. You will get over it when you meet someone else who makes you feel the same, if not better.
However, perhaps there is still something in this liking of him. You say your friend cheats on him. Why is he still in this relationship.
However, you will also have to consider what means more to you, your relationship with your friend or the thought of a potential relationship with this guy...
2006-11-23 13:31:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sanchez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all YOU did not state your age.. It's hard. because YOU will all ways look for someone just LIKE him. and that my friend will never work . Been there and in ways still am. But, we had a son together . that's the hard part watching him with our son and his and his wife's daughter.. I do buy things for her on her b-day and Xmas and thing's . just because I will not have her feel left out.. but, you need to ask yourself . Why did you start a relationship know he could totally NEVER be yours.
2006-11-23 13:33:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww...you'll love again. It sucks that he's dating your friend because you don't wanna tell on her, you don't want to break them up. If you two are meant to be, then you'll end up together. He'll find out that she's cheating on him and he'll come to you. But it's not right for him to tell you he loves you but stay with her. He doesn't sound like a good guy. You can find someone better.
2006-11-23 13:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by ozo2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never get over your first love, they will always linger in the back of your mind.
Time does help with lessening the pain.
Best of luck to you.
2006-11-23 13:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hunny you will love again. ifthey are still together than sorry to say he may not have ever loved you. best way to forget him.... concentrate on something else!like school or art. or something that keeps you occupied!
2006-11-23 13:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Jack Daniels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loved you he'd give up your best friend.and thats not something you forgive a friend for. you sound like a child playing an adults game
2006-11-23 13:32:29 · answer #7 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. You are to intoxicated with the situation. Just look another direction.
Mikeypio
2006-11-23 13:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by mikeypio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get over your first love ever.......................................... But you will love again, You still will have that memory in your heart of your first love, Trust me. You will treasure that like it was an old hankie in you pocket that your father gave you many years ago.
2006-11-23 13:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by Christine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's taking you both for a ride..get off before he really hurts you...
2006-11-23 13:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by steve 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋