My girlfriend broke up wit me 6 weeks ago cus she thinks i dont trust her,and she said that was the only reason. When we broke up i had just found out my mum mite have cancer again and ive been having major health problems myself. I couldn't deal wit the pressure so i snapped at her and accused her of having feelings 4 sum1else, so now she is adamant shes better without me even thow she still loves me. I love her more than anything and need her at this difficult time in my life, wat do i do???? How do i prove 2 her that i did trust her???
2006-11-23 05:17:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i tried telling her i trust her but she thinks im making it up just 2 get back wit her
2006-11-23 05:21:49 · update #1
just talk to her.
calmly.
and explain yourself.
if you feel you are unable to do it face to face.....
send her a letter or write her an email.
that way she will feel less pressurised or being put on the spot.
good luck
2006-11-23 05:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 15:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize for snapping at her and tell her you did not mean it. Explain that you are under a lot of stress because of what's going on with your mother and the health problems you're having. Ask her if she would come back to you and just be there for you while you're going through this difficult time. Tell her you love her more than anything in the world.
If she does not come back in spite of your arduous plea, I'm afraid she is not the one for you. Seek comfort in people you know will be there for you.
Good luck and take care.
2006-11-23 05:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by mpicky2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her IN PERSON about it!! But I had a similar problem with my ex which i broke up with 6 weeks ago too, but now I realize that I am MUCH better off without her!! I think u should just go out and play the field some more..you might think you loved her more than anything or anyone, but if you broke up, then it wasn't meant to be..but she might come back sometime...anything can happen and everything happens for a reason! good luck
2006-11-23 05:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by DefLeppardxXx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry, but do you trust her??? its not about proving that you trust her, and accusing her of seeing someone else didnt help anything, that kind of anger lashing acusations only hurts any relationship more, friend or dating.
if you trust her, sit down and have a heart to heart, and just becuase ya'll arent dating doesnt mean you cant love her and she cant love you back.
if you want her back as your girlfriend, dont pull the "things will be diffrent i promise" BS
that just turns us off quicker in the long run, explain to her that you need her, trust isnt givin its earned, so tell her you would like to start over, let it be fresh and forget the history.
if that doesnt work, well an ex is an ex for a reason
2006-11-23 05:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by ruspecialenuf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Act as if it dont bother you.
When you see her, talk but be elusive as if nothing is wrong.
Date other women.
When she thinks she might loose you forever, she will come back to you.
In other words, she knows she can have you at any time and is not appreciative of you. When she sees that you can move on without her, it will eat her up inside and sonn try to get back with you. Worked for me.
2006-11-23 05:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you sat her down and explained why you accused her of having feelings for someone else? Maybe when she understands how stressed out you've been and what a hard time you are obviously going through she will be prepared to give it another go!
2006-11-23 05:21:31 · answer #7 · answered by Angie T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to prove anything to her. She's not worth it. Never go back to your exes, i learned on my mistakes. Trus me when I say, I'm sure she had more reasons, she just didn't want to hurt you. You'll find someone better. Focus on your health and your mom. Girls come and go, but health is hard to get back. Take care of yourself first, everything else will come to you.
2006-11-23 05:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by ozo2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write to her.......Explain all ur feelings and tell her that u really need her at this time....If she really loves u she shud be able to see the pain...If she can't be there for u as a gf, at least ask her to be there for u as a friend for the time being. GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-23 05:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can u get Ur ex back?? No you can not get your ex back well i can t i have try ed and i have try ed but if anyone has any ideas on how to get your ex back plz plz tell me but i don't think you can but i hope you can and i can to. Good luck to everyone out there trying to it is not hard but try and try a bit more!!!
2006-11-27 03:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well have have you told her about ur mom.if not you should.tell her that you need her right now.with everything going on in your life you might be pushing her away from you because the one's u love is getting hurt and you don't want her to get hurt.if you really love her than let her know that you really love and trust her.but you may not want to rush things.
2006-11-23 05:28:59 · answer #11 · answered by Nesha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋