For examply, will they usually only get in a relationship with you because all they are looking for is sex? and do they really think about it ALL the time? Is it even possible for a guy to stay faithful for a long amount of time?
2006-11-23 05:15:06 · 42 answers · asked by Kylie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex is the biggest NEED for a man. Most men I know would have little trouble choosing between sex and a steak dinner.
Having said that sex is important, most men, whether they admit it or not, seek emotional connection THROUGH sex. Most women seek emotional connection BEFORE sex.
Now just having generalized, I don't think about it ALL the time. And I can testify that it is possible for a guy to stay faithful.
2006-11-23 05:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by WindWalker10 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
All guys are different. Some just want sex, others want a real loving relationship and sex. Guys don't think about sex all the time, but we do a lot. Yes it's possible for a guy to stay faithful, but not all guys can.
2006-11-23 05:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by chaser_downer 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes we think about it all the time. Yes we get into a relationship so that we can get it more often. But, there is so many women giving it up for free without a relationship, and if a guy chooses you to be his gf means he has feelings for you as well as the urges that he wants sex with you. Yes, if you rock his world in bed he isnt going to go anywhere and will stay a long time with you. You have to give him no reason to hunt it nowhere else. The best way to a mans heart isnt his stomach but a little lower.
2006-11-23 05:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends on the guy. Myself for example, when I was 16 to the age of 23 yes I wanted to have as much sex as possible. I never understood what a relationship really was back then. My life consisted of bars, night clubs, and friends. It was like a competition to us. But now at 26 years of age I find myself looking for that special person to share my life with yes sex is still important, but at this point in my life I call it making love. Not all young guys are the same some have better values than others, try to find the decent guy and not the bad *** boy the bad asses will break your heart take it from an ex-bad ***. The decent ones will also want to have sex, but they will at least wait till you are ready.
Sex is going to happen some time in your life with any given guy, but when that time comes it is all up to you.
2006-11-23 05:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
A)Yes, they are thinking about it all the time
B) Yes it is possible for a boy to stay faithful for a long amount of time.
Depends on the guy. Some guys do A all the time but are the type of guy who can also do B. Some are just in it for the A. But I really don't think there are any boys who just think about B, if there are, well they are weird (or gay)
2006-11-23 05:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by Ted 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no not all guys are. the guys who are are only shallow. im still with my first bf. im 19 and we've been together for 2 years. we didnt do it till a few months ago. we really love eachother and no! sex is nto the most important thing a relationship. if you are dating someone and they keep asking you "when are we going ot have sex" "do you want to have sex" when you say your not ready then leave him! i told my bf how i felt about it and how i wasnt comfortable wiht it yet and he respected me for that. any guy your with should respect your decisons especially abotu sex! anyways.yes some do think abotu it al the time. but thats nto all they think abotu . they have things on their mind liek school and work, ect liek us women do! lol. and YES men can stay faithful for a long amount of time! unless you guys are on the verge of breaking up. my bf has been fiathful and ive been faithful to him too. it depends on the guy. my dad istn faithful lol. he left my mom for a fake blonde 20 years younger than him with fake boobies! ick! but it depends on the guy. just trust and be trusted in a realtionship. if anything starts to look fishy just keep an eye out! =D
sorry i answered your question im nto a boy... but if the guy really loves you hes not in it for the sex, they dont think baout it all the time, and they are faithful. if they truely love you
2006-11-23 05:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
MOST OF THEM ARE the only way you can tell if they want you for you and not just sex is DO NOT GIVE THEM ANY and if they stay they are there for you and if they do not stay then they are only out for sex.
that is how i knew mine was there for me and he was faithful to me the whole time and we dated for six years and now been married for 5years and we love each other very much. When you find the right guy he will do just about anything for you and the same will go for you when you find the right one and he respects your dission not to have sex he and you will be alright about it. IT all depends on the person you are dating. GOOD LUCK
2006-11-23 05:17:41 · answer #7 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Boys are in it for the sex. Men are in it for the emotional aspect of the relationship. It's the difference between immature and mature men. Both sexes are equal when it comes to cheating. There are both that continually look for their next "conquest" even when they have someone loving and faithful sitting at home waiting for them.
2006-11-23 05:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all guys are like that. Sure, they think about sex alot but that's normal until they're about 89 years old. Date a guy long enough to establish a relationship. If he pressures you for sex and that's all he wants, he won't hang around long once he gets it.
2006-11-23 05:21:04 · answer #9 · answered by Debra D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fortunately or unfortunately you know nothing about guys at all. You seem to be young still, but don't worry, there are many many many boys who are not that whay at all!!!!of course they like sex and love to practise it, but the also care about you and your life, love you, protect you, laugh with you... . I admit I still think sometimes that they seem to have only that one thing in minf, but it is certainly not true. We girls should give them a chance to show what they are really made of.
Anyways, the younger you are the easier you will find boys who are total jerks, but once you grow up (just a little), the "good boys" will show up!!!
2006-11-23 05:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by Kimera 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋