Family & Relationships - 23 November 2006

I started going out with this guy and well I want him here with me and well I'm sad b/c he's not here to hold me!!

Any way so I won't be sad but I'm happy b/c I got a b/f!

And what to call him!! and what he should call me we don't know!!??

Anyone with the same problem?? And what do you do with it??

2006-11-23 11:29:01 · 6 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

i asked the question, " does race matter on the net?"
and got a response from this asian girl.
she said, " i play online games a lot and meet ppl there. at first they are so nice to me and a lot of them flirt with me but when i tell them that i'm asian, they become quiet."

do white american ppl dislike asians?
do they think asian is the second citizen in the us?

2006-11-23 11:28:59 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-23 11:28:40 · 6 answers · asked by dibah73 1 in Singles & Dating

If you're g/f lost 9 members of her family a year ago today, Would you ignore her and not want to deal with it or be sweet and let her cry on your shoulder and sleep in your arms all night?? Would you cop a feel?? Would you be all pissed off cuz she didn't wanna have sex??This is all what my friend says. She says guys only want sex. Do you feel that being kind to her makes you less of a man??

Be honest. Thanx!!
My friend says guys could care less when you're sad. Is she right??
Would you be there for your g/f when she's sad??

2006-11-23 11:28:37 · 3 answers · asked by Makoa 1 in Singles & Dating

Just say your a guy aged around 36, and you meet a hot girl online. When you finally meet up, it turns out she has no arms or legs.
To make matters worse, she has large hands and an adams apple and you suspect its a sex change guy.
This has never happened to me, but I think its better to be prepared for these things.

2006-11-23 11:28:29 · 7 answers · asked by fnqbigboy 3 in Singles & Dating

We love each other I believe her when she tells me this. I understand the desire slows over time but we are at never.I do things like never forgeting birthdays, buying unepected gifts unexpectly, go out on dates, I have never cheated, I do not let my eyes wander, I do not drink, I do not gamble, I help out around the house, we have very few arguments and as soon as she calms down I appoligize and do not try to place blame If I walk in the the bathroom, it's very large, and if she is in the shower she says I can in just to see her naked.When I bring up the no sex issue she says is that all I ever think of and then does not want to talk about it.Before we were maried I had had 4 to 6 other lovers and stated I was very good.If there were a medical reason why she could not have sex I would noy be happy about it, but I could understand.This I cannot understand and with her not willing to see a Dr. I am 55 we have 2 kids and I do not think I can spend the the rest of my life with no sex

2006-11-23 11:28:08 · 15 answers · asked by bruce j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well my friend is 15 years old and she has interests in a 19 year old and i know he likes her too because he told me..does this seem wrong if they date? what about in the long run?

2006-11-23 11:27:59 · 6 answers · asked by kathy 1 in Singles & Dating

A married man I work with asked for my phone number, I gave it to him thinking it was work related. (b/c I use my cell phone for work)
He told me that his marrage is not working out. He says that he really likes me, and hes really cute too. I want to be friends with him and told him that. He asked to kiss me and I said that I dont feel comfortable because hes married.
Do I just stay away, remain friends or what. Very confused.

2006-11-23 11:26:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have assigned seats in study hall, but we never sit in them. The guy I like always steels my seat so that he can sit next to his friend. My friends all came and started working on the desk that I was sitting at, so I turned around in my chair and started using the desk that my crush was sitting at (AKA mine). I was drawing a picture (I was bored) and he turned around and saw me there and then whispered something to his friend. They both laughed. When he turned back around, he said "thats sexy."

What do you think he said to his friend?
Did he say "thats sexy" to his friend or about my drawing? If he said it to his friend, do you think he was talking about me? What did he say?!?!?

Then, he took the erasable highlighter that I was drawing with (I thought it was really cool, thats why I was drawing. He just took it out of my hand.) And drew something. He showed it to his friend and they both laughed again. He didn`t let me see it though.

What do you think the drawing was?

2006-11-23 11:25:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 11:25:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 7 months preganant and have been having a lot of disturbing vivid dreams/nightmares. I also am married with a 3 year old girl.

2006-11-23 11:24:09 · 8 answers · asked by cryofwolf 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 15 and have an IQ of roughly 125, is this smart enough to become a doctor? If not is there anything I can do to raise it.

2006-11-23 11:23:29 · 13 answers · asked by I am the Badger Princess. 4 in Marriage & Divorce

just for the fun of it, even though you planned not to get married?

2006-11-23 11:22:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my uncle came over for thanksgiving. he's 45 + just broke up with his girlfriend who is around 20 something. he does weird stuff like that. i've never been that uncomfortable around him though. but today, he kept staring at me + made me feel awkward. when i was sitting on the coach next to my dog's blanket, he moves it + sits right down next to me. too close. there was a hundred other places to sit. also, when he left + said his goodbyes to everyone including me, after he left, he called + told my mom to tell me that he said goodbye. HE JUST FREAKING DID. it doesn't sound like anything that bad. but i just have this bad feeling + whenever i think about it, i can't help but cry cause i feel so scared now. i feel violated + disgusting now. do i have a right to feel this way or is it no big deal ?

2006-11-23 11:22:07 · 18 answers · asked by yourprettyhot123 2 in Family

WE have been going out 2 years 3 months and we never talk!! i don't feel the same way i used to about him i know he loves me but how do i know if i love him!! i have thought about beraking up with him but i don't want ot hurt him our familys are really close (little bros in same grade) i don't know what to do!! friend tell me to bread up with him and other friends tell me to talk to him but i have and nothing ever changes!!!! i am counfused!!!! HELP ME!!!!

2006-11-23 11:21:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girl and i think we are ready. i dont want her to be in pain but she says what every she can do that will make me happy. we are both virgins and over the age of 18. what should i do???

2006-11-23 11:21:14 · 11 answers · asked by azehriad 4 in Singles & Dating

god this site is way too addictive...how sad am i??
i say ill only be on here five mins then hours later im looking at the clock sayin i better go to sleep now!!night night girls and boys xx

2006-11-23 11:20:44 · 22 answers · asked by Lydia K 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband kevin the fridge called me at work today, he sais hese leaving me because I just keep taking and taking.

2006-11-23 11:19:59 · 11 answers · asked by I am the Badger Princess. 4 in Marriage & Divorce

im 14 and im almost scared to look at a guy because of my mom. shes always on my case about not having sex untill im married. i know that but she thinks smiling at a guy is having sex. what do i do im going crazy

2006-11-23 11:18:55 · 6 answers · asked by Daisy Duke 2 in Singles & Dating

i am having a problem that is really making me mad. Whenever I get mad, I just cry. It is so bad now my own father is calling me a little sissy, my friends make fun of me now, and i cannot take it anymore. I have even started hitting myself as hard as I can i the jaw whenever I start crying. Is there a way I can stop this, because I am sick of being the laughingstock of my family and friends.

2006-11-23 11:18:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a boyfriend, and he wants to have sex with me. i have never done "it" before. i want to make him happy. i know he is ready, but wont force me to do anything i dont want to. im not sure if i "love" him. of course im to young to know the true meaning. if i do have sex will it make me happier, or feel worst.

2006-11-23 11:17:42 · 17 answers · asked by azehriad 4 in Singles & Dating

ok when i talk 2 someone (especilly my gf) i cant think of something to say im not shy i just cant think of anything to say what do u say when u talk to your gf

2006-11-23 11:17:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am going to buy a bride from asia. it is an arranged marriage. will she give me sex everyday? or just a few times a year? i want to have sex every day.

2006-11-23 11:16:54 · 27 answers · asked by 2doornot2do 1 in Singles & Dating

we broke it off but he still says little comments to get my attention he looks at me and sometimes gets jelouse and says stuff like go with him you know you want to go..... go see your ex .....

2006-11-23 11:15:40 · 6 answers · asked by sweet flower 1 in Singles & Dating

do you believe in it? is it possible to happen? i think it happened to me,and for certain reasons we r not able to be togehter right now. we seemed to click so well and were able to talk so openly together.we were like magnets and did not want to be away from eachother that night.why do i still think of him 9 months later?

2006-11-23 11:14:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known this guy for over 3 years. We are really good friends and have both wanted something more to happen, but for whatever reason it hasn't (work, school, living in different cities. etc)
In August, we had a big fight and he called me a stupid b----, and told me to have a good life.
So whatever right? I forgot about him and moved on. I went cold turkey, no calls, no texts, no emails.
About a month and a half later, he messages me, asking how I am, how is my family, work, everything. I was really surprised, so I called him on it - he said that even though he said all those thing, he thought that I would have still stayed in touch.
So basically between September and now, we've been saying how its going to be different this time, we're both honest with what we want, etc.
Is he ever going to grow up and be mature, and say he wants me too - or is this a lost cause?
I've told him MANY times what I want from him - but he doesn't do the same

2006-11-23 11:13:52 · 7 answers · asked by Ashleigh H 2 in Singles & Dating

I would just like to put a timeline and tell you how the events unfolded
-Dance, a guy asks me a stupid question.
-I think he likes me, and I like him too...starting now
-I decide to go tell him my feelings
-He blushes and stutters a lot but seems happy
-Next day, turns out it's his dad's 1st death anniversary..wrong timing
-I send him an email appologizing and encouraging him to be strong
-Tells my friend he'll reply, and seems happy to recieve it
-Suddenly gets mad and doesnt talk to me
-I still say hello, he gets my friend to tell me to stop talkin to him
-I leave him alone
-People tell me this younger girl has a crush on him
-I dont care I think he has a lot to think about with his dad and all
-Today she asked him out he said yes, and started hugging right in front of me
*So all along I thought that he wasnt responding to me bcuz of his father but I got rejected
Q: I cant stop feeling sad, this guy I loved with all my heart, did this this to me, what advice do u have

2006-11-23 11:13:33 · 14 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

shoud she be so picky? I mean i don't beat her and i'm nice. plus she's not exactly great looking.

2006-11-23 11:12:52 · 21 answers · asked by blondepiaga 1 in Marriage & Divorce

plz help i have no one else to turn to

2006-11-23 11:12:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my stupid sister living in another city has never worked in her life,has nine kids,has been on welfare but never bettered herself with it.can barely pay rent somehow,& uses a church for food for her family,she also has a bf who doesnt work btw.

im doing pretty well for myself,because i work my as* off!
she asked me for some money,something about her power being turned off.i gave her an excuse why i couldnt help her.
people have always given to her for her whole life,& she has never worked a day in her life.i think the best thing for her is not to help her,anyone else agree or have thoughts on this??

2006-11-23 11:12:23 · 7 answers · asked by forest lover 2 in Other - Family & Relationships