I have a boyfriend, and he wants to have sex with me. i have never done "it" before. i want to make him happy. i know he is ready, but wont force me to do anything i dont want to. im not sure if i "love" him. of course im to young to know the true meaning. if i do have sex will it make me happier, or feel worst.
2006-11-23 11:17:42 · 17 answers · asked by azehriad 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you'll feel worse because you did it for him not you. If you really wanted it you would not be telling us about it.
2006-11-23 11:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know how old you are but I can tell from your question that you are not ready to have sex....If you are too young to know the true meaning of love and you are not sure if you do love him...wait...don't let guilt or any type of negative feeling pressure you into having sex with him...you will not feel happier trust me....wait until you do know what love is and you know that you are in love...that's when sex will make you happy....not until....good luck and be strong and smart
2006-11-23 11:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you really should wait until your absolutely ready for it. Sex is something that should occur when you have feelings toward someone and you know it. Usually you can tell if you love someone. Its good he won't force you. As for how it will make you feel, you've got a 90% chance of it hurting dear. Let's remember that this is the frst time your having anything really, umm "inserted" in there ya know? But if your feelings are mutual then you'll be happy even when it does hurt. So physically yes youll hurt and emotionally(if you love him for real) no you won't. Sex tends to bring those in love even closer.
2006-11-23 11:26:16 · answer #3 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well think, if he really luv u he will wait until u are ready, and come on u know if u have sex with him now he will leave u if it's not no it is later. And u will feel worst about urself
2006-11-23 11:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by Abena 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You didn't state your age which would make the answer a litter easier, to decide when and with who to have sex with is a very personal decision regardless if it is your first time and should not be rushed, just make sure you use protection against STD and pregnancy, be safe.
2006-11-23 11:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will make you feel worse, if he cant wait then he doesnt really love you.Please dont give up a precious thing to someone when you are not ready you will only have hate and regret
2006-11-23 11:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sxoxo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will be much happier! You want to be a good girlfriend, right? Sure you do! So give your boyfriend what he wants and make him happy!
2006-11-23 11:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
listen kid, don't have sex with him, at least not yet. If he can't hold on that's his problem, seems to me sex is important to him now, if he truly loves you he will wait till the time is right for both of you and not just him.
2006-11-23 11:22:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will feel bad if you have sex for the first time and aren't in love. Your first time should definetly be with someone you love.
2006-11-23 11:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its need to to know how you fell..do you love him..and how older you and him..off course without sex loves is not stay longer time..so you have to get it..but first figure out do you want it..get enough courage..good luck
2006-11-23 11:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by simanto 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hun please dont do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you are not a million percent shure then he aint the one. trust me once you give it away it is gone forever. You'll feel much better about waiting. If he is the one it will be that much sweeter LATER! If not you still have it to give to the right one
2006-11-23 11:21:55 · answer #11 · answered by lizzie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋