I would just like to put a timeline and tell you how the events unfolded
-Dance, a guy asks me a stupid question.
-I think he likes me, and I like him too...starting now
-I decide to go tell him my feelings
-He blushes and stutters a lot but seems happy
-Next day, turns out it's his dad's 1st death anniversary..wrong timing
-I send him an email appologizing and encouraging him to be strong
-Tells my friend he'll reply, and seems happy to recieve it
-Suddenly gets mad and doesnt talk to me
-I still say hello, he gets my friend to tell me to stop talkin to him
-I leave him alone
-People tell me this younger girl has a crush on him
-I dont care I think he has a lot to think about with his dad and all
-Today she asked him out he said yes, and started hugging right in front of me
*So all along I thought that he wasnt responding to me bcuz of his father but I got rejected
Q: I cant stop feeling sad, this guy I loved with all my heart, did this this to me, what advice do u have
2006-11-23 11:13:33 · 14 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Satu, thanks for your detailed answer, but I think you missed the 3rd bullet! I DID TELL HIM THAT I LIKED HIM! lol...thanks!
2006-11-23 11:45:35 · update #1
there is no way this guy loved you for you. he's one of those guys that go from one girl to the next and don't care abount the previous' girl's feelings for him. he is a really big man-whore. he should get paid for what he does. he would make great money. His profession would be called "heartbreaker".
2006-11-23 11:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by lovelyhorsefriend06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, I have been in something like this situation, except for the part about the guy's dad. After reading your story, I felt a little bad and almost cried, to be honest.
Anyway, I think the best thing to do would be to tell him that you love him.... and if you're not sure of your feelings, then wait a while. Figure it out! He won't know that you love him if you don't tell him! Get him alone and ask him what's up, no matter what it takes! I mean, probably the only reason that this guy is going out with this other girl is because he has a broken heart... from the anniversary of his father's death and all. He's either heartbroken and desperate or he just doesn't have it in for you. Guys have feelings too, you know.
My situation was a bit different, and took a lot of my heart. I fell in love with my best friend two years ago, and STILL haven't had the guts to tell him that I love him back (he's told me he loves me). But about a year ago one of my best friends also fell in love with him. We went through a huge, long soap opera trying to figure out who actually had it in for this guy. My friend won. She told him that she loved him even before I had started thinking up my tactics. My crush started going out with my friend and stopped talking to me for.... about 4 months. Well, he eventually broke up with my friend.... we both got on AIM one day (last week) and he told me that he loved me. The only thing holding us back is me, being too afraid to tell him "I LOVE YOU". I can't even say it in Japanese (yes, I am an anime freak): "Suki da yo".
But please, don't be a fool like me and hide your feelings. Tell him. However you can.
2006-11-23 11:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by Satu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your age. I am 14 but i already no that you can't love somebody at this age or in your teen years. Your with them for a little while maybe weeks or months but then something happens and they dump you or you dump them and you go to the next person. You can't call that love?? Just hang in there if a guy breaks your heart he is not worth it. You should no that you deserve so much more then that in any relationships. Don't let it bring you down or get into your head it will only cause you pain.
2006-11-23 11:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will heal this. However you are not powerless. Start to see him for what he is. If he realy did like you he would have never done what he did. A good book to read, recomened by a lady a lady I gave it to after she was almost destroyed by a player, lier, total scum bag POS human, is Why does he do that. Remember most young men are palyer and just want to get laid as much as they can and will seek the quickest route.
2006-11-23 11:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by rabatvilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B slap that little girl man that guys a jerk find someone better just remember there are 5billion other guys in this world not just him you'll find your prince someday girl. I did I thought this guy I went out with was soo sweet he was a jerk my family moved to the other end of town and I went to another school on the 2nd week of school a cute nice funny guy asked me out we're the best of friends I can talk to him and all that so find someone nicer you can beleive me!
2006-11-23 11:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by Stuffy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 10:05:13 · answer #6 · answered by endicott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignor him (easier said then done i know) maybe he just wanted an easy girl !!! next time just go for it and tell the guy you like him tekk him think about it and then lets see how you feel then if doesnt feel the same at least you tried.. i think you should write him an email and ask what did you do wrong ??? that all you wqanted to do was make him feel better and be his girl
2006-11-23 11:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by sweet flower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you caught him by surprise when you told him about your feelings.maybe you went too fast.
i don't think he was that happy.
but , let,s go by parts- first maybe he just did go out whit the other girl just to make a point of view with you, so you wont talk to him anymore.
second if he was that sad because of his father, then he will never go out whit that girl.
and for last , girl if you want to get cheated and hurt again don't look at him again. yes it will hurt but no one ever told you that love wasn't,t easy.
you look like a smart girl. be upfront and be more human that he will ever be, and show him that no one and especially him will hurt you like he did.
DONT SHOW HIM THAT. it will only upgrade his ego.
"live and let it live"
orbytall
2006-11-23 11:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sugar, love hurts. You need to move on. He is not interested in you. Games also hurt and his new girlfriend is rubbing it in. I am so sorry. Keep busy and find Mr. Right.
2006-11-23 11:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by Janet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's jaw dropping. You are too sweet for him because if anyone could openly hurt you like that they are worth nothing. You will find someone who will love you the way you love them.
2006-11-23 11:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋