Family & Relationships - 23 November 2006

okay i have a friend hes 17 he i found out that he likes me so i'm like okay he cute we can try it out so we became friends with benifits we've been seen eachother for a month talkin on the phone for hrs and hrs dedicating songs to eachother you know stuff like that .( were a secret cause our other friends wont like it cause they dont want our group to brake up. they find out and start saying stuff like your in love with her loser stuff like that there being haterz basicly) one day he calls me and says doesnt it get you mad that we can never really be togther cause of everyone talkin **** i was like yeah he said i know it gets me mad . anyways a week passes and he says i dont like you the way i did before lets justbe friends i was heart broken i thought everything was good he even told me we wanted me to go to his home town and vist him when he goes back !! how can he just say he doent like me from one day to the next ? they say he just wnted sex but he never told anyone i did.

2006-11-23 11:12:17 · 1 answers · asked by sweet flower 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been seeing this guy for the last 6 months. he says he loves me, i love him, and things are going great. we've even had sex numerous times, which i think is fine. but now he wants me to be in a threesome with him and his best friend (neitehr are bi-sexual or gay) where i would in the position a man normally is in with two girls on him. im kinda ok with it, but im not really sure. what should i do?

2006-11-23 11:11:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and want some company?

2006-11-23 11:11:38 · 18 answers · asked by lil' vamp 1 in Singles & Dating

If your husband is in the military and he hits you what can you do? First of all it's not me. I know you can call the police but should you call the Military Police, or his superior officer? Anybody ever delt with this before? The guy is in the Navy. Oh, and he's bi-sexual, can we get him in trouble for that too?

2006-11-23 11:11:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-23 11:11:34 · 1 answers · asked by diegoshank 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf n i broke up, he cheated on me coz the other gal wudhave sex with him..btw that girl n i talk now n then..she is nice but i want her to teach him a gud lesson ... so i think ..that what he did to me, she wud do it to him too.. this will b karma

i wanna teach him a lesson that how it feels
plz give me examples of karma so i can realte to this..
help me

2006-11-23 11:11:24 · 17 answers · asked by meee 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 11:11:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Somebody came up to me Tuesday at school and said that my BFF did not want to be my friend anymore because I ignored her too much. I do not think that is true she's just not in any of my classes so I dont see her much. Now, it is Thursday and I don't know if I should call her and if I do, I don't know what to say? HELP! P.S I do know that she really said that because my friend,Libby asked her and she said that she really said that.

2006-11-23 11:11:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

met guy everything great date 2 was telling me he couldnt stop thinking of me wanted to travel with me and that i know it was too soon but i feel a lot for you, bla bla as soon as he waltz in he waltz out i met him on net and he said he would take his photo off as we were togethier now, he took it off and said wasnt talking to anyone else on internet etc, after it seemed he knew i liked him and sex he was gone one day his photo was back on net and i hadnt heard from him for a while i asked him about it but he said his friends did it, saw he again but was different he then was always busy and didnt have guts to tell me he wanted to be with me. we split up i found out he was chasing and talking to all these girls on net and threatinging ad abusing one. tried heaps to contact him as i needed to talk never returned my calls and changed his number i was pregant and had to go to his house to tell him still didnt care story gets worse but did i ruin it as i was really upset or was i used

2006-11-23 11:10:38 · 3 answers · asked by sexygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't think I will run away. But I feel that a fresh start from all the pain I have been dealing with will be good for me. I have been through so much stress like most people in this world and I feel that influence come from the cynical think of a past friend... Perhaps forgetting about it all and starting fresh? what do you guy's think. If you get the chabce look at some old questions I asked and tell me what you would do. LUV YA!!! MUAH!!!

2006-11-23 11:10:05 · 3 answers · asked by tika ukie 2 in Friends

if my dad ever wants anything, he goes and buys it, which leaves me nothing to get him as a gift, hes around 50, but 35 in his mind, he worksout a lot and lvoes sports . . any ideas

2006-11-23 11:08:43 · 8 answers · asked by Balln" 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-23 11:08:22 · 3 answers · asked by Kris 1 in Family

Really need help, its ruining my relationships, cos, im too sturbborn to admit i cant. And , too pigheaded to learn.

2006-11-23 11:08:09 · 13 answers · asked by Eve 1 in Singles & Dating

how do they act. would they give any signs

2006-11-23 11:07:44 · 4 answers · asked by Daisy Duke 2 in Singles & Dating

and he gives me no space 2 myself and if i tell him im going out with my m8s he starts argueing with me because he wnts 2 b with me and i just carnt cope no more and im wondering if im right on thinking i should end i hope some 1 can help

2006-11-23 11:07:29 · 13 answers · asked by luvinlife 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf n i broke up, he cheated on me coz the other gal wudhave sex with him..btw that girl n i talk now n then..she is nice but i want her to teach him a gud lesson ... so i think ..that what he did to me, she wud do it to him too.. this will b karma

i wanna teach him a lesson that how it feels
plz give me examples of karma so i can realte to this..
help me

2006-11-23 11:07:26 · 12 answers · asked by meee 2 in Singles & Dating

How do I approach guys and/or break the ice?

2006-11-23 11:06:16 · 6 answers · asked by G 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and my mum killme if she sees me tALKING TOA BOY AND HE MY NEXT DOOR COUSION AND HE GOES SCHOLL TO PICK HIS SISTER AND I GO TO PICK MINE AND HOW DO I ASK HIM FOR HIS NUMBA PLUS HE LOOKS AT ME N WHEN I PICK MY NEIGHBOUR KIDS HE CAMES BY THEM AND TALKS TO THEM AND ME AND WHERE IM STANDING HE WALK PAST WHAT DO I DO

2006-11-23 11:05:00 · 5 answers · asked by wateva_boy 1 1 in Singles & Dating

He likes someone else. I talk to him often and I don't want to ruin what could be a good friendship.

2006-11-23 11:04:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When a married woman has an affair, what is her man on the side called??

2006-11-23 11:04:28 · 17 answers · asked by Beauty Blessed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

don't tell me ask him what he likes or wants....

2006-11-23 11:03:08 · 9 answers · asked by It'S mEeH!!!!!!!!!!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

what should i do i dont want to end a 4 yr friendship

2006-11-23 11:01:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well umm.. my cousin's da died about a month or so ago and his mom and uncle are planning to keep it from him for as long as possible when they know that he really wants to go see his dad for the summer that is comming and they think that the longer they keep it from him the less harsh it will be on him well i would like to know if you think that this is a good idea and by the way out of all the people under 18 in the family on this childs side i am the only one that knows his father is dead...............

2006-11-23 11:01:34 · 8 answers · asked by that one girl 2 in Family

Alright all you beautiful people! Hope you're having a great Turkey Day. Here's my predicament.

I'm an attractive 22 year old Asian man, 6'1" 210 lb, I'm also financially independent. I live with my gorgeous 21 yr old Caucasian girlfriend whom I've known since HS. Recently she got pregnant! After MUCH discussion, we decided to have the baby. Problem is, her parents don't even know we've been living together for the past 3 months. How the heck are we going to break THIS news?

Am I stressing over nothing? We're both adults and finance isn't really even an issue; we both work and get paid well. I guess I'm worried because although I've had good relations with mom, her dad doesn't really like me. He's just overprotective I guess. Anyways...

I should be ecstatic about the baby and here I am worried about what her parents will think.

BUT, they're hosting the Thanksgiving dinner tonight. Should we tell them in front of everyone? Good or Bad idea?? I'm leaving in 30 minutes!! Gulp

2006-11-23 11:00:23 · 11 answers · asked by CAL07 2 in Singles & Dating

i went to a soccer game one night, with people not from my school. this girl came up to me and said, "my brother thinks you're hot, and wanted me to give you his myspace. he's too much of a chicken to tell you himself." and she gave me a piece of paper with a link and walked away. i didn't even know who he was. i went back home and added him, and he's REALLY REALLY REALLY attractive. he talked to me a little at first, and commented my pictures about how "gorgeous" i am and stuff. i get that a lot, not to be vain or anything. he asked for my screen name. i am only 14 years old, and a freshman. he is a 17 year old junior. BUT i told him i'm a 15 year old sophomore because i was afraid he'd think freshman are lame. he's kind of a little bit of a pervert, but all guys guys his age are so i'm not worried. he wants to hang out at the mall this weekend, and he just asked me on aim "do you kiss on the first date??"

if i do go to the mall, i'm not sure what he's going to expect. help me out?

2006-11-23 10:58:39 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my best friend constantly argue over crazy stuff and we always use the words '' i dont care'' but even though she knows i dont mean it it sometimes looks like she does i mean i dont know what i would do with out her she is really the only true friend that i have she accepts me and is always there but we really need to find a way to cease all the arguing cause it hurts me and i think constantly that im a screw up and im gonna lose her what should we do?

2006-11-23 10:57:53 · 16 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Friends

My baby is always angry with something i'm doing, and it seems she's always mad at me. I love seeing her smile, and I love making her happy. What can I do to put her in a better mood?, no matter the relationship situation...

2006-11-23 10:56:27 · 19 answers · asked by littlewolf333 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 10:55:31 · 6 answers · asked by alexis n 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-23 10:54:48 · 24 answers · asked by Lizzie 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been dating by boyfriend for about 1month and a half and i really want to kiss and i think he wants to kiss me to we almost did but i guess we decided not to because my mom was stading right there. we dont get to see each other very often only like 1 time a week at church and i don't know if i should kiss him there. and where should i kiss him should i when nobody is looking or does it matter and do i kiss him first or do i wait till he kisses me, plz help me

2006-11-23 10:54:08 · 5 answers · asked by leelandrew 1 in Singles & Dating