what should i do i dont want to end a 4 yr friendship
2006-11-23 11:01:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK. This is kind of tough. Um You should tell her that a 16 year old boy is not what she should be into at her age. Tell her that he could ruin her life if he does 1 thing to her, try to talk to her calmly and just be nice about it, and show that it bothers you and ask her if that boy matters to her more than you do then just say that maybe you shouldn't be friends.. ONLY if the boy matters more that you and your feelings.
2006-11-23 11:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO don't tell her anything. Try and be a good friend and advise her that it's fine to talk to whomever she pleases but as long as that's all it is. If you go trying to tell her what she can and can't do she will only get her back up and do things just to spite you. I certainly believe that she is far too young to be involved with a 16 year old as l'm sure he would want to do more than just talk. He is not worth breaking up your friendship as l'm sure you will be around a lot longer than he will. Be a good close friend, keep your eyes and ears open and if you feel that things are getting out of hand, then perhaps speak to your friend again or maybe to your mum and ask her for advice on what to do. Hope this helped a little. Good luck
2006-11-23 11:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A four year difference is too great. The 16 yr old is MUCH smarter than your 12 yr old friend - and he may talk her into something she is not ready for yet.
2006-11-23 11:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by tomkat1528 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not fair if you interfere in her business and I know you are only caring about your friend but at 12 she will only form a good friendship with him and it may not last forever so just stay by her side as a friend. Her first love will mean something to her and she may not appreciate you butting in with your opinion so be careful.
2006-11-23 11:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by friendly face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, anything you say to her will go in one ear and out the other. Teens, particularly at that age, are notorious for rejecting advice. The best thing to do to just let her know how you feel about the situation, but to remain supportive of her. Just let her do her thing, and she'll learn her lesson and be a friend she'll need when she needs one.
2006-11-23 11:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is headed for trouble. They live on two different planets. His hormones are currently going nuts and she might get caught up in a situation she can't handle. Girls frequently give sex to get love (I love you) while guys frequently say, " I love you" to get sex. Talking is one thing, spending one on one time with him alone is another. Does her parents know about this? if not, they should.
2006-11-23 11:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her date who she wants and talk to her about making sure she don't do nothing stupid and if he does end up hurting her byl ike breaking up with her or being a jerk, be there for her.
2006-11-23 11:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by blacknessforeverandever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends is intitled to talk to anyone that she wants to. I would just let things be and if she wants to talk about it then listen.
Nothing is worth fighting over. LIke I said, just let her do what she wants.
2006-11-23 11:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by pinky_lady_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't because she might get mad at you. It's not worth losing a friend. But if you think he's not treating her right, then just talk to her about it.
2006-11-23 11:07:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just having a crush is fine, he might flirt with her for entertainment but its not like they'll ever go out. just let them be friends, there's no harm in it but make sure your friend has a reality check and isn't obsessing over him.
2006-11-23 11:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋