what can i do to make my best friend see that i need and love her?

Question

me and my best friend constantly argue over crazy stuff and we always use the words '' i dont care'' but even though she knows i dont mean it it sometimes looks like she does i mean i dont know what i would do with out her she is really the only true friend that i have she accepts me and is always there but we really need to find a way to cease all the arguing cause it hurts me and i think constantly that im a screw up and im gonna lose her what should we do?

Answer 1

CALL A TRUCE , SIT AND TALK IT OUT , AND COME TO AN UNDERSTANDING

Answer 2

Oh darlin, just tell her. If you're always arguing, then maybe the relationship's not what you thought it was. Maybe, deep down, she doesn't feel the same way? I hope, for your sake, that that's not true, but maybe she does mean 'I don't care as much as you do'. I don't know if that's what it is, but you must be prepared for that. I'm so sorry.

Answer 3

OK I have had this happen to me before so this is what I would do if u know she is ur best friend than just tell or call and tell her that if she really is ur best friend than she has 2 prove it some how so u can trust her again as u use 2.

Answer 4

Me and my best friend are just like this. Recently we started talking again after she ditched me for her bf. We fight because we care and dont want to see eachother make a mistake that will further hurt us. I still don't know how to stop the fighting, maybe it's inevitable but ytou just got to remember to forgive and make your feelings apparent but don't mistake it with hurting your friend. And vica versa. don't take everything she says personally and put yourself in her shoes. I wish the best of luck to you both! Remember, friends are forever no matter what imperfections and mistakes you may make. Being friends means never having to say Im sorry but being willing to anyways.

Answer 5

Okay. True story. I went to my 30th year class reunion--I know, I'm old, but hear me out--and my best friend, with whom I'd lost touch, showed up with a poem in her hand that I'd written to her while we were in high school. It was about best friends. I have no recollection of writing it, but it was my handwriting. I cannot believe she kept it all of these years! So, she told me that the only reason she came to the reunion was in hopes of seeing me. We spent a lot of time together that evening, leaving our men to get to know one another, and we are in constant contact these days. Write her a poem. All the best!

Answer 6

We sometimes say things we don't mean. Just say, tomorrow is a new day and I'm going to show my friend that I care. I think number one is just to be there for your friend, give her support, say only kind words, say things to make her day brighter. Be a true friend

Answer 7

There is nothing greater than the truth, You have too argue or you wouldn't be friends, if you didn't argue maybe you wouldn't even be friends.

Answer 8

You should send her a ecard if she has an E-Mail, or send her a letter that says, You are the only one who I can talk to, You are the only one who really knows me, and if I am doing anything that makes you mad just tell me, I love you,


then your name!

Answer 9

argue, not a problem, it help both of you to understand each other view.

If your don't want to fall in to argument simple say "sorry, sorry", or "ok ok ok u r right", use like this comments to stop for that movement. Agree what she say that movement. or play this game : YES "her comment" AND "add your comment" ;

Answer 10

Hi!!
Sit down with your friend and share with her your feelings and she can share hers with you and that way you two can get things straighten out and you two can be happy again

Answer 11

sit her down and talk to her, tell her you are fed up with your arguing x