WE have been going out 2 years 3 months and we never talk!! i don't feel the same way i used to about him i know he loves me but how do i know if i love him!! i have thought about beraking up with him but i don't want ot hurt him our familys are really close (little bros in same grade) i don't know what to do!! friend tell me to bread up with him and other friends tell me to talk to him but i have and nothing ever changes!!!! i am counfused!!!! HELP ME!!!!
2006-11-23 11:21:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you already know you don't love him. Break it off. The longer you wait the harder it gets. When you find Mr. Right you will love him with all your heart. Never want to leave his side and do all you can do to make him happy. What you have here is no relationship. You already know that, so move on.
2006-11-23 11:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by Janet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the best thing to do in this situation is follow your heart! The decision of breaking up or staying in a relationship should be based on how you feel about it and not how the other person feels. Yes, he may love you but if you don't feel the same way about him then it is not worth staying because you could end up hurting him or yourself in the long-run. One of the key aspects in any relationship is COMMUNICATION!!!! but it seems that you don't have that in your relationship...if you have thought about breaking up then it might be a sign that you are not happy or satisfied. Try talking to him one more time and let him know how you feel about the whole situation. If things remain the same then I think you will know what you should do!! I hope you make the right decision for YOU!! Good luck!!!
2006-11-23 11:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by sweet-b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you can barely stant to be away from that persona at nigth whem it is time to spoon and
you hald each other with no words being said and saying I love you flows and and it makes you feel so good it does not seem forced it flows and it is received with loss control of al that is physical at thaaaaat is love althouugh thiis is still a smallexample this should happen and your parents house or in th back of a van all wet ant sold and yet you still feel fin and fufille
2006-11-23 11:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by inmatters 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I can put this any bolder...BOUNCE. I spent alot of time in many relationships with people I didn't like anymore because I didn't want to hurt thier feelings....it hurts and it drives you to insanity.
I look at it like this now....can I spend the rest of my life with this person ? If I see them and can't possibly imagine spending any more time with that person I let them go....because not only do you deserve someone who will be in the same boat as you...they do as well.
2006-11-23 11:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by alfredtwyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to take a chance. If he is not who you are looking in a guy then he is not the one. If you do feel you love him then you do. If you are just staying with him just because your close the you might just break up.
2006-11-23 11:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by blazikan4213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak out. If you love him, how caome you havent spoke to him, but going out with him. Love only comes after you and him had chat and understand him.
I will advise you to ask him for a date, an openly speak to him, be confident and ask him what's his feeling about you? Ask him to take you out to some romantic hideout, which will make him understand how you feel about him.
2006-11-23 11:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by THILLAI a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you hve to think about if you love someone or not, you don't. You're more concerned about other people's feelings than your own. They'll get over it, so will you. Your not confused, you're afraid of the truth.
2006-11-23 11:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by Mimy ImFurst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple in my opinion. You need to meet a lot of new friends and see if your life takes a different direction.
2006-11-23 11:25:25 · answer #8 · answered by bobweb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love itself is confusing
the way to find out if you love someone is if when their gone all you can see is their wavy red hair, their deep brown eyes and seeing this in your mind, makes you all warm and loving inside.
if they make you laugh when you think of them, when they're beside you all you want to do is stare into their eyes forever
2006-11-23 11:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant get tat person off ur head
and ur heart beats faster whenever u think of tat person
and you just have to talk to tat person and stare at tat person
tats how i feel when i like someone :S
2006-11-23 11:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by AZN_PRIDE_987654321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋