Family & Relationships - 22 November 2006

Yahoo answers is getting in the way of me doing my job.
I can either quit my job, or quit Yahoo answers.
One pays better, but the other is more interesting.....

2006-11-22 07:07:35 · 16 answers · asked by fucose_man 5 in Marriage & Divorce

When I visited London, UK last summer, I did not find people on the road wearing their traditional English attire. No suit, no tie, no felt hat. They weren't holding stick in their hands and the atmosphere was very informal. When I asked my British friend what had happened to the age old englishman he said We in't British anymore... We are all Americans now!!

2006-11-22 07:07:14 · 7 answers · asked by Justanian 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ladies - would you be angry if you found out that your husband or boyfriend spent a lot of money in a strip club? If he spent a whole lot of money would you suspect he was cheating on you with one of the dancers?

2006-11-22 07:06:42 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She says it was never serious just casual, and she has no feelings for him, but still wants to dance with him if they happen to meet at the
dance club she frequents. I have told her this is unnacceptable, but she cannot understand this.

I now have to decide what to do, let it go, or give her an ultimatum.
To me she is still cheating, and she says she is not. It is just dancing, but I know better.

What do I do?

2006-11-22 07:06:24 · 20 answers · asked by axecrap 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bestfriend who is like my sister is havin prob at home n her parents treat he like **** but she cant survive in that enviorment she has 2 good outfits and the rest of her cloths are trash all she has to eat is stuff that me and my friends give her.... when her rents talk to her they talk to her like she is a dog and ppl dont see it because she is 15 turning 16 soon and she comes to me cryin but her rents put on a act they abuse her mentally but not physically so she cant get the police involved she doesnt know what to do can she get amansipated for it her rents arnt there for her and she has been physically abused and raped n the past but now its just mental she goes home and doesnt come out of her room and when she calls me she is crying scared shitless everynight saying that she wants out over and over agian i love her she is my sissy please help

2006-11-22 07:06:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am always givin my boyfried stuff like sweets and money an he has never given me anything!! i feel like he doesn't feel im worth giving stuff to! he always tells me he really loves me over txt messages but he has only ssaid it to my face 3 times including the time he asked me out which was 6 months ago. We hav kissed but wat do u think????

2006-11-22 07:05:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 07:05:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My sister got married one year back. Before marraige her husband didn't tell us lots of thigs regarding his job. he left his job after marriage. he showed interest in study. so my family thought to help him in his education so that he could get good job. we put all our efforts. Now he is studing. but he keeps abusing my sister on phone. He comes at my home and stayes there for 10-15 days. He satyes in his school only for 5-6 days and keeps going home to his mother. My sister is doing job too. she is very much disturbed. My father has aksed him not to come at home and concentrate on his study. Now his mother is calling my sister and abusing her. Very frequently he keeps saying bad words to my sis but when she stopes taking to him he starts sending emails, SMS and promises not to repeat that but it again happenes after 10-15 days. Now we all very much tensed. My parents live with my sis. He has hurt my sis once when she went at his home. What way should my family go?

2006-11-22 07:04:59 · 14 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I wasn't to creative with mine (William T) but I answer a question and saw someone's name that had me crackin up!! I nominate you Deez (see associated picture). Question I saw it under was from MsNic--Men, when you go out...

2006-11-22 07:04:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Since my brother met this girl, he's changed. This girl is really fake. you see, she's your typical money loving sleezy hoebag. She constantly twists my words and tell my brother things completely different from what I said so he'll yell at me. She's quite obese, and I mean like 300lbs and she walks around in just short shorts and a sports bra but then tells me I have to "put clothes on" when I'm wearing regular shorts shorter than boy basketball shorts. She's always yelling at people for moving her laundry that she leaves in the washer for days or for leaving the hall light on when you step back in your room real quick. we got into an arguement last night about the laundry thing and my brother took her side and said that I am dead to him. She always leaves the sink full and her crap all over the place even though 4 other people live there. She's not on the lease and can't live there. Would I be wrong to report her after I move out?

2006-11-22 07:04:41 · 16 answers · asked by .:*giggles*:. 3 in Family

My husband says it is just male behavoir to want to look at nude women,but everytime he goes on the computer this is what he looks at. Am I just overracting?

2006-11-22 07:04:13 · 17 answers · asked by icequeen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My baby half-sister was very upset that our ex sister-in-law called her boyfriend's cell-phone looking for the father of her 3 children. The only reason my sister-in-law called the number was because I gave her the number not knowing it was my sister's boyfriends new cell phone number. The number was on my caller ID and I thought it was my brother's new number. Well anyways, my sister tells me; she doesn't like her and those kids are my family. She even called me a ***** in a passive-aggressive kind of way. Is there probably something deeper going on with her and me?

2006-11-22 07:03:53 · 2 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family

i am always givin my boyfried stuff like sweets and money an he has never given me anything!! i feel like he doesn't feel im worth giving stuff to! he always tells me he really loves me pver txt messages but he has only ssaid it to my face 3 times including the time he asked me out which was 6 months ago. We hav kissed but wat do u think????

2006-11-22 07:03:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lately I have been around a lot of brides-to-be and their families and I have been hearing this "living in sin" stuff nonstop. What's the big deal? It seems hypocritical to me to call out other people if they decide to live with their significant other before marriage (or not even get married at all....what a thought!!), especially if the couple isn't living together but still has sex before marriage and looks down on couples who live together because of the assumption that couples who live together have sex out of wedlock. I dont know, sort of rambling but just eager to hear opinions! :)

Oh, another comment that gets me is "Why are they having such a big wedding if their already living together?"........what?! Any thoughts/opinions/beliefs?

2006-11-22 07:03:06 · 8 answers · asked by nooneimportant 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my relationship was almost destroyed when i found out my husband was staying up late at night to watch internet porn...i found out he'd been doing it for a couple months, and when i confronted him, he denied it. eventually he had to admit it though because there was no getting around it. he says he doesn't know why he did it, but he will NEVER do it again and he doesn't even want to do it again. my question is, is possible for him to not look at porn anymore, or will it eat at him until he does something worse? i really need some opinions please. i'm afraid if he can't stop our relationship will be over.
oh yes, and i've asked him if it's our sex life that caused it, and he says it's not. if anything i should be the one turning to porn because he is very "quick," but i've NEVER made him feel ashamed or even brought it up, so i'm just not sure what to do!

2006-11-22 07:02:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we met on a website.
1st time meet: April. He is in london all the time. I am in another city. Met for a quick chat as i pass by london by chance. and i was in the middle of breaking up. He was v polite and paid dinner bill. and send me back to tube.

2nd time. Sep. I moved to london and back in touch with him. And he had dinner with me again. and brought me back to his flat. and (friday night) he said i could stay over and he can drive me back next morning. i said it is ok i prefer go back same night.

3rd time. I was busy . he been quite keen to ask me out and offering to come to see me in the weekend. i said busy.
we went out again and dinenr and theatre and he kissed me. and send me back to train station.

then i started to have some feeling about him. i txted him that i like him. and dating with him reminds of highschool innocent time. he reaplied back with no mention about like me but joking not that innocent.
then afterwards he is v busy. i feel bit insecure as why a guy kissed me then cool down never ask me out agin? so i asked him out. but he went back home for weekend.
he seems bit over focusing on naughty jokes.

so i txted him: do u wana a **** buddie?
he : i dont know what i want. that is the problem. i never had **** buddie beofre.
me: me neither.
him: why u ask?
me: nothing. testing water.
him: ok. night . buddie. we should try.

then my best gay friend suggested me should go to bed with him if i really like him. no need to wait for too long.

so i txt him joking come to see me and **** brain out.
he drove a hour to see me with a bottle of champagne. and i am not sure he is shy or what. i did all the seduction.

afterwards. he drove back to work 5.30am. we been txting quite sweet.
then i m bit annoyed as i recall he never said he likes me or what. or just pure lust?
so i txted him: do u think is there only lust between us?

no reply.....

what shall i do next?
r we really just **** buddie?

2006-11-22 07:02:44 · 14 answers · asked by oooooo 1 in Singles & Dating

this is actually a really weird situation. Like a week before my mom moved to Kentucky she met this guy named Roger. He was a really cool guy and all. They talked a few times. Well the day she left he called me. and i knew that he had been in a really bad relationship. And he was trying to get out of one right now. He has to kids a 14 yr old son and a 17 yr old daughter. We have talked a lot. He wants some one that will talk to him and not want to go to the bar all of the time. He wants some one that will spend time with him and car for him. I want someone that is not all about partying, drinking, drugs and not helping support your self. i dont want someone that i am going to have to support. I dont want to party and hang out all of the time. I have a job and i would like to keep it. I and 19 and i want to settle down. Am i to young to settle down already. I have had my share of drinking and getting sick, and all of the stuff that i used to think was fun. Do you think that i am ready?

2006-11-22 07:02:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My soon-to-be-ex and I seperated 8 months ago, we both have attorneys, but he and his attorney are dragging their feet. I am not emotionally attached to him any more, and haven't been for quite some time (hence the divorce). I never quite felt the "soul mate" feeling, but tried relentlessly to make it work anyhow. But, I'm starting to become emotionally attached to someone else now...is that wrong?

2006-11-22 07:02:11 · 14 answers · asked by kiigetto 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever been separated from your love, buy time and distance.......then the holidays brings you back together and the first time you are alone.....you are all over each other, just about tearing each others clothes off........so much action, you can't keep it on the bed.....I pulled a calf muscle....thank god

2006-11-22 07:02:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you're best friend for 9 years didn't trust you for the past 7-8 years?? And you just found out recently, but you didn't want to lose the friendship?? Would that even be considered friends? Should you just end it even though now you are legally part of her family??

2006-11-22 07:01:50 · 4 answers · asked by MARJ213 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean i know that there are some cute popular girls that are nice i have gotten that alot but come on mean nasty ugly girls! how is that supposed to make the people that actually try and are cute and nice be ranked as one of the mean girls?!
-mar!

2006-11-22 07:01:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im real fat I suck in my stomach everyday and look thin. if I get a girl friend when and how do I tell her?

2006-11-22 06:59:41 · 10 answers · asked by Jake Tyler 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a quite gullible person, so some people find it funny to treat me as if I'm dumb, and I usually find it ok because I can see they're being sweet, but some people treat me like ****, usually guys or some girls, what do I say for them to stop without making a mess?

2006-11-22 06:59:28 · 22 answers · asked by MAR 1 in Friends

2006-11-22 06:59:19 · 9 answers · asked by PegOfUSA 1 in Friends

Ok i bought my boyfriend an engagement ring its really nice and a little expensive, our anniversary is Dec 2nd it will be 3 years for us. And so i decided to propse to him does that sound stupid be honest please.

2006-11-22 06:58:36 · 31 answers · asked by Ashley A 2 in Weddings

2006-11-22 06:58:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he says he loves me and he cares about me.. he lives like 20mins away and he broke up wit me cuz of that and we were togather for 8months and I LOVE HIM>> and theres no one like him and now hes with this ugly Ho**... lol.. IM VERY Jealous.....AND he said wen im 18 we can be back togather.. thats bs cuz hes gonna get commpletly ova me by then. >>>>>>>>>>>>SO WHAT can i do to make him WANT ME????????????

2006-11-22 06:57:49 · 9 answers · asked by ~*iTaLiAnMaMi*~ 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a montha dn 3 weeks and hes amazing i could ask for a better boyfriend.. and i want to do something really cute for our 2 months, anybody have any suggestions??

2006-11-22 06:57:42 · 1 answers · asked by Shona 1 in Singles & Dating

if you have.. what age? no need to go into graphics. thank you

2006-11-22 06:56:59 · 26 answers · asked by lasvegasguy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

It has happened a few times and i am really confused. they say hi to me and i saw hi to them and then one of us just kind of walks away. Are they just being friendly or what.

2006-11-22 06:56:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating