Is my boyfriend still into me??

Question

i am always givin my boyfried stuff like sweets and money an he has never given me anything!! i feel like he doesn't feel im worth giving stuff to! he always tells me he really loves me pver txt messages but he has only ssaid it to my face 3 times including the time he asked me out which was 6 months ago. We hav kissed but wat do u think????

Answer 1

When you're together do you feel like he wants to be somewhere else? Or is it as fun for both of you as it was in the beginning? Some boys are rubbish at stuff like this and sometimes need a bit of a prod.
Can you talk to him about anything? If you can, try it. If you can't, try dropping things in in a light hearted way and see if he gets the hint!
Good Luck :-)

Answer 2

go buy the book "He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys." The author is one of the writers for the show "Sex and the City."
It's a great book, I've read it, it's actually a best seller. It basically gives you the basics of how men think and act. That should help you.
But on a personal note, I would quit the giving, men are suppose to be the givers not the women. When you make things too easy for a man, the hunt is over, there's no excitement. Remember man is biologically the aggresser. Trust me on this, I'm engaged, and found a great guy, obviously you have to go thru some bad apples to find a good one.
But seriously buy the book, it's less than $20 buck!

Answer 3

STOP, STOP, STOP!!! What you gotta understand is people tend to take too much nice stuff for granted. If you truley want to seduce ths guy and make him your slave, mix pleasure with pain, like after being your sweet self, turn mean on his ***, that's right, stir desire with confusion, he won't know what hit 'em, ypu could also create a love triangle, make him feel that someone else is intrested, nothing raises your value more than someone else wanting you, it could be real or fake, but it works, and don't worry about him getting so upset that he'll leave, jealousy is the fan to the flames of love, or if all else fails, promote a break-up. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, familiarity kills the seduction, So make him miss your sweet stuff, gurl!

Answer 4

Hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it really sounds like he's hanging around with you because of what you do for him, not because he thinks you're special. Saying "I love you" to someone is very easy and is simply lip service if your actions don't show it. Here's an easy test: If you had to figure out whether he really loves you just by the way he treats you and nothing else, what would your answer be? If your answer is he doesn't love you because he doesn't really act like he does, chances are he doesn't.

Answer 5

For one-stop giving him things unless it's a gift giving occasion such as his birthday or Christmas! You will soon find out if it's you he's interested in,or the things he gets from you.

Answer 6

I think... since you asked... that you should stop worrying about the situation with your boyfriend, and instead try to devote more time and effort to learning how to use the English language.

Answer 7

how old are you?

anyways. if you keep giving he will keep taking.
you let him get away with it.
stop giving him stuff.
he is just using you for what he can get from you.
he might change if you stop.
if he doesnt want to see you anymore coz you dont give him stuff then he is just a no good user
who doesnt like you for you.

Answer 8

no, it seems like he might be seeing someone else. but im sure u can do beta, and find some one whos really loves u.

Answer 9

stop giving him stuff and see if he sticks around, if he does he's into you but shy, if he doesn't stick around it means he was using you. x x x best of luck. x x x

Answer 10

HE USING U GIRL TELL HIM TO KICK ROCKS GIRL YOU CAN DO BAD ALL BAD BY YOURSELF U CAN SPEND MONEY ON YOUR SELF INSTEAD OF GIVING IT TO HIM MOVE ON.