im real fat I suck in my stomach everyday and look thin. if I get a girl friend when and how do I tell her?
2006-11-22 06:59:41 · 10 answers · asked by Jake Tyler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she's gonna dump you over that, you didn't want her in the first place! When she stays with you, that's when you know she's a decent person. And likes you! ;)
2006-11-22 07:03:00 · answer #1 · answered by coolgurl_5us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all dont call yourself fat. If you feel and look that way and youre not content with yourself the first thing you should do is consider losing some weight. But remember that you need to do this for yourself. Confidence is important in every aspect of life. If youre finding yourself sucking in your stomach then its clear you care of what people think of you hence its affecting your self estime. So how about you work on that first and then we'll figure out what to tell potential girlfriends.
2006-11-22 07:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by JaceBlue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. If she loves you she shouldn't care. And if you can suck in your stomach and you look thin then it must not be super huge. Try a light work out, it will help you get in shape and make you more CONFIDENT!
2006-11-22 07:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she truely did like you, she wouldn't care if you are fat, thin, purple, blue, or green. And you need to stop pretending you are somebody you are not. It's not healthy. You keep this up and you are liable to have an emotional explosion and your girlfriend will not know what to do, she'll be confused. Does this make sense??? Good luck
2006-11-22 07:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by MARJ213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shouldnt matter how u look, but if she really likes u than she wont care if ur fat. if she really likes u for who u r then tell her or just be yourself!
2006-11-22 07:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by megz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit sucking it in and be honest with yourself and the person you want to date
2006-11-22 07:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth..... truth shud never be hidden.......but shared. if she really loves u, she doesnt mind whetther u r fat or slim.... when u r truly in love , u feel that ur soul loves each other....
2006-11-22 07:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by broken_heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't say it. Save yourself the agony.
2006-11-22 07:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "Baby I wanna love you, don't break my heart".
2006-11-22 07:05:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm she shouldnt care...
2006-11-22 07:01:57 · answer #10 · answered by foreveryoung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋