2006-11-22 06:58:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if you ask him to talk and he let's u then ask him for one more chance in private not in front of his friends. if he won't talk to u in private then im sry hes just not worth it i think you could get a better guy.
2006-11-22 07:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna H 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hey Maggie, first of all, try not to sulk too much. It might seem pretty rough at the moment, but it will get better. I don't want to bad-mouth your ex, but a couple of the words used in your question actually should help you get over this sooner. The fact that he gave you no reason hurts a lot, but perhaps he might actually be trying to spare your feelings by not giving you a reason. The actual reason could be something you may not want to know. You say he's a boy? That should answer it all for you. Being a man myself, I know for certain that when we're young, there's a lot we haven't figured out yet, especially how to deal with women. Hopefully someday he'll learn to appreciate women. If you are also young, actually, regardless of age, love can always find you again. It's the strongest thing in the universe and has a way of breaking through even the darkest situations. Keep your head up, my friend. Go sit in the sun, listen to some good music, and smile!
2006-11-22 15:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by roaminglion12 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You accept it because you have no other options.
He doesn't tell you why because he doesn't want to hurt you and because he more than likely has another girlfriend.
he may have been using you if you only slept together and never really dated.
please stop thinking about him and put some happy music on and go hang out with friends and have fun.
He might change his mind if he doesn't see you moping and feeling sorry for yourself.
go out and enjoy life.
he isn't crying over you so , please don't ever let him see you sad, men never find this attractive and I am certain you will not win back his heart if he hears or sees you crying over it.
so chin up, and smile on and soon you'll forget all about it.
He was the first of many loves to come.
and believe me it may take some time but you will recover.
trust me.
2006-11-22 15:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hunny ive been dumped by two girls that i have loved more than any thing one just on friday and its killing me im a grown man and nothing makes me cry but losing a love so it going to be hard and hes not going to give you a reason the reason is he doesnt feel the same weather it was a seires of events that lead to that or it just want ment to be its time to pick your self up move on go have fun your singel again but dont do anything that you wouldnt normaly do just because your hurt
2006-11-22 15:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am goin throught the same thing right now. The girl I was dating broke up with me a week after picking out an engagement ring an making so many plans an she never would tell me why. So I know how you feel right now and it is hard. I dont know if I can get over her, but you like me has to try to an move on. Good luck
2006-11-22 15:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by Matt C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all ur a gurl and a guy is supposed to beg you to be with him Y becos gurls can get any guy at any time, respect yourself and have confidence and just don't even bother to ask him the reason if he doesn't give you the reason just move on as if u throw out a very worthless thing , lemme tell you the reason 1:u love him he doesn't love you.2: he got another gurl he just wants to get rid off you. these type of ppl are not worthy to be with and be in love with .spend you time with some one who is worthy for that keep it in mind ur a gurl A WOMAN is respectable.
2006-11-22 15:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He will not be the only boy you ever loved. If a man can be with you and spend time with you yet look you in your beautiful face and tell you he doesn't want to be with you do you really want to be with him? Move on you will fall in love at least 50 more times in this lifetime.
2006-11-22 15:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by Venus 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Those are the worst break ups when they are vauge and do not give you any kind of closure take a deep breath and know that its not your fault and it will work out better next time with someone else so hang in there
2006-11-22 15:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's a tough experience to endure since as you said he is your first love...thus it will be hard for you to experience a break-up if it were to happen...
However don't be too overconcerned with how you will react.. At this stage it's best to make the most of what you've got!! :)
2006-11-22 15:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by Charlene 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How should every girl be treated
As if without her you're not completed
And when her world is rocked with emotion
She should feel our unswaying devotion
And when she wants more and more
Still we'll hold that open door
And when her world is coming apart
She will know she still has our heart
I hope this get's the attention of the right girl so she will contact me too.
2006-11-22 15:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by dwsum41@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'll give you the reason, you are clingy and were smothering him. You wouldn't stop calling, you never let him hang out with the boys with out giving him the third degree. You made way too many demands and didn't give it up enough, or your one of those "i don't do oral" gals. That's why! Oh yeah, BUY A DOUCHE!!!!!!
2006-11-22 15:02:54 · answer #11 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋