Family & Relationships - 22 November 2006

I never see my friends anymore.

It's all because I went to college early (Which I do not regret!). Sure, I've met a lot of great people there, but new friendships are really tough to keep strong when you're a commuter who can't drive. And even though I still live near my high school friends, they all seem way too busy to ever hang out anymore. All I have is my boyfriend and my parents... Anyone else in a similar situation? Should I wait it out or force my friends to take time out of their busy schedules to see me?

2006-11-22 10:30:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Even though we haven't talked to each other in a year and she is still mad at me?

2006-11-22 10:30:20 · 11 answers · asked by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 in Singles & Dating

He's turning 26 and said he doesn't want to make a big deal of it, but I want to do something special for him.

In the early evening he's going out to the pub with a few friends (I can't go...I'm still under 21. Plus I want him to hang out with his friends for a while) but then for the rest of the night he says we can do whatever I want.

Obviously the night isn't about what I want, it's about him. Any good ideas?

2006-11-22 10:29:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's turning 28 and don't know what to do? He's mad as hell that I don't plan stuff although when I ask him what does he want to do he just says you should already know and plan something.. I'm so frustrated because its the same sthi every time?? Honestly I don't care now because all he does is give me grief that he wants something but never tells me anything??Am I wrong??

2006-11-22 10:28:46 · 17 answers · asked by jmilil 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend told me she is preggers, she is only 17, and she says her b/f is no where to be seen as he knows the news. why do some guys do that?

2006-11-22 10:27:41 · 25 answers · asked by alpha.female 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 10:27:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The problem is that I like to have sex at least four to five times a week.And my husband doesn't.I am really worried because we have been married for two years know and we are really young.I have 19 and he is 21.We have a 6 month baby but I don't think that matters or does it.And another thing he is not working right now so I don't think he is tired.And I am sure he is not cheating because he is always at home and when I go study for one hour and half he stays with the baby.I dont know what to think.Maybe he doesn't love me anymore, but I ask him and he says he loves me.Please help.Any advise, comments.

2006-11-22 10:26:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A young doctor had moved to a small community to replace a doctor who was retiring. The older gent suggested the young one accompany him on his rounds so the community could become used to a new doctor.

At the first house, a woman complained, "I've been a little sick to my stomach."

The older doctor said, "Well, you've probably been overdoing the fresh fruit. Why not cut back on the amount you've been eating and see if that does the trick?"

As they left, the younger man said, "You didn't even examine that woman. How'd you come to your diagnosis so quickly?"

"I didn't have to. You noticed I dropped my stethoscope on the floor in there? When I bent over to pick it up, I noticed a half dozen banana peels in the trash. That was what was probably making her sick."

"Huh," the younger doctor said, "Pretty sneaky. I think I'll try that at the next house."

Arriving at the next house, they spent several minutes talking with an elderly woman. She complained that she just didn't have the energy she once did.

"I'm feeling terribly run down lately," she said.

"You've probably been doing too much work for the church," the younger doctor told her. "Perhaps you should cut back a bit and see if that helps."

As they left, the elder doctor said, "Your diagnosis is almost certainly correct, but how did you arrive at it?"

"Well, just like you, at the last house, I dropped my stethoscope. When I bent down to retrieve it, I noticed the preacher under the bed."

2006-11-22 10:25:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im goin out with this girl and we were suppose to hang out but she had to take pictures for year book, then she texts me this mornin sayin her and her ex are now talkin again and they are friends and she doesnt want me to get her, i ask why i would get hurt she said she didnt know if i would be mad that they are talkin and

then she said she might still have feelings for him but would never get back with him and that she really liked me, then she comes over and has a mark on her neck that looks like a hickey but she says its from her straightenner that broke and burned her

then we went to burger king and she had a picture of her ex boyfriend on the glass part of her dash board where the speedometer is

so i call a friend of mine that goes to the same school (woodland) and he said she would never get back with him but all this **** leads up to her cheatin on me

and this week has been really bad in different ways so i need an outside persepective cause all i can think is bad

2006-11-22 10:25:02 · 8 answers · asked by alex_harris21 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 10:23:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is for all the fathers who have been through this and not someone just guessing. What were the things that you wife/girlfriend did or could have done to make you wanna leave WHILE SHE WAS PREGNANT? Things that would totally piss you off? I know you guys understand what we go through, but someone drove you nuts right?

2006-11-22 10:23:31 · 2 answers · asked by 1st time mom 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

we dated for 1.5 yrs.we argued(he cried everytime i tried to leave),bc he was a jerk up till about the 8thMonth,when he started mentioning marriage.then i dumped him bc i had to leave school for 5months.when i came back we got back together.his parents didn't like me anymore.this time it was on/off n more arguing.i left him a few times and went back, but he refused to get back together.then he would come crying back to me later.the last time i left him, he didn't want to get back together n was going on a date with a new, very nerdy girl.i got so mad that i said yes to a guy that was asking me to b in a relationship.it was announced,and the next day my ex asked that new girl to be in a relationship w/ him.i stopped talking to him n he started telling people he was depressed.i had dinner with him, and he's flirty and tells me he missed me so much(we were apart for a week).i send him letter and he never responds for 2 days.but bc i'm silent, he calls me.i call back, no answer.CONFUSION!!

2006-11-22 10:23:22 · 10 answers · asked by l_brew0 1 in Singles & Dating

I’m a white guy but I have always been attracted and impressed by Latin women, IMO they are some what taken for granted and not given enough attention by the media. From my experience Latin are not only physically beautiful but also hard working, smart, caring, sweet, funny, loyal, and great mothers. Anyone agree that they are underrated?

2006-11-22 10:23:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 10:23:13 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the guy i like is really shy and had been flirting with me for about a year. when i was hanging out with a group of friends, his best friend (who would obviously know in advance) asked who he liked... and he just shrugged, but i could see his face turn red. so everytime he named someone my crush would give him a look that screamed "where'd you get that from?!"... but when he came to my name, he didn't do anything. his friend didn't seem too suprised. instead, he asks me "do you want to go out with ___? i know you do... " we were all silent and i didn't know what to do- i was in a state of shock. well, the guy i liked said that his friend was just joking, but he said it with a shaky voice.
a few days went by before the guy i like started to talk to me again.

so my question is... did he ask me out?

2006-11-22 10:22:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am planning to break up with my lover who is married. The problem is i am really in love with him, and i broke up with him before, everytime i date someone else i feel so guily and can't get him out of my head. Any suggestion on how to definetely move on. Whether by myself or how to change my mindset and be open to new people ?

2006-11-22 10:21:16 · 23 answers · asked by . 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-22 10:21:10 · 29 answers · asked by Dom 2 in Singles & Dating

I lived in Florida, and I had a boyfriend, Keith. I ended up moving with him to Panama City Beach and we had an apartment together and stuff. We were together for about 2 years. We were pretty serious and talked a lot about getting married and having a family some day.
We broke up not too long after I moved back home to California and I haven't spoken to him for almost exactly two years (kind of a bad breakup). I looked him up on MySpace and although his profile is set to private, I can see his sexual orientation is gay.
I can't say that I am super shocked because there were times during our relationship that I sometimes wondered if he might at least be a little curious but I am still shocked.
I guess I am kind of struggling with the fact that if he was gay does that mean he was never IN love with me? I know he loved me but was the 2 years that we were together absolutely nothing but a friendship with occasional sex?
Can someone explain what he was and is going through?

2006-11-22 10:20:55 · 5 answers · asked by melspags6 4 in Singles & Dating

I would pick James Blunt he seems so nice and sweet!!

2006-11-22 10:19:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

went out from work went out to drink beer. We are all educated, professional women. One woman is always talking about all these men that are after her so much that it gets rather annoying. She goes on & on about how beautiful this guy is that she's dating, he's 38 and she's 48. She has a great job with the school district and he's a personal trainer/subsitute teacher. She went on & on then she went on & on about how this 22 year old guy was after her. Well, we're having a great time and she calls this guy and takes off to meet him and I'm like what's the deal? The rest of us were like what's up? I don't get her whole fascination with bragging about her conquests with us? Anyone could get young good looking booty, the real question is can you get good looking successful booty, now that would impress me. Why when a bunch of women get together there has to be one like that? What do you thiink?

2006-11-22 10:19:48 · 11 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Singles & Dating

what are you supposed to get your boyfriend for christmas? mine says he doesnt want anything, but I know I need to get him something. ahh, I have no idea on what I am supposed to do!!!

2006-11-22 10:18:36 · 11 answers · asked by soccaluva213 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok there is this guy and we hang out and we talk in the hall. I have a little crush on him, but i dont have the confidence to ask him if he likes me. What should I do ?

2006-11-22 10:18:20 · 3 answers · asked by panthergirl1014 1 in Singles & Dating

and my girlfriend had this guy i like to have me "hump the ground".
I didnt do it........would you have???
Also, if i guy were "humping" me, that would be him just moving him self against me....right???

2006-11-22 10:17:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I grew up in a household, with a mother who always told me that I needed to smile and “act” happy. She lived by the motto “don’t rock the boat”. She has been married 3 times – and is working on number 4. I am only 24 – and I am tired. My sister and I were never my mother’s priority, we were never her focal point. After her third marriage failed she was already dating a 29 year old (man) and every night when I was 15, I had to ‘listen’ to them. Having gotten along really well with her third husband, her divorce with him almost killed me – and her new boyfriend was a joke. I moved out by the time I was 16 – I told my mom “Him or Me?” She picked him. – They broke up never being married – and now she is with another man – and already talking about a wedding dress. I get physically ill when hear her voice, when she makes fun of my relationships – when she tells me I sound miserable on the phone – it cause I am talking to her. But I have been trained so well that I have never told her how her life and decisions have affected mine and my sisters lives. I can’t go to anther wedding! I can’t stand to live like this anymore… I am so confused – how do I love someone who hurts me so bad and I keep coming back for more… She flew in – to AZ where I live as well as my grandparents – for thanksgiving – I don’t want to see her… I can’t look at her anymore… why do I think such horrible things about my own mother…. What do I do? Please help.

2006-11-22 10:17:28 · 9 answers · asked by Tori 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My gf and I took a 'time apart' for many reasons, but mostly because she said she needed to find herself & experience more (I was her first serious guy). She tried to kind of keep me on a string, staying in touch, telling me that she really loved me & knew we'd get back together,etc. Left me in a pretty confused state as I was unsure of whether to move on — she would never give me a straight answer. I told her honestly that I would have a hard time dealing with it if she got involved with other people. 4 months later we DID get back together — we both had missed each other and it looked like our relationship was back on track, then some of the details of her past came out; she had made out with people in bars and had sex with one of them, really lived it up. Thought I was OK with it but it bugs me more and more now. Never had to deal with this issue b4 in our relationship, I had complete faith and trust in her. Now I worry alot that she is fickle and that I'm not enough for her.

2006-11-22 10:16:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am just bored. Decided to make a short survey to see how other people llives are.

Age:
Partners age:
Years or months married:
How long have you known eachother:
Kids:
How much time do you spend together a day?:

2006-11-22 10:15:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is for all the fathers who have been through this and not someone just guessing. What were the things that you wife/girlfriend did or could have done to make you wanna leave? Things that would totally piss you off? I know you guys understand what we go through, but someone drove you nuts right?

2006-11-22 10:15:15 · 10 answers · asked by 1st time mom 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-22 10:13:53 · 16 answers · asked by dunville 2 in Singles & Dating

With christmas creeping up and the fact that i have to pay for christmas presents AND my boyfriends birthday in 2weeks i won't have much money. My boyfriend said he doesn't care, that he understands and just wants to be with me. But i want to atleast do something!

What can i do that wont cost me too much money???

2006-11-22 10:13:40 · 14 answers · asked by Freedom 2 in Family

2006-11-22 10:13:39 · 18 answers · asked by bitch don't hate 1 in Singles & Dating