He's turning 28 and don't know what to do? He's mad as hell that I don't plan stuff although when I ask him what does he want to do he just says you should already know and plan something.. I'm so frustrated because its the same sthi every time?? Honestly I don't care now because all he does is give me grief that he wants something but never tells me anything??Am I wrong??
2006-11-22 10:28:46 · 17 answers · asked by jmilil 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sex is a given... yeah but what will keep him occupied the other 23 hrs in the day??
2006-11-22 10:38:49 · update #1
A cake with candles is a good start. Dinner is traditional. You could buy yourself some sexy lingerie and give him the gift of love. Or a new shirt.
2006-11-22 10:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you could celebrate his birthday on the weekend as oppose on the actual day. That way it won't be too overwhelming to have a birthday and major holiday all in the same day. Let him know that you have something special instore for him for the weekend. Make plans to do something he would really love... maybe a short trip somewhere with just the two of you or maybe just buy him a jerzee with his favorite team on it. Sometimes with men you have to really use your imagination.
Now, if he is one of those types that MUST have something on his birthday despite the holiday then get him something small, like a CD that he's always wanted. Wrap it up in a nice wrapping paper and surprise him after the dinner. Get him a birthday cake and have the family sing happy birthday to him. It sounds like he just wants you to acknowledge his birthday.
2006-11-22 10:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by n2art2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about roll reversal! He sounds like some women I know who believe that men should read their minds or who are lazy when they ask for ideas. You are not wrong! He's acting like a spoiled kid. When my wife asks, I tell her exactly what I want - not that I always get it. Anyway, if you still want to treat him, dress up like a pilgrim woman except with sexy black lingerie, stockings, garter belt, etc. underneath and let him stuff your turkey! Sorry, I'm letting my own twisted thoughts out again. Seriously, hope you find the right answer and have a Happy Thanksgiving!
2006-11-22 10:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by mr_slacker70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the exact same problem, except my whining one is going to be 32.
make a cake, and get a present or two... everyone is going to be getting together anyway. I am sure he will appriciate anything, as long as it is something!
I stopped planning my husband b-day one year, thinking he was old enough to not care, and I never heard the end of it.
he wanted a cake, and a banner that said Happy birthday.
"oh brother" anyway, perhaps you could give thanks for it being his b-day. it's the little things that count.
2006-11-22 10:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by missktbop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress up like a turkey and shake a tail feather
2006-11-22 11:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by crkristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Do this... Bake his favorite cake for thanksgiving dinner and later surprise him with another dessert and dress like a turkey and let him carve with his sword or switch blade... whatever it may be.
2006-11-22 10:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by brit_m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow what are you going to do with this guy 20 years from now. hey dont get him anything that will be a nice surprise. just tell him to eat his turkey and shut the f==k up.
2006-11-22 10:32:29 · answer #7 · answered by just hanging around 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A season pass to the local strip club?
2006-11-22 10:44:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress up Sexy Friday night and take him to the strip club
2006-11-22 15:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by joepatt02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up sex, a nice turkey dinner, and more sex that night.
2006-11-22 10:33:21 · answer #10 · answered by evilbarrister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋