Family & Relationships - 22 November 2006

My gf and I took a 'time apart' for many reasons, but mostly because she said she needed to find herself & experience more (I was her first serious guy). She tried to kind of keep me on a string, staying in touch, telling me that she really loved me & knew we'd get back together,etc. Left me in a pretty confused state as I was unsure of whether to move on — she would never give me a straight answer. I told her honestly that I would have a hard time dealing with it if she got involved with other people. 4 months later we DID get back together — we both had missed each other and it looked like our relationship was back on track, then some of the details of her past came out; she had made out with people in bars and had sex with one of them, really lived it up. Thought I was OK with it but it bugs me more and more now. Never had to deal with this issue b4 in our relationship, I had complete faith and trust in her. Now I worry alot that she is fickle and that I'm not enough for her.

2006-11-22 09:37:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i get a girl to like me
pleez reply i need help badly

2006-11-22 09:37:20 · 1 answers · asked by chunkyhomer1992 1 in Singles & Dating

When i show one of them undivided attention, the other, attracts my undivided attention, what do i do?

2006-11-22 09:36:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my partner gave up work for two month long break and is due to go back anyday now and i cant wait!!!! he does and says the weirdest things and even admits hes gone a bit do lally bit i dont have the hearrt to agree.i found a coffee cup in the washing machine the other day?! do you think its cos hes had nothing to do and its left him a bit strange?!

2006-11-22 09:35:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If you are in love with some one, can that ever really go away? Anyone who has gotten divorced, do you really, honestly, in your heart hate your ex spouse. The one who you promised to share your life with?

2006-11-22 09:34:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know what I should do, should she get an abortion, or should she just pull the entire thing through? I'm flat out, I'm so clueless.

2006-11-22 09:34:38 · 43 answers · asked by Slimm Shady 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay my fiance left me 2 weeks ago for a 19 year old coworker I am 22 he is 24. His parents were very supportive of me or so I thought. They said his new girl is not allowed near their house and they didn't want her around my kids. i totally agree it is way too soon, well they invited me over for thanksgiving dinner. But today my ex told me that his new girl will be there because his dad invited her after inviting me and telling me that she was not allowed there. Should I let my kids go? I am very very upset about this and the kids have other places that we can have dinner at. what should I do?

2006-11-22 09:34:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-22 09:33:59 · 4 answers · asked by Rickinca 1 in Singles & Dating

cause i heard that if u dont, then its too late for u.
but how can that be?

2006-11-22 09:32:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Have you ever broke up with someone that you really loved? Everyone used to say that me and my boyfriend were perfect for each other,and I thought so too,but I guess I was wrong.We were fine before, but now he would always act guilty and I wouldn't notice it but my friends would and they would tell me stuff like that but I wouldnt listen because he always acts rude to me sometimes and then he gets sweet again. But then one day my friend saw him with another girl and they were acting like me and him would act (like boyfriend and girlfriend). So the next day when he said hi to me I broke up with him and we ended up in this big arguement.And that was it.I still see him in school though, but whenever he says hi to me I try not to say hi to him but I do anyways and then I feel really stupid.But sometimes I miss him and I can't stop getting him out of mind.
What should I do?

2006-11-22 09:32:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I told her I liked her so much I would walk thru ten miles of snow and blizzard just to stand in her warm s h i t and let it uzz between my toes and she just looked at me weird? why did she not take that as a compliment?

2006-11-22 09:32:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine from school was added on my msn messanger last year after we left school and we exchanged numbers a few months ago but didnt call because i was uncomfortable with that - we only texted each other and continued talking online

i called him a couple of days ago and spoke to him for 2 hours (though, i thought it would have only lasted 5 minutes)

Now he wants to progress from msn conversations to phone conversations, like only talking on the phone and not any more on msn - i dont want that - i want to remain msn buddies, nothing else....maybe calls only once in while

Ive told him already that i dont wana talk to him on the phone because i dont want to get into any habits, but he still calls me wanting to talk to me and isnt backing down.

How do i revert back to just msn conversations again? he is a good friend, but is the type of person that knows i back down easily.

2006-11-22 09:30:16 · 9 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Friends

i'm quite shy but there is this one boy like. he's really nice and funny, but i feel like there's more between us then that. i don't really want to admitt any love to him- that would be way to embarrasing for me...what should i do?

2006-11-22 09:29:55 · 6 answers · asked by minney mouse! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

All of my friends at school either like someone or have a bf. So 2 of my best friends are trying to find somone for me to like. I told them they can't just make me like someone, but they dissagree. I don't like anyone and I don't think I need a boyfriend just yet. Please tell me what I should do!

2006-11-22 09:29:53 · 14 answers · asked by Lex 2 in Friends

Mostly with the cloths and dishes, diapers, well; just messy. And how would you help her if she were sick??

2006-11-22 09:29:38 · 5 answers · asked by Dolphinmarine 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 09:29:25 · 16 answers · asked by Pip 2 in Singles & Dating

This last weekend I took my daughter out to get a Christmas dress for her pic with Santa, and for Christmas Day. The last few years my GF has done this but since we have sepperated I had to get her one this year.
When I went to the mall to pick it out I had her with me (she is only 3) and while we were looking a sales girl came over to help us. She was nice and helped me pick out the dress, turtle neck, tights, socks and shoes. She could tell I was lost and aske dquestions that led me to tell her about my being single. When she rang me up she said "come back in and let me know how the dress looks on her". And when I got home I found that she had slipped her phone # into my bag.

Now my question is, should I call her?

She was pretty cute, but younger than me. I have only been single for a few months. Is it to soon to date? Since she has met my daughter will she really want to see her in the dress?

2006-11-22 09:29:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

women you can go on a date with george clooney,brad pitt,johnny depp or orlando bloom which one would it be??

men you can go on a date with britney spears,christina aguleria,madonna or kylie who would it be??

if your gay then you can choose one from your own sex!!

you can only pick one...and tell me why you choose that person... xx

2006-11-22 09:28:56 · 32 answers · asked by Lydia K 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 09:28:09 · 10 answers · asked by kadisha a 1 in Friends

ok i have been with my boy for almost 4 years and i still love him and want to be with him .... but im tired of the same stuff !!! Can u guys think of some fun things that we can do together !!

2006-11-22 09:26:39 · 16 answers · asked by Naty 34 2 in Singles & Dating

OK IM THINKING OK DUMPING MY BOYFRIEND BECAUSE HE 2 YOUNG IM 13 N HE 11 I GO WITH BOY'S 13 N UP.AND HE BOREIND HE DONT LIKE KISSING ME IN FRONT OF PEOPLE I DONT LIKE THAT I NEED A MAN.I DONT LIKE HIM THAT MUCH.BUT I DONT WANT 2 HURT HIM. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2006-11-22 09:26:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really need help..Today is Tuesday but I wanted to eat at TGI Fridays! Then I remembered that there name is about Friday so I didn't go..I was just wondering if it is okay to eat at TGI Fridays on Tuesdays and to eat at Ruby Tuesdays on Fridays! THANKS!

2006-11-22 09:25:49 · 21 answers · asked by ILene Dover 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been a little stressed. We just had a baby(no sleep), His sibling is having a bit of health issues, and he's going through a custody battle from a previous relationship, and he works 14 hour days so when we see each other we argue about the smallest stupid things. What can I do to help my relationship? Pls note I'm only 2 weeks postpartum from c-section.

2006-11-22 09:25:42 · 6 answers · asked by Mrs Newman 2 in Family

Do u no how hrd it is 2 red yr crummy Q wen u rite such dum stuff?

2006-11-22 09:25:16 · 10 answers · asked by fucose_man 5 in Singles & Dating

Did you get to a point in your life when this became your moto?If so what happened to make you realise this?

2006-11-22 09:24:03 · 10 answers · asked by sexyass 3 in Friends

okay her family is always rude and very rich, very judgemental, mine is like lets get drunk and dance, we live with her parents, we are very young parents, so, i dont want to stay here, wtf do i do, i think its time i drop my balls and cowboy up tell her dad to go eff himself, but I WAnt my kids and my familys and she wants them at hers ,,,,,,,,, kinda a romeo and juliette family structure

2006-11-22 09:23:28 · 9 answers · asked by michaelsexton1984 2 in Marriage & Divorce

everytime I ask a question ab. something that's obviously bothering me, they say it will all work out. but the fact is you don't really know. you can see and determine where your career is going to go but not whether you will find your special Somone. (just to give an example)

I love being realistic; i guess it hurts less when you get accustomed to what's really going on. Everyone has their own fate & unfortun. it doesn't always work out.

2006-11-22 09:23:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I do, but I'm straight!

2006-11-22 09:23:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend's house phone is disconnected and he doesn't have a cell.do u think he is cheating if he doesn't call me as much as he used to?

2006-11-22 09:22:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

silly girl..anyhow the owner refused to have the drain opened even though i offered to pay for any services needed..there was no stopper so she couldnt catch it..should I fight this or just get her a new one for xmas..it couldnt bethe same though she has cried for days..this was a custom made ring!!!

2006-11-22 09:22:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce