ok i have been with my boy for almost 4 years and i still love him and want to be with him .... but im tired of the same stuff !!! Can u guys think of some fun things that we can do together !!
2006-11-22 09:26:39 · 16 answers · asked by Naty 34 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl, i have been with my husband 11 1/2 years and you could just go to the nearest city and try every thing that you would not normally do like. go to a strip club to gether. go take a little cruise if your town has a small round the town ship, go to little fairs and craft shows, gun shows . start excersing together and stuff like that.!!!but whatever you do. don't let it get stale
2006-11-22 09:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be caught in a rut after only four years? There is plenty to do, form going on a picnic together, a day at the beach, a walk in the park, going to town and sitting in a coffee shop people watching. Going to the airport and watch people and planes take off. Going to the local zoo. Flying a kite, Renting a paddle boat, fishing, rock climbing, Searching for a place that has the best banana split, ice skating, roller blading, going to auto races, horse races, boat races, drag races. Spending the night at a nice Hotel and having a romantic dinner. Getting in the kitchen together and baking something sinful. Have movie marathon, make popcorn and watch two or three flicks in a row. Start a puzzle and see how quickly you can do it. Play board or card games.
Look there are tons of things to do. I have been with my wife 38 years and have not ran out of things to do.
2006-11-22 09:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by John E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprise of any kind is always good to spice up life. You could plan a simple day trip to some where unexpected or just plan a night out to some where you have never been.
It may turn out that the trip is not the fun but doing something new together is the fun.
2006-11-22 09:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by dd_otis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First - go to the library or book store and look at books and magazines that offer all kinds of couples ideas. Google on-line for fun couple things to do or to look for specific activities you might like, such as winter sports, summer sports, cooking, physical activity stuff. Also, you could ask friends/family what they do to keep things fun in their relationship. Other ideas - take a class together, volunteer at a soup kitchen or animal shelter together, work out together, go rock climbing, bicycling, have a massage/spa day together, go to a sporting event you've never been to before -- hockey? tennis tournament? Ask him for ideas too! Go to a local museum or to an observatory where you can look at the stars through a telescope, or just lay in the backyard or go to a park and hang out and stargaze.
2006-11-22 09:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by Kimmyq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you offer to I don't know set up going in a private plane ride or maybe a hike in the woods/desert/whatever? Why is it still your guys job to entertain you?? It's your turn, chica step up to the plate and find something that neither of you has ever done before and maybe were never really interested in doing. the worst that can happen is that you'll get to have a boring date to make fun of...
2006-11-22 09:30:56 · answer #5 · answered by espressoaddict22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of what you normally do on any given night and do something different-go to local parks, try a new sport together(golf, minigolf, tennis, fishing, skeet shooting, frisbee golf, whatever) go to bars or restaurants you have never been to if there are any, go to another town or city close by to act like tourists, go to sporting events or music concerts, go on a weekend vacation, learn how to cook together, go to museums....turn off the tv and do something together- play a board game, strip poker, go to a casino, take up exercising together, join some classes at the Y, take a class at community college togethere like pottery or photography, join a club or organization together like the Red Cross or Big Bros and Sis...work at a soup kitchen..start an ebay business...get into tae kwan do or karate together or boxing dare i say some fun role playing games like teacher/student, police/criminal, bearded lady/fat man, cowboy/indian........if nothing on my list suits you then you guys are really boring
2006-11-22 09:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost four years and you have instigated and perpetrated enough to ask this question of what to do. You could'nt have possibly done everything in almost four years that takes a life time for some to accomplish in realtiuonships....good luck and Happy Love
2006-11-22 09:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reality that he lied to you, is swapping photos and keeping secret chat bills with different females are extensive crimson flags which you chosen to ignore. If he won't be able to or isn't the guy which you extremely choose for him to be then he should not be on your existence. If the relationship isn't assisting the two of you in any respect by utilising helping one yet another, trusting one yet another, and development one yet another up, then it extremely is not the relationship you look to choose for it to be. Mentally, if he's been mendacity approximately those little issues and thinks he can smash out with them without you leaving, he will only save on doing it. different than, those little issues gets bigger, and better, and better. you be attentive to that he's been mendacity approximately it, yet your heart needs to have self belief that he's extra suitable than that. In circumstances like those it extremely is often ultimate to look on the information. Emotionally, you have been with this individual for a protracted time and he has been a great area of your existence, and there are various ideas and time and capability which you and him have on your relationship so I understand you're reluctant to enable all that circulate. you will continually choose on your heart to experience preserve and enjoyed and needed, and for the longest time you have had that, yet now that those secrets and methods have come to the sunshine there are subjects he's unwilling to remedy for you. sometimes you should place your self first in circumstances - relationships contain 2 human beings, if one individual isn't prepared to drag their own weight in having a healthy relationship then the relationship will fail one way or yet another. the relationship is hurting now, no longer healing. i could supply him a call - the two paintings with the aid of each and all of the crap that has occurred and initiate being truthful with one yet another and committed, or circulate on.
2016-11-26 01:55:51 · answer #8 · answered by barela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should try 2think abt smth 2gether. That would be a lot more fun than things that the others tell u 2do.
2006-11-22 09:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by sweety_al 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a trip or on a cruise, lock up for a few days and have crazy wild sex. You'll fall in love all over again.
2006-11-22 09:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by <3 <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋