silly girl..anyhow the owner refused to have the drain opened even though i offered to pay for any services needed..there was no stopper so she couldnt catch it..should I fight this or just get her a new one for xmas..it couldnt bethe same though she has cried for days..this was a custom made ring!!!
2006-11-22 09:22:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i was very irrittaed at first and was actually kind of an *** about it until i seen her cry and i felt so bad i jsut held her..
2006-11-22 09:29:47 · update #1
yes dj im sure she had it on then she came outta the restroom crying I was there
2006-11-22 09:31:42 · update #2
she said she doesnt desrve another ring and began saying she was sorry she was so careless...i want her to realize she really doesnt have to be this hard on herself
2006-11-22 09:35:39 · update #3
HAHAHAHA Classic..... I would definatley fight this, Take this to court!
2006-11-22 09:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When did this happen? If it happened days ago, as it seems in your question, I'm afraid that the ring will most likely be gone - plumbing and all. Still, I think that you should talk to the management of the restaurant and just explain how p-o'd you were that when you offered to pay for any expenses to get your wife's ring back the owner refused to cooperate, without so much as a second thought. There's not too much that you can 'fight' as it unfortunately her loss of the ring... but you might be able to get some sort of satisfaction by talking to management about the upset that your wife is going through. I would suggest that you even do your own vow renewal thing... and just exchange plain gold bands in the interim... it will show your wife that you know it was an accident, that she didn't mean to lose the ring (which any woman I know wouldn't do!) and it WOULD be adorable. (Plus, to be slightly tacky in an honest response - you'll most likely get lucky that night!) I wouldn't do it on Christmas... that's an insane time of year with the visits and food and all. Maybe on New Year's Day... starting the year over with new rings... that's an idea! Good luck and let us know what happens!
2006-11-22 11:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by sscodenameisprinceton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should contact the restaurant again and speak to another manager. The General manager. I cant see why he/she would be so unreasonable. Offer to have the plumber come out in the hours when the business is closed. Make sure you are with the plumber and watch him, I trust no-one! hehe This shouldn't be a problem. Good Luck!
2006-11-22 10:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's obviously upset because it meant something to her. Even if you fought the restaraunt owner it may be flushed already. Really think about a special experience you shared together or something that is important to her. Don't use Christmas, make it another unique experience, like the day you proposed. Then it will be just as important to her and let her know she's important to you, too.
2006-11-22 09:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by redheadedemt_1972 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would complain to the owner of the place,headquarters if its a chain because you did offer to pay for the plumber and such..i somehow just lost the diamond out of my engagement ring,have no idea how or when...my husband has said he will replace the stine,bye me a new one etc but it won't be the same....what someone recommended to me was to have a vow renewal with the new ring and that might help me accept the new one
2006-11-22 12:14:21 · answer #5 · answered by charmel5496 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely fight this. If you offered to pay for any services needed...I don't know what the problem is. Good Luck!
2006-11-22 09:25:20 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a complaint against the restaurant since they didnt work with you when you offered to pay and buy her a plain band, then make her wait for an upgraded band at a later date, like new years, her birthday or really soon if she is crushed over it.
2006-11-22 09:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by porsha226 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact your homeowners' insurance, it may have been covered. The resturant's drains are their property, if they wont cooperate then you are out of luck. Maybe best to get a new one and insure it.
2006-11-22 09:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by zax_fl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! I would try talking to the cops about it, they are holding her personal belongings from her, there is a law against that.....good luck
2006-11-22 09:26:12 · answer #9 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww that really sucks. i would fight it especially since it was custome made. i looved how you called her a silly girl. that made me smile. cuz most husbands would be pissed. sorry and good luck.
2006-11-22 09:27:18 · answer #10 · answered by FairChild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋