Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

i have a girl who i love and who claims to love me but were both pretty young she's 19 im 20 i consider myself to be pretty mature for my age

when it comes to relationships im not really looking to shop around but im not willing to rush things either i let nature take its course

anyway my "as of today EX" girlfriend claims she loves me and all and says she wants to one day marry me but then sometimes says she doesnt

she feels like she hasnt gotten all the partying and dating and stuff out of her system yet
i told her i'd let her go so she can do what she wants but she didnt wanna let me go but i finally convinced her to

and i cant get over her

what am i suppose 2 do?

2006-11-15 15:10:32 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What if u fell in love with dis guy that when u first met him he was everything u ever wanted....and then after the years he started changing for the worst... as in all he does is hang out with his boys... smoke and hustle...and all that BS... but u can't help but think about him... hes all u think about and hes the only 1 that melts ur heart... and even though u kno u can find so much betta u don't have the heart 2 let him go... what do u do?????

2006-11-15 15:10:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does having a child together (and then breaking up) make you a "family," a "biological family," or just parents?

2006-11-15 15:10:16 · 5 answers · asked by wishfulthinking 2 in Singles & Dating

I was recently circumcised and well i haven't been able to hook up yet. Should i expect anything to feel different for me or my girlfriend?

2006-11-15 15:09:48 · 3 answers · asked by Paul C 1 in Singles & Dating

we would talk a few minutes,after that she would give to her little boy(8).does it mean she doesnt want to talk to me?but when i see her,she loves talking to me.should i stop calling my friend?

2006-11-15 15:09:20 · 1 answers · asked by skyrus 3 in Friends

Ugh..me and my one friend are always fighing!! Every time we talk we fight.. we go to different schools, but we call us bff's! she invites me to the beach and to all these fun places, so i dont want to not be friends with her. but she is a witch sometimes. shes always throwing her school best friend in my face...trying to make me jeoulous. its really annoying. shes really rude to me and doesnt treat me like a best friend. should i keep her as a friend?

2006-11-15 15:09:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i do have my grandbaby now in my custody. but as far as my daughter its very hard to say. i helped her get out of an abusive relationship before and he is in prison now. but when we went to court my daughter sat on his side to support him. so now the guy is thinking its all my doing.he gets out next year. now that my daughter is in another abusive relatioship she is supporting this. i hate to see her hurt. but this guy knows alot of people who are in gangs. if anyone finds out it was me who told it could endanger my other kids as well as me. we all live in the same neighborhood. i did take my drandbaby out of that situation. i just have to legally get custody of her. its just my daughteris protecting this guy. she protected the other guy who abused her. i have to think about my other kids also as well as my grandbaby. we could be in serious danger if i go to the cops. so i was asking some advice. not to be put down and judged as if i dont care. i just need some insight. im scared.

2006-11-15 15:08:49 · 15 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

ive tried chatting, but nooooo people to chat with *im not even sure if theyre real* hahahaha...any ideas of what i could do?

2006-11-15 15:08:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to what degree (how skinny or how muscular)?

2006-11-15 15:08:00 · 11 answers · asked by cool nerd 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 15:06:46 · 7 answers · asked by kilabee2003 1 in Singles & Dating

what can I do?!?!

2006-11-15 15:06:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am friends with my husbands best friends sister (got that?). My husband has known her his whole life, they grew up across the road from eachother. When they were younger, she was 15 and he was 17, she came to his house and was in his room with a short sleeve shirt and without her hair covered (we are Muslim and this is forbidden). He told her to leave and told her he would tell her brothers if she didn't. She has wanted his since they were teenagers, but he didn't want her because she has no respect for herself. She has since gotten married and has 3 kids. Since she met me she has been extremly jealous and is showing it. She starts rumors about me and tries to make my other friends not like me. She even named her daughter Maysam (my husband is called Sam) and bought her a necklace that she makes her daughter wear everyday that says Mysam. What can I do? I know my husband has no intrest in her at all, but she still bothers me. Anyone else been through similar situations?

2006-11-15 15:06:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it realistic to tell teens they should abstain from sex until marrage? Or would it be better to assume that they will be sexually active, but to make sure they always use protection?

2006-11-15 15:05:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

kind of random but im curious

2006-11-15 15:05:36 · 2 answers · asked by spazam1000 2 in Singles & Dating

If my aunt (my mothers sister) married some guy who is now my uncle...what relation would my uncles brother's kids have to me? any?

2006-11-15 15:04:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Before I let Jesus into my heart to forgive my sins-I had alot of doubts-and what others said -was my authority to make choices-and I made alot of bad ones.

I prayed finally because the conviction for my sin was so much-
"Jesus I am sorry for my sins, come into my heart and help me, be my friend, amen."

Jesus said as I speak from heaven, I love you without any conditions, and ask you to repent for your sins, Behold I stand at your heart door and knock, if you open and let me in I will come in and be your friend and you mine."

Now life is more fun than when I lived in sin and I dont think we should chose to do what is against God-even if it feels good-because Jesus helps me feel even better than the best sin I ever did before I knew him

have a nice eve and peace up to you too-what do you think is it ok?

2006-11-15 15:03:33 · 12 answers · asked by Alan I 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 15:02:58 · 10 answers · asked by Nate Dorsey 1 in Singles & Dating

to ask this girl out. Shes really shy, never talks only smiles although her friends introduced me to her. A lot of ppl are telling me to ask her out rihgt away and some are telling me to get to know her more well and then ask her out. So ya, i dunno when to ask her out. Plz help.

2006-11-15 15:02:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was circumcised a few weeks ago and my girlfriend is studying abroad. Should i tell her i got it done or just wait and let her find out herself? How will she respond?

2006-11-15 15:02:47 · 15 answers · asked by Paul C 1 in Friends

hi i'm unCircumcision and i'm scared that my gurl think its going to be nasty i dont know what to do plz help

2006-11-15 15:02:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've always been really insecure about my looks. Some people say im beautiful now but my childhood says otherwise 'cause i was always teased and not to mention i was the "friend" never the "girl". And from time to time people still call me ugly. Is there anyway possible i can get a true and honest opinion about my looks from you guys?
my describtion: Eyes: brown. Hair: redish brown, a little past my shoulders. Height: 5'4 and a half. im pretty average, slightly more in shape. I dont have huge boobs or anything but they are ok for a girl my age (15)
people say my best features are my long legs, butt, my abs, and for some reason they say i have a cute nose and the people that know me say the love my personallity but that doesnt matter now-a-days because its all about the looks and if your easy or not (and im not). My bad side is that my teeth are not completely straight and i dont have a tan. Thanks for your opinion guys!

2006-11-15 15:02:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was circumcised a few weeks ago and my girlfriend is studying abroad. Should i tell her i got it done or just wait and let her find out herself? How will she respond?

2006-11-15 15:02:02 · 4 answers · asked by Paul C 1 in Singles & Dating

Does having a child together (and then breaking up) make you a "family," a "biological family," or just parents?

2006-11-15 15:01:40 · 2 answers · asked by wishfulthinking 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. However, a male coworker of mine and I have been getting to know each other really well. I haven't felt this way about a guy in over 10 years. He's talented, educated and everything I look for in a partner. He knows I'm with my girlfriend, but we both can't help the way we feel. What should I do?

2006-11-15 15:01:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

have u ever loved someone so much it made u cry ? did u ever think that ur lives would turn to sh*t ? did u ever say something you regreted? did u ever talk about them behind their back and then talk bad about one of thier parents even though u know that person is dead? i have but she pissed me off... i regret saying it but she has pulled my last string!

2006-11-15 15:00:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It is not true. I love them both. There are two other brothers beside. How do I reach him. He won't take my calls, or even look at my e-mails. I've tried everything. do I just give up.? Do I wait on him now?

2006-11-15 15:00:38 · 10 answers · asked by BJ B 1 in Family

why do friends invite you to their siblings' wedding?

2006-11-15 15:00:31 · 6 answers · asked by ted c 1 in Weddings

I was going over this guy house today that I use to date years ago and I got lost. So I called him from my cell phone and he said he would stay on the phone with me until I reached his house. He was giving me directions from his cell phone. I thought this was so sweet that he didn't want to hang up and made sure I got to his house safely. What do you think?

2006-11-15 15:00:09 · 5 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating

This is not really a question... its more of a statement... what should i do? I got into an argument with my sister today... I have been living with my mother the last couple of months b/c i had to leave me old place, and now im looking for another place of my own, the situation is my sister is 30 she takes tylenol for the kodien, she also takes nyquil, she has no kids, cheats on her b/f who is in jail, she sleeps around and then passes judgement on other people. I have only slept with one man ( my childs father) we have been together for 9 1/2 years we have a 6 year old son together and i am pregnant again (30 weeks) i admit me and my b/f have our problems and i admit that i am far from perfect and far from the perfect parent, but i try my best. I am only one person and try to be the best i can be, and do the best i can do, by myself with no help from other people including the father he is there but not really, the only reason he is still in the picture is because i dont want my

2006-11-15 14:59:42 · 16 answers · asked by Romy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I might be getting set up with a woman who was described as being slightly high maintenance...not really sure what that specifically means, can you let me know?

2006-11-15 14:58:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating