Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

A week after my parent return from their 2nd honeymoon 2 years ago, they told me that they want to invite a lovely married couple to join us. They're in love with this couple (uncle James & aunt Sally), My mother to uncle James & my father to aunt Sally. But they'll going to divorse. Just join the 2 couple as one. I wasn't agree that time, i felt it's a weird thing, but they convince me, they told me that each man will have 2 wives and each woman will have 2 husbands, and I'm going to have 2 moms and 2 dads. They're look so happy togather, Uncle James & aunt Sally are so nice, they care for each other as they care for me too. My mother already gave birth a beatiful baby girl for uncle James, the sister i always wanted, and Aunt Sally still 5 months pragnant, we all hope it'll going to be my dad's. A lot of love and joy fill our home. We don't want this to end. Can we? can my dad marry aunt Sally and my mom marry uncle James without divorsing the previous spouse? please advise

2006-11-15 15:56:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-15 15:56:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend hangs out with a bad crowd. Before we started dating I made him promise to stop doing the things that he had been into(ie-drugs, alcohol, etc-well, not so much alcohol, cuz i do that too, lol ), and since then he has. But he always wants me to go with him and hang out with his friends, and to be honest, I REALLY don't like them. They're pushy and loud and very obnoxious. But he says he's sick of having to go everywhere by himself if he wants to just chill, the way I see it we can "chill" alone whenever he asks and I like it that way. I think we have fun too. I mean he doesn't hang out with me and my friends and the few times he has he pretty much keeps to himself and hangs all over me. So, my question is, is he gonna get sick of this?

2006-11-15 15:56:20 · 13 answers · asked by Rhiannon 5 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that everyone at my school is a snobby little brat? I see this most commonly with the girls actually but it's everyone. I can go an entire day without saying anything to a girl because they act like i don't exist. If I do try to talk to one I just get blown off like dust on a book. It seems you have to be some hot pretty boy just for a girl to talk to you at my school. Either that or you have to be "Mr. I don't know when to STFU".

Maybe it's because I live around a big city in a suburban town. Or maybe i just have "loser" stamped all over me.

2006-11-15 15:55:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yeah i know, be yourself, join clubs and all that stufff, and i'm doing that, but is there any other way to make friends in high school? i'm not really shy or anything either, but what should you actually do to make friends? yeah mention the obvious ones too :-) thanks

2006-11-15 15:54:55 · 21 answers · asked by ♥heartbroken♥ 3 in Friends

I'm 22 and have been married for 4.5 months. I love my husband dearly, but his family cannot stand me for the most retarded reasonsthat are too numerous to name here. Do I dare stay in my marriage or let it go before things get worse? IF I leave, how much is a divorce in Texas?

2006-11-15 15:54:42 · 36 answers · asked by behind_hazel_eyes22 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 26 and I have a 14 year old cousin that is going to be moving in with me because her parents dont want her in the home any more. I want to become her legal guardian and could use some advice on the procedure I need to follow to do this.

Also could use some input on how long it takes and any other needed information.

2006-11-15 15:54:21 · 1 answers · asked by ♫♪♫ PINKY ♫♪♫ 5 in Family

married 16 years to a scorpio that has been divorced twice, likes nothing more than to be mad 24/7. Truely tries to have everyone around him hate him.
I don't even think he likes himself. but,,,,, he loves his kids no matter what. good provider,responsible, no communication, no nothing, we even sleep apart.

2006-11-15 15:53:44 · 20 answers · asked by aquarian 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, this is my story. I was with a guy for 5 1/2 years. Then 4 years ago it ended. All I can say is that I was hurt and I have taken a lot of time to myself to get over this. Finally I find myself ready to go back in the dating world and have a serious relationship... but I have been single for so long and I love my independance.

I have met some really great guys that could have the potential of becoming something more than just friends. I find myself not being able to commit to more. Is it that I'm affraid of commitment or is it that I'm just not ready? Am I alone in feeling like this?

I keep thinking if I meet the "right" guy for "me" I might feel differently. I don't have alot of experience with relationships, so I need all the help and advice I can get.

Please give me any advice or comments that could help me.

***New to the dating world :)***

2006-11-15 15:52:36 · 8 answers · asked by girlnxtdoor 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 15:52:30 · 9 answers · asked by thrashthemic 1 in Singles & Dating

Im torned to whether to stick with my wife, or tell her what ive been doing and start dating her grandmother, what should i do?

2006-11-15 15:52:28 · 24 answers · asked by jpekk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2 of mine friend started dating and evertime some thing gose wrong i have to here it

what is a nice way to tell them to deal with there problem becasue i do not want to here everything that gose on.........and i mean EVERYTHING

2006-11-15 15:52:14 · 2 answers · asked by jlw78418 2 in Singles & Dating

she has a passport already

2006-11-15 15:50:34 · 5 answers · asked by japol 1 in Weddings

say your having dinner getting to know each other,and the whole time
he's talking to you he's looking at the woman at the next table,doesn't
hardly look you in the eye's, I don't know about you but I think It's rude.

2006-11-15 15:49:52 · 31 answers · asked by sweetness 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl in a chatroom and we became friends almost instantly. She's a very nice girl and we share a lot in common in terms of our anxiety and depression. Today we were chatting online and she started really getting upset. She's in college and she always has a lot of schoolwork. I called her (I live in Philly, she lives in Seattle) and she was bawling telling me how nobody cares about her and even her family doesn't care about her and she doesn't know what's wrong and she doesn't know how to fix it. I tried really hard to calm her down and try to make her think positive and I told her she needs to relax once in a while and not overwork herself, but she says if she does that she will fall behind and feel even worse. I really wish I could just fly over there and just be there for her because it appears I'm the only person she can count on. She goes to a therapist but she tells me she doesn't help out. What can I do to keep her from getting this upset? Its killing me.

2006-11-15 15:49:49 · 12 answers · asked by BKelly237 3 in Friends

my divorce is nearly through and i like this girl alot , we known each other a long time , and ive only just relized how i feel

2006-11-15 15:49:38 · 9 answers · asked by dr_in_distress 1 in Friends

dont have much time really i work everyday .. but been trying to get level 2..lol..why im trying .. i havent got a clue.. guess cause when i get home everyones sleeping.. but ya all....LMAO..

2006-11-15 15:49:19 · 9 answers · asked by vicki f 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 15:48:16 · 13 answers · asked by june p 1 in Singles & Dating

so i'm having a really hard time getting over this "one night stand" that happened....i liked this guy for awhile...and i dont know hes like in love with this other girl....so i know i need to move on....but its really hard!! any advice???

2006-11-15 15:48:15 · 12 answers · asked by It's just me! 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 15:47:49 · 6 answers · asked by mhizie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so i like this other guy but thers this other guy trevor. hes kinda perverted but hes funny and i tlk to him alot...and he always stares at me...well today in science he randomly passes me a not saying-I think ur hot - trevor....and i wrote back "ummm okkk" and then hes like "do u think im hot?" and im like "sureee...i guess so but i already like some1 else"<------i said tht cuz i didnt want him to ask me out cuz i would feel bad if i said no. so anyways when i gave him the note his face went like blank and he wrote back and said "who?" and i didnt wanna tell him cuz i didnt want him telling every1 and so i got up went to his desk and hes like "tell me who" and im like "why?" and then hes like "i just need...i mean want to kno" so i walked away and when i was walking back he was gunna slap my *** and i turned around and hes like "i wasnt gunna do it i was jk" and i have a feeling tht hes gunna ask me out tom. cuz one of his friends told me....what should i say???

2006-11-15 15:47:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

am 24, and NEVER got along with my mom, til this day. we are very different people. she has hurt me so much and put me thru things that i would NEVER put my daughter thru. anyways last year after thankgiving we were not talking until i found out that her chihuahua, had died after 11 years. trust me you guys, she loves her dogs more than me, by now i really dont care. so i called her, i knew she was very bad, depressed, wouldnt eat, even wanted to kill her self, and i was there for her..but did not last, we havent spoken for 5/6 months now, but i feel horroble cause she is all alone, am the only child. the first annyversary of the death of her dog is coming, i could bet she is already crying about it. and am worried about that, the holidays, the death, her being alone. should i call her, i was thinking maybe my husband could do it for me. i really feel very unconfortable with her. what should i do?

2006-11-15 15:46:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why can i meet a girl online and do just fine but when she wants me to call her i ether decline or do call her and piss her off because she says i act like a child. an example is this one girl keps asking me questions like "how big is your co*k" and i said my equipemnt is so long, and she said i was a child for not saying co*k. i cant help it if i was raised not to say things like that around women. it took 3 weeks befor i was ok with saying things like that weound her.

now in real life it is even worse! i see women i want to talk too but when i decide to just give a simple complament i freez or the the image of hse slaping me even if all i was going to say was "your very pretty"

why dont i have the damn balls at 20 years of age to communicate with women!

i know this is pathedic but i cant help it. i can fight some one i know will kick my butt but women scare me. i have almost been gored by a bull and no fear came but women scare me! why? and no i am not a cowboy.

2006-11-15 15:46:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He was abused for about 2-3 years by his last father, I gess some dude who raised him. His mother left him at nine. Now he's sixteen and lives with us.

It's been going good but every time my dad tries to joke, he gets scared; he won't let anyone touch him, my grandmother tried to hug him and he shyed away from her.

Tonight my dad lost his temper and yelled at me (I was wrong, I admit) but he was right in the other room. Now he's locked himself in his room and won't come out. What should I do?

2006-11-15 15:45:37 · 10 answers · asked by I think... 6 in Family

2006-11-15 15:45:36 · 17 answers · asked by JOSEPH P 1 in Singles & Dating

when you want to ask a boy on a first date to the movies?

2006-11-15 15:44:46 · 8 answers · asked by Elizabeth! 3 in Singles & Dating

the thing is she says she lieks me. however, she has had bad expereince with bfs who used and dumped her. she wants to think thigns over and make sure its what she wants... does she like me and actually want to wait, or is she just putting me down softly?

2006-11-15 15:43:48 · 29 answers · asked by Robert Z 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for about 3 years and have been living together for almost a year now. I do not have insurance at the moment because i work out of my house, but he has insurance. We are planning a wedding for May 5th, 2007, but are thinking of getting married at the courthouse so that we can make it legal and so i can get insurance finaily. Then continue on with our plans for the wedding in may and not really say anything to anyone about allready being married besides to the parents. i am wondering if anyone out there has done this before, what they thought about doing this, and if it effected them in any other way. or if anyone has any tips on doing this. please let me know! i would greatly appreciate it!

2006-11-15 15:43:42 · 19 answers · asked by annom2 2 in Weddings

2006-11-15 15:42:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When they are really really in the mood (even if they said theyd never do something, like give head or something like that)

2006-11-15 15:42:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating