Well, this is my story. I was with a guy for 5 1/2 years. Then 4 years ago it ended. All I can say is that I was hurt and I have taken a lot of time to myself to get over this. Finally I find myself ready to go back in the dating world and have a serious relationship... but I have been single for so long and I love my independance.
I have met some really great guys that could have the potential of becoming something more than just friends. I find myself not being able to commit to more. Is it that I'm affraid of commitment or is it that I'm just not ready? Am I alone in feeling like this?
I keep thinking if I meet the "right" guy for "me" I might feel differently. I don't have alot of experience with relationships, so I need all the help and advice I can get.
Please give me any advice or comments that could help me.
***New to the dating world :)***
2006-11-15 15:52:36 · 8 answers · asked by girlnxtdoor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dating does *NOT* mean any kind of commitment, it's just getting to know each other. You can and should be able to date someone casually without reading too much into it or getting sucked into some 'serious' relationship. You learn the value of taking things slowly. If you meet the "right guy" you'll just know, you'll enjoy each other's company and have interests in common, he'll respect your independence and the relationship will develop at a comfortable pace. Just try not to think too far ahead, take it one day at a time.
2006-11-15 16:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your virginity is a competent project to keep till you're married and once you're religious than you want to understand what to do. My sister is 23 about to be 24, replaced into the accepted lady in severe college, a school student, attractive, formidable and each and everything. yet she's a Christian so i wager it fairly is the version between us and also you. No it is not a foul project, even though it is your decision no matter if to keep it or not. i'd keep it if I were you, yet probability is having the mentality that you've you ever gained't. no individual must be able to sway your decision, and in case you requested this question you want them too. So reliable good fortune, yet sex is an habit. it is like beginning Pandora's field, you may't close it back. And that's a sin. So remember that!
2016-11-24 21:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by fahner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One things for sure your not alone in feeling like this!!!!!!!!! You sound as if your ready to get back into the dating game. Take the plunge because these great guys won't wait around forever.
2006-11-15 15:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by j -cold 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well take it sloooooooooooooow, Come on lets be real dont just look on the outside of a person, it helps but it ain't all.
2006-11-15 15:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by mikl0vl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHO SAYS YOU HAVE TO COMMIT? OVER THE YEARS AMNY WOMEN HAVE GRACIOUSLY ACCEPTED MY OFFERS OF DINNER, I KNEW THAT NOTHING WOULD COME IT. WHAT'S WRONG WITH THAT? YOU MIGHT REALIZE THAT YOU ARE READY TO COMMIT AND I THINK THAT'S WHERE YOU'RE AT.
GOD BLESS
2006-11-15 15:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by thewindowman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that when Mr. Right comes along, you will know!!!!!!!!! Take some time and enjoy your freedom!!
2006-11-15 15:58:37 · answer #6 · answered by sand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you keep on passing all the good guys......send them this way! but really just go with your heart! and ur instincts! when you meet your prince charming....u'll know~
2006-11-15 15:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by It's just me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are just afraid to get back in there. have confidence in yourself, and move on past you last relationship.
2006-11-15 15:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by queen_hanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋