why can i meet a girl online and do just fine but when she wants me to call her i ether decline or do call her and piss her off because she says i act like a child. an example is this one girl keps asking me questions like "how big is your co*k" and i said my equipemnt is so long, and she said i was a child for not saying co*k. i cant help it if i was raised not to say things like that around women. it took 3 weeks befor i was ok with saying things like that weound her.
now in real life it is even worse! i see women i want to talk too but when i decide to just give a simple complament i freez or the the image of hse slaping me even if all i was going to say was "your very pretty"
why dont i have the damn balls at 20 years of age to communicate with women!
i know this is pathedic but i cant help it. i can fight some one i know will kick my butt but women scare me. i have almost been gored by a bull and no fear came but women scare me! why? and no i am not a cowboy.
2006-11-15 15:46:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The bad news is it is part of your genetic heritage to be afraid to approach an attractive woman and it's a fear that will never totally go away. The good news is you can learn to work around it and even turn it to your advantage. Unfortunately there is more to it than can be explained here but you are welcome to contact me and I will do what I can to help. Also check out the link below the guy behind it really knows what he is talking about.
2006-11-15 15:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by DarkWolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I suspect they are just too disorganized, and party dicipline is lacking. I think this is because the democrats have always (at least in modern times) been more of a coalition than the more monolithic republicans. It's like herding cats to get them to do anything together. The republicans have a very top down outlook, and members who do not stick to the party line tend to be punished pretty severely compared to democrats. Even though I am a liberal I will never become a democrat.
2016-03-28 22:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL relax Ive been there myself. Its because you are not use to talking to women. Its just a lack of confidence in that area, fear you may say the wrong thing or be embarrase. First recognize yourself, then ask yourself what are the good qualities about myself a woman would admire. Find a woman who you think you will be comfortable with. She just one girl. Dont worry.At least you had respect for yourself not to say such word.
2006-11-15 16:08:45 · answer #3 · answered by William B4real 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to be like you. Just hang around women and you'll feel more comfortable. Sure, I'm just as shy as ever, but at least I have alittle more insight on how they are.
2006-11-15 15:50:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not be childish if you decide you 'd like to be decent, but girls aren't so scary. Most girls I know live for guys to compliment them because it makes our day. Just don't come to fast with some girls because you might scare them.
2006-11-15 15:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by lost for words 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you possibly be shy online? They don't know what you look/ sound like. Talk to girls... the more you do it the better.
2006-11-15 15:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by dark.axxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hate to say this, but, you're a big pu$$y.
Read my post that said "A customer came in to work today and asked.."
2006-11-15 15:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have simular problems except the online thing and losing a fight....
2006-11-15 15:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by hmongheroz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋