Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

ive been in love with my closest girl friend since i met her 3 yrs ago. At first, i didnt know her too well but for some reason i was attracted to her a lot. She's not a typical girl that cares so much about her looks, its the emotional connection that i fell in love with.
The thing is that, last year i told her that i loved her with all my heart. She said she had to think about it and after a week or so, she rejected me (kindly) but it was the single worst feeling i have ever felt in my life.
We grew so close as we opened up to each other and we talk about everything and anything. I have never felt so close to someone as i do to her. Ive had crushes and i know that this is NOT at all a crush. I would have been over her in a week or at the most a month but for some reason i cant get over her.
I, being my dumb self couldnt take the pain and asked her not once but two times after the 1st time she said no(same answer). We are still really close friends but everyday it hurts

2006-11-15 16:30:11 · 9 answers · asked by My Answers are always right. 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 16:28:28 · 7 answers · asked by Tasty 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 16:28:21 · 6 answers · asked by Eastpack69 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a major crush on a girl, but its a crush on her personality, I can't stop thinking about her, I'm losing sleep right now and I shouldn't because I have school in the morning.
There is more to this situation though, her brother is one of my friends, her dad my pastor at church, her mom a teacher at my high school.
I'm very confused on what I should do. I've been crushing for 3 or 4 months now and its gotten much worse this past two weeks. Like I said I'm llosing sleep over it because I can't stop thinking about her. I'm very very very very shy around women, and I know, "they're human just like you" but I just can't break it, if somone could please help me that would be great!
Thanks in advance!!

2006-11-15 16:28:08 · 10 answers · asked by Confused............ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 16:27:27 · 15 answers · asked by Julie K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-11-15 16:27:08 · 2 answers · asked by Romy 4 in Family

Does anyone have problems when it comes to having sex with a partner. When I say a problem I mean do you feel that its hard for the guy to give you an orgasm and you have to change position and go on top of your partner and do it yourself?

2006-11-15 16:26:26 · 6 answers · asked by Aby 1 in Singles & Dating

I kind of just dumped my boyfriend, and it was rather easy for me. I'm not sure if its just the adrenaline rush i had or what; i don't know how i did. But I need to know if I was wrong in any way. My boyfriend, he is super moody. Sometimes (frequently) he gets in these moods where he absolutely does not care at all. Now he can't make long distance calls on his phone, only i can, so he gets on yahoo messenger to tell me when to call. Well, here i am at home having many emotional problems, because i'm really afraid i might be pregnant, and all i wanted was to tell him how scared i was and for him to try and comfort me. Well, when he got online we were talking and i told him i felt miserable but i didn't want to talk about it online. eventually stuff happened. and he just played around with my emotions i don't think he realized it. But it happened one to many times so i just broke off a 1 year and 5 month relationship.

2006-11-15 16:25:45 · 2 answers · asked by dylan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-11-15 16:25:29 · 12 answers · asked by Fork Canada 3 in Singles & Dating

was dating ths guy , for a few months, he happenes to be my almost soroity sister's best friend,(keep in mind I didn;t finish the process to join, so I'm not actually a member) so anyhow, one day I text messaged him about my earrings, five minutes later, he text me, saying they weren't at his house, and then I left him a voicemail asking him nicely, if he could look for them, at his earliest ,because i was wearing them to go on a date, he text messaged me five minutes later and told me not to call him anymore, because he did not like me and that he would tell my sorority sisters about our relationship...and he would tell other people as well, and what a coincidence one of my sorority sisters calls me and invites me to an event that he was hosting? What do you think was the cause of his behavior and do you think she knows something, or maybe he told her something,?Or was it a coincidence that she calls me asks me to go out with her after I ahdn't heard from her in over eight months

2006-11-15 16:24:08 · 7 answers · asked by Virgo1980 1 in Singles & Dating

Are there any men who accept large women?

2006-11-15 16:23:42 · 6 answers · asked by Lelani 2 in Singles & Dating

My grandpa is moving in with us. He has memory issues, don't remember what that is called. But he can't remember people or anything. My mom is going to take care of him; woot. And guess what room he gets......mine! Now i have to share a room with my brother; 8 year old brother. I'm pissed. Am I over reacting?

2006-11-15 16:23:03 · 10 answers · asked by Julie K 1 in Family

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. Before that, we were best friends for 3 years. We've lived together for 2 years now. We've been through everything together. Like any other relationship, we've had our ups and downs...
Anyways- we've talked about marriage only a little. I get that he isn't ready...but the way he acts is so discouraging. He says he doesn't want anyone else, that he's 100% happy with us...and I know he loves me.
So what is the problem here?
Not to mention, that when we first got together HE was talking about marriage and whatnot. Now it's me talking and he doesn't seem so interested.
HELP! Please!

2006-11-15 16:22:35 · 16 answers · asked by ilpbab 2 in Weddings

I sometimes get to the point where I hate how I look. I wonder how my boyfriend is still attracted to me. Sometimes when I'm really frustrated about it, I mention how much it bugs me that I feel too thin, or that I broke out. (But I don't complain all the time or anything) I do what I can to take care of it, but I was just wondering if you guys get turned off more when you hear us mention things like that. or does it sort of let you know that at least we're trying to look alright?

Should I just learn to forget about my imperfections? What would you think if it was your girlfriend that did this?

2006-11-15 16:22:02 · 14 answers · asked by sonellenos 1 in Singles & Dating

there's 2 girls who i have a chance with.

the first girl is 1 year older than me and she goes to my college. she's smart, mild-mannered, and actually quite pretty. i have a great time with her and feel confident that she won't cheat on me because she's a virgin. but she doesn't like to go to parties and gets really jealous anytime i even mention another girl's name.

the second girl is 3 years older than me and she's smoking hot, but she lives back at home which is 3 hours away. she has a job and is out in the "real" world. she gets me into clubs and buys me drinks. she's a lot of fun and is very experienced in bed. but she does a lot of things i wouldn't do (like drugs) and feel she won't wait for me to come back to have a little "action."

who do you think i should pursue? i have no idea and it boggles my mind. i'm usually against people posting questions of their personal problems on the internet, but i'm desperate! please help me!

2006-11-15 16:21:29 · 26 answers · asked by Google™ me 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband told me he wanted a divorce and that he doesn't love me, and just doesn't want to be married. I can't understand it, or receive a clear concise answer from him to understand what is happening. All he will say is point blank, he is getting a divorce no matter what and he doesn't want to be married. He says nothing more or less. It is not like we are fighting, we are very cival, he lives with his mom right now, but we still sleep together too. I asked him to come home today, and he said no. That is when he said he didn't want to be married, and didn't want to work on things, and he was getting a divorce and nothing would change that. He told our four year old that he doesn't love me anymore either. Our son point blank asked him. Anyone with ideas about this?

2006-11-15 16:20:58 · 19 answers · asked by Evie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am wanting to move to Scotland and am working on the paperwork as I write this. I am looking for friends and maybe more, have to see how things go.

2006-11-15 16:20:53 · 5 answers · asked by Julia B 6 in Singles & Dating

well he is leaving in the summer and coming back the summer of 2008 i am scared that i will lose his love if he meets someone else or that he wont come back like he says he will. what do you think i should do? and do you think he will actually come back?

2006-11-15 16:20:15 · 8 answers · asked by pretty lady 1 in Singles & Dating

today i want to the kfc store and i buy sone kfc right, and that i want to sit down and eat. after i look around and this girl what works there keep on looking at me for like 30 secs is os long. after she want to help out cleaning the rest of the food. that she came back and look at me like 15 secs. its mass up.

2006-11-15 16:18:53 · 9 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend's friend, a little bit of a friend to mine, came over just yesterday. Actually her ex, and my ex years back that I don't remember one bit of it. Since I saw him and we gabbed a little, and he came inside my house for the first time, I kinda started to get the hots for him. I just recently restarted something on myspace, and he hisself without telling added to my friend list and gave me a good comment. Today when my friend was IMing him, he spoke of "she is a sweetheart". We didn't know if he was talking about me or his dog. It was his dog but he said I was one too. I was shocked and flaitered and started to like him more. The thing is, he didn't know I was seeing what they were IMing back and forth. She later after we got back online, emailed him from my myspace, saying it was her, gabbing stuff and asked him if he ment about me being a sweetheart. She put in it about maybe us to getting back together. I don't how he'll react. Is this kids stuff? I'm I rushing it?

2006-11-15 16:18:47 · 3 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband works a job that he is on the clock anywhere from 8 to 16 hours a day. Somedays he works hard others he doesn't even have to leave the house. I work 8 hours a day and am on my feet the entire time. My question is am I wrong asking him to help with the house work and our son. I mean he just had the last week off and sat in front of the computer and did nothing but watch our son all day while I was at work and when I came home I still was asked what was for dinner and had to put our son to bed. On my two days off for the week I cleaned the house and did laundry for the week. So am I wrong for blowing up at him last night because he would not even help me gather the laundry and put it in the truck so that I could take it the laudramat to wash it and then when I got back he didn't even help me carry it in and when I asked him why he did not help me he said because I did not ask him to. Am I just being a total B or am I right in being mad?

2006-11-15 16:18:10 · 37 answers · asked by fargone14 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 25 girl and have been seeing a guy for 3 months who has said he wants to take it slow. We go to his house and kiss and fool around and are both ver very attracted to each other. Why does he not want to sleep with me?

2006-11-15 16:17:53 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-11-15 16:17:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want to give the male stripper a blo**** job.... at my bachlorette party. I am gonna get married soon, and have seen his pictures. I just want to do this once and my girls tell me i should because this stripper lets girls do it to him. have any of you all do this when you where bride to bes? or know of any that did? should i do it? it will be just once and then i will never cheat on him.

2006-11-15 16:15:54 · 8 answers · asked by jenny h 1 in Friends

My wife and I are no longer interested in each other. Seems like we are living together for our son. I feel attracted to another married lady (a few years older to me), who I think is also attracted to me. Do you think its okay to initiate a relationship (physical as well as emotional) with another lady and continue our respective marriages. I think both myself and the other lady have a lot in common ( I know she is sex starved and needs a shoulder too)

2006-11-15 16:15:51 · 14 answers · asked by Don 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband came home late this evening as he once and and a while did.and when he took off his blue jeans his privite was hanging out of the access pouch of his BRIEFS. He looked down and said these darn briefs it is always falling out.Well we have been married for many years and I have never known that to happen.I replyed with an unkind statment and rolled over in the bed,he came around to the other side of the bed where my back was facing him and jiggled around a little and said there it goes again.I got up told him to stand up and I reached up and tore loose some of the threads to the pouch and told him that he has three hours to make it fall out in front of me and he do do anything he wanted to, to make it happen except pull it out with his hand. Well it did not happen.I told him he got caught with his pants down and because it is almost impossible to get back in while in the stiff stage he was probly going to do it before he got home and he forgot.he still says it fell out. LIE

2006-11-15 16:15:38 · 14 answers · asked by jam b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know her from freshman year, and I am a jounior. I talked to her once recently, and I can't stop thinking about her. I rarlely see her, and rarely talk to her, yet I can't stop thinking about her.

2006-11-15 16:15:36 · 10 answers · asked by Peta Chips 2 in Singles & Dating

I have so many problems but everyone who knows me think I'm the most luckiest happiiest person.My husband is mean 85% of the time and the other time he is nice.I think its because he needs my hlp.He is turning 40 and I'm forcing myself to have this big party for him to make him happy.I help him all the time with any paper wrk(resumes, to work for him whatever) but he is never ever there when we( my kids and I) need him.I don't know if he is using me or if I'm crazy but he hurts me all the time and I can't take it anymore.please don't write anything mean I have no other way of talking to anyone because they view me as someone else.I want to get a divorce but I don't know anything about how to do any of it & I'm afraid I will not be able to take of me and the kids,I'm 12yrs younger than him and I have no interest of ever getting married or to hve another relationship, I wish I had someone that I cud talk to and not get treated differently afterwards.How long does it take to get ovr a man

2006-11-15 16:15:23 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want to give the male stripper a blo**** job.... at my bachlorette party. I am gonna get married soon, and have seen his pictures. I just want to do this once and my girls tell me i should because this stripper lets girls do it to him. have any of you all do this when you where bride to bes? or know of any that did? should i do it? it will be just once and then i will never cheat on him.

2006-11-15 16:15:19 · 5 answers · asked by jenny h 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to give the male stripper a blo**** job.... at my bachlorette party. I am gonna get married soon, and have seen his pictures. I just want to do this once and my girls tell me i should because this stripper lets girls do it to him. have any of you all do this when you where bride to bes? or know of any that did? should i do it? it will be just once and then i will never cheat on him.

2006-11-15 16:14:58 · 13 answers · asked by jenny h 1 in Marriage & Divorce