I'm 25 girl and have been seeing a guy for 3 months who has said he wants to take it slow. We go to his house and kiss and fool around and are both ver very attracted to each other. Why does he not want to sleep with me?
2006-11-15 16:17:53 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not that he doesnt want to, he probably just doesnt want to rush into anything, and he doesnt want to make it seem like thats all he is after. Otherwise then you will think that its all about the sex, and obiously its not or you would have been sleeping with him 3 weeks prior to dating, or seeing the guy.
2006-11-15 16:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by Aby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he has something to be ashamed about. Like a small penis or erectile disfunction or wierd marks on his body. Or he could be just over responsible. I would say as long as your relationship with him is good & you stay attracted to him, dont worry cos things will work out fine. If you really must know the truth then be straightforward with him & ask him.
2006-11-15 16:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably wants to make sure your the one for some long term relationship. Or he's one of those people who saves sex just to play around and then...its good at the end. Give him 18 more days.
2006-11-15 16:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by Nigel W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's too insecure. Sometime, find a way to fall asleep in his arms. That might ease him into the thought of spending the night together.
2006-11-15 16:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better you ask him. What is the problem. And reveal that you want to sleep with him and like more than sleep.
2006-11-15 16:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by rituraj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's just not that into you or he has religious/moral beliefs that are keeping him from doing it.
Both my husband and I were married as virgins because that was our moral conviction.
2006-11-15 16:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by mandiedq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE BECAUSE HE A REAL MAN, AND THE FACT THAT
YOU HAVE KNOW EACH OTHER 3 MONTHS. SO GIVE
IT TIME. LET THE RELATIONSHIP GROW.
2006-11-15 16:24:09 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you complaining? atleast thats not all hes after. i think its great he wants to take it slow, get to know you before doing the dirty. i wouldnt be upset about it...
2006-11-15 16:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the guy... he's definitely a virgin or doesnt know how to transition from making out to sex. try giving him head or something and move slow
2006-11-15 16:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by private0909 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wants to take it slow, mayhaps? Nothing wrong with that.
2006-11-15 16:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by BrightEyedBlasphemer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋