My wife and I are no longer interested in each other. Seems like we are living together for our son. I feel attracted to another married lady (a few years older to me), who I think is also attracted to me. Do you think its okay to initiate a relationship (physical as well as emotional) with another lady and continue our respective marriages. I think both myself and the other lady have a lot in common ( I know she is sex starved and needs a shoulder too)
2006-11-15 16:15:51 · 14 answers · asked by Don 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Absolutely NOT. That's called adultery. It's wrong and shameful. Do yourself and your wife a favor, and file for a divorce. There's no reason to stay in an unhappy marriage for your son. He will know what's going on. Kids are not stupid. Also, steer clear of married women. It sounds like you need time alone to figure out what you need in life.
2006-11-15 16:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone aged than you are and sex-starved as well. And you - not happy with your wife looking for it outside marriage. You two have a lot in common. What? Hunger of SEX or ... or ...
DO YOU THINK IT IS ANY BETTER THAN YOUR PRESENT STATE OF AFFAIRS?
You are in total mess. It would be better that you try to make your marriage last longer. You have a common reason to do so - YOUR SON. And you know marriages are about caring for each other and more importantly, your kid.
I gather, it is more of a problem where you do not value what you have and yearn for what you do not have. You are ready to leave your wife (if you had no kid) whom you had married, perhaps, out of your own choice. And you want to get involved with a woman whom you do not seem to know better and the attraction (?) is more of physical (read sexual) than emotional.
Weigh your options and get out of it. Discuss with your wife. SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE FOR THE SAKE OF THE KID.
2006-11-16 02:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help how your heart feels! BUT... If you see that the relationship with the other might go somewhere then you both need to cut strings with your partners. You only live once so you should be happy & follow your heart but at the same time have enough respect to let your partners go so they can find someone they can be happy with also.
2006-11-16 00:20:41 · answer #3 · answered by Emmi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Live only for you.
think of others, Think about your wife and son.
Talk to her and try to sort the issue out.
Be a best Dad and caring Husband,that is more important than your own pleasures.
2006-11-16 00:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by sree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALL ME YOUNG AND STUPID BUT I THINK IF YOU HAVE A FLING WITH SOMEONE MARRIED YOU WILL END UP DIVORCED OR YOUR MARRIAGE WILL BECOME STRONG SO IF YOUR WILLING TO TAKE THE CHANCE OF DIVORCE THAN GO FOR IT BUT IF NOT TALK TO YOUR WIFE HOW YOU FEEL MAYBE IT WILL CHANGE YOUR MARRIAGE FOR THE BETTER AND YOUR SEX LIFE.
2006-11-16 00:22:59 · answer #5 · answered by vanessa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u r committed then u should not cheat on a relationship. be frank and bold enough to talk to ur wife before taking any step.
2006-11-16 01:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like my husband...It really hurts to see some men think like this..if u attracted to this other woman please tell ur wife so she could move on with her life and you could do what ever you want with whoever...Don't hurt your wife if you don't like her to hurt you that way..
2006-11-16 00:20:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is very wrong. get a life. OR A FRIKKIN DIVORCE MAN.
would you rather your son live with you two getting a divorce, or would you rather him find out you are having an affair and cheating on his mommy.!!??!? OMG
2006-11-16 00:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by saveitforthemoshpit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you sit down and tell your wife how you feel instead of taking a chance on hurting her how would you feel if she stepped out on you
2006-11-16 00:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT YOU NEED TO DO. YOU AND YOUR WIFE NEED
TO GET COUNSELING TO HELP WITH THE MARRIAGE
OR NEED TO GET OUT. AS FOR THE OTHER WOMEN
SHE ALSO HAVE SOME ISSUES TO WORK OUT. BUT
DONT START ONE CHAPTER UNTIL YOU CLOSE THE
FIRST ONE THAT YOU END.
2006-11-16 00:20:23 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋