was dating ths guy , for a few months, he happenes to be my almost soroity sister's best friend,(keep in mind I didn;t finish the process to join, so I'm not actually a member) so anyhow, one day I text messaged him about my earrings, five minutes later, he text me, saying they weren't at his house, and then I left him a voicemail asking him nicely, if he could look for them, at his earliest ,because i was wearing them to go on a date, he text messaged me five minutes later and told me not to call him anymore, because he did not like me and that he would tell my sorority sisters about our relationship...and he would tell other people as well, and what a coincidence one of my sorority sisters calls me and invites me to an event that he was hosting? What do you think was the cause of his behavior and do you think she knows something, or maybe he told her something,?Or was it a coincidence that she calls me asks me to go out with her after I ahdn't heard from her in over eight months
2006-11-15 16:24:08 · 7 answers · asked by Virgo1980 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thers'a word limit, so I couldn't get every detail in there.
2006-11-15 16:31:02 · update #1
What sort of relationship was it that you are afraid of someone finding out? Maybe you are overreacting?
2006-11-15 16:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by prairiegurrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound old enough to be in college let alone a soroity...there are no "almost" soroity sisters, either you are or you're not in the soroity. If you are then you ARE a sister if you're not then you're not a sister period. You text messaged asking about your ear rings he told you they weren't there. You should have DROPPED it there but YOU went and called him. Which put him on the defensive because he figured you thought he wasn't telling the truth. Doesn't take a college prof to figure that one out.
2006-11-16 01:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the issue some time to cool down. If the guy really cares for you he should feel bad enough to explain why he cut you off without a reason. And I wouldn't really know about your sorority sis, maybe she knew something or maybe it's just plain coincidence. But if ever there was a set up involved, then at least you wouldn't stumble right into it.
Ask him about it when you think no one expects it. You'd get a more truthful answer that way.
Personally though, I think he's a jerk. And you deserve better.
2006-11-16 00:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by cookie_cola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule number one for college cellphones....
If you recieve a message out of the ordinary, wait 15 minuets and try again. I can't list the number of times someone else had my phone and started texting.
2006-11-16 00:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by Chris L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi dear..with no intention to make u feel bad...i have a very genuine thought...y no just stop thinking and talking to this guy..who cannot even respect u?..as a human beng,i think self respect shud be priority..if u will respect urself,only then will others treat with respect and dignity...u are lot better and i m sure u will get far better guys than the one u r talking about.ry my advice and avoid him....lets see..how he reacts..dont b a door mat for anyone.
2006-11-16 00:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by smile :-) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like these guys are setting you up for a fall...Don't go to their little affair. I'm sure you've got better things to do than play games. Right?
Have a good nite! ! !
2006-11-16 00:30:05 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you really in college? 'Cause you write like you are about 9.
2006-11-16 00:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋