Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

We went out for 5yrs and broke up cuz he cheated on me. I don't love him and NEVER wanna get back with him.

It's been almost 6 months. I sometimes think maybe i can hang out with him as friends, but most of the time, i just hate him. he said he doesn't wanna get back with me either, but he contacts me everyday. why????????

is he just trying to take advantage of me? or does he still care about me? i don't know if i should tell him not to contact me anymore...

2006-11-15 14:28:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let's say you met a girl who wants to wait until marriage. You like being with her, have a lot in common, and want to be her boyfriend. She says she wants to wait, but you've had sex with other girls b/4 so its a hard situation. Would you agree and later try to change her mind to have sex with you? Would you stay in a relationship with her for more than 3 months? Would you cheat on her with other girls? Guys, how do you feel about sex until marriage????

2006-11-15 14:28:04 · 18 answers · asked by truth hurts 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 14:27:35 · 7 answers · asked by Bryan L 1 in Singles & Dating

What actions do girls consider to make a clingy boy?

2006-11-15 14:26:40 · 8 answers · asked by Avidian 1 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes being in love can kick you in the a**. When you are down and sad....what song do you listen to?

2006-11-15 14:25:58 · 45 answers · asked by lisa 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, There's This really cute guy at my school, his name is Andy, and I get the feeling he's feeling something for me, but then theres so many other girls in The Class that like Him Too, And I'm Fat and Ugly. And There Perfect. So now I dn't know what to do, should I be his friend or try and ask him out, or just stay away??

2006-11-15 14:25:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok soo are guys more attracted to girls with long blonde hair ??? or shorter hair??

Blonde?
Brown?
Black?
Red? Which is hottest?

2006-11-15 14:24:10 · 7 answers · asked by Shelby C 1 in Singles & Dating

My dad got a divorce when I was 7ish, and then he got engaged to a woman, Maureen. Maureen verbally abused me, and I know if I stayed with that woman anymore she would've hit me. She had a son and a daughter, I loved her daughter as a true sister and I miss her so much. Maureen hates my dad for leaving her [she's phychotic] and probably wont let me see her daughter, and even if she did, I would be scared of her trying to abuse me. Her father is my dad's friend, but I dont know what to say to be able to see my little sister again. It feels like she died since now she's just an old memory. I want her back. I love her. Anyone have an idea of how to get to my sister and love her again?

2006-11-15 14:23:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 27 years old and my new bride is 20 years old. I am wondering if Texas law will allow my spouse to acommpany me to a dance club and be allowed to drink, if proof of marriage via a marriage license is presented.

2006-11-15 14:23:49 · 26 answers · asked by calebadkins 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know I stay up with her all night, tell her i love her at;east more than 20 times a day, hug her and kiss her 5 times a day, respect her, lover her, talk to her constantly, beleive her, trust her, stand up for her, right poems for her, never lie, never get mad at her, and help her but how do I be a good boyfriend? Sometimes I get depressed and feel unloved.

2006-11-15 14:23:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is in my class and he always seems to be looking @ me... he will put his head on his desk and just stare stare at me for ever!!!!! and its funny cause if i look aat him he will look me stright in the eyes and smile and hes REALLY CUTE!!!!!! do u think he likes me?

2006-11-15 14:23:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 14:23:19 · 8 answers · asked by Kayla 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 14:23:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-11-15 14:22:32 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 14:21:49 · 9 answers · asked by bigwheeler19 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I notice my ex giving me sad little stares and not saying a word to me. Its been 5 months since we broke up but he doesnt seem happy at all. He's only laughing around certain people but when he's close to me (like in class) he seems sad. What does this mean?

2006-11-15 14:21:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 14:20:31 · 7 answers · asked by josie 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend(ex-girlfriend) thinks that I'm negative. She thinks that I hate everything. I don't understand. I mean yes, I dislike a lot of the things she likes, but she also dislikes pretty much everything that I like. For example, we rarely agree when it comes to music. She listens to the mainstream rock while I prefer the more underground indie-type stuff. It just seems absurd for her to think this way. I could easily say the same about her, but I don't. I try to give constructive criticism when she asks my opinion on some band or something, but she always turns it into me going on a rant. What is it that I'm doing here? Is it even me? Is she crazy?

2006-11-15 14:20:21 · 9 answers · asked by feedazombie 1 in Friends

2006-11-15 14:20:17 · 5 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 14:20:11 · 15 answers · asked by J3Buckets 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine has been speading a lot of rumors. He said that one girl (my friend) gave him mono. He said another girl slept with him. Then he tells people that I'm sleeping with this one girl. (Which, I'm still a virgin.) Well he made the wrong people mad. They want to ankle him during a time at school when everyone is in the same room. They dont want to just pull down his pants but his boxers too. Now, I have a problem. Should I tell him and spare him the embarrassment or let him learn his lesson about rumors? (By the way, he is a little below average, if you know what I mean, and that would make it extra embarrassing to him if his pants were dropped.)

2006-11-15 14:19:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I sensed that he wanted to get back together..and I felt like giving him a chance. I am not sure if this is the right thing to do. We decided to wait till January and see how we feel. He had been on anti-depressants till a month ago. I just am so confused. I am scared of getting hurt again. I do not know how to deal with it. I am wondering if I should just tell him that it is better we end it or wait till January now..it is all very draining emotionally for me.

2006-11-15 14:19:11 · 7 answers · asked by confused_gal 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in my early thirties and I remember when my mother would enter a room, men would cease thier talking and say a lady is in the room. Men use to open the door for you. They would give respect to a woman no matter who she was or how she looked. Now men will swear around women, burp, or whatever else. Why is it that men do not give ladies proper respect anymore?

2006-11-15 14:18:56 · 23 answers · asked by 2fine4u 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 14:17:59 · 19 answers · asked by flybaby1016 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I kind of like this guy, but we dont go to the same school, we mostly talk on msn. I love chatting with him, but his parents dont even let him go on msn on weekdays. So he sneeks on really late and he goes on from 12am-3to4am and so if i want to chat with him i have to stay up late too. But im getting really tired at school these days, lik in class i can barely open my eyes from the tiredness. If i start sleeping regularly i'll only be able to talk to him on weekends. =( so what do i do? to make myself more awake, or sleep normally even when i chat with him. Ya and he calls me at like 1am and we talk for like 2hrs. but i cant call him because i dont know... his sister blackmails him and his parents dont let him hang with all his friends. what can i do? I ONLY GET 2 FREAKIN HOURS TO SLEEP A DAY NOW TOO....

2006-11-15 14:17:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 14:16:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you were a jr.would you ask out a varsity level soph. gymnast?? y or y not???

2006-11-15 14:16:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My future mother in law hates me because I take offense at her trying to be my boyfriend's wife. She lives next door and comes over whenever she feels like it, sometimes before we are out of bed. I started world war 3 by asking her one day not to...now i am devil spawn and she hates me.Please help

2006-11-15 14:16:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I mean he flirt(ed)s with me a lot, but now he's going out with my best friend. That's not the worst part though, it's that she knows I like(d) him. He's a sweet guy, so I'm sure he didn't want to hurt me, but I'm feeling a little lost at the moment.

2006-11-15 14:15:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can say that I am happy with myself and I have been able to maintain my looks and figure. Yet, in reading some of these things that men say about women, it is sad. I see men call women fat and too skinny. It seems to me that they are so superficial. I have seen these men that only work for minimal wage want a woman that has six figures and look like a model. I just want to say that women are looking for thier match. If you are not all that great looking and broke, stop lying to yourself, be happy that you get any woman at all. It is sad that some women fall victim to this nonsense.If you are not appealing to one man, so what find another one. Men open your eyes, we are truelly beautiful. Why would you disrespect and criticize the vessels that carry and bring forth life?

2006-11-15 14:15:01 · 8 answers · asked by 2fine4u 6 in Singles & Dating