I can say that I am happy with myself and I have been able to maintain my looks and figure. Yet, in reading some of these things that men say about women, it is sad. I see men call women fat and too skinny. It seems to me that they are so superficial. I have seen these men that only work for minimal wage want a woman that has six figures and look like a model. I just want to say that women are looking for thier match. If you are not all that great looking and broke, stop lying to yourself, be happy that you get any woman at all. It is sad that some women fall victim to this nonsense.If you are not appealing to one man, so what find another one. Men open your eyes, we are truelly beautiful. Why would you disrespect and criticize the vessels that carry and bring forth life?
2006-11-15 14:15:01 · 8 answers · asked by 2fine4u 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all women want to be a size five or a D cup. They should be comfortable in thier own skin without constant criticism.
2006-11-15 14:24:08 · update #1
let me counter...why do otherwise intelligent women seem drawn to the biggest jackass they can find, who treats them like nothing and cheats on them, while complaining to the guys who treat them right?
and how is it less shallow to be materialistic, instead of caring about looks? why do fat and undisciplined women have to be considered beautiful? yes, you carry life - good for you. so what? you didn't earn it, you didn't work for that. its something thats evolutionarily based.
now, all of us observe that the other sex seems to be the more messed up one, thats because we are a disexual species, and that comes with a lot of programming, which the other sex just cant comprehend. i truly hope that you are one of the few women who hold standards for her men - not based on income, but rather ideals such as honor or integrity or intelligence or wisdom, which you sadly didn't mention, and would have made you seem much better. but i extend you the benefit of the doubt.
2006-11-15 14:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by savgbst 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a chick, but I get where a lot of the guys are coming from...for all the women I've heard give lovely speeches like the one you just did, I've never heard or seen those same women go after a fat guy to date...or drool over a short bald guy in glasses...
Humans are visual creatures...we naturally are drawn to things we find appealing to look at...we want to get to know more about them...
You are right, a lot of guys will discount the fat girls or the super skinny girls right off the bat...just as a lot of women discount the fat guys or the geeky looking ones, before getting to know them...
...but what also happens a lot is that these people do end up getting to know one another in some way...and the more they know, the more they like...
I know a ton of fat and skinny and not-so-pretty girls (and guys) that are in relationships...so apparently not everyone is overlooking them...
Women who aren't happy with themselves should do what they can to change it...improve their self esteem...confident people are very attractive, no matter what they look like...
2006-11-15 22:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh because they are ugly themselves. Or shallow.
Really though society puts a premium on beauty. If a man is seen with an attractive woman other men will perceive him to be a winner and he will get admiration from other men. Its stupid but it is what it is.
2006-11-15 22:17:22 · answer #3 · answered by Perplexed 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What you describe is big boys looking for a sugar mama to pinch off of- and a trophy!! Some have really big egos and nothing to back it with-D
2006-11-15 22:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys do that-its the jerks and losers who do that. But, guys aren't the only ones who do it-we do it too. The hotties date in jr. high and highschool, the nerds who become rich marry after college. It's the nerds who get the hot girls.
2006-11-15 22:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by maconheira 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
poor up bringing,,they were critized as kids..low self esteem..really they were raised in a pist poor enviroment
2006-11-15 22:18:18 · answer #6 · answered by native,pride 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So are you saying, you carries the babies, you calls the shots? Now THAT's sexist!
Answer to all "why does gender 'x' do 'y' to gender 'z" questions....it happens both ways!!!!
2006-11-15 22:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You sound pretty critical of men yourself..
2006-11-15 22:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋