I sensed that he wanted to get back together..and I felt like giving him a chance. I am not sure if this is the right thing to do. We decided to wait till January and see how we feel. He had been on anti-depressants till a month ago. I just am so confused. I am scared of getting hurt again. I do not know how to deal with it. I am wondering if I should just tell him that it is better we end it or wait till January now..it is all very draining emotionally for me.
2006-11-15 14:19:11 · 7 answers · asked by confused_gal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well people get confused in long relationships be happy that he still cares. If you love him give him another chance he is a human with feelings and probably just needed time apart. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, He will probably appreciate you more.
2006-11-15 14:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by Kari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I went through the same thing... just with my girlfriend at the time. Basically, she started acting weird, starting hanging out with other guys when I wasn't there and then I saw her kiss a guy at a Detroit Piston's game. She didn't know I was there and I didn't know she was there. I broke it off that night. I took her back about a month later because I loved her. She was crying telling me she made a massive mistake and all that goes with that. She apologized promised it would never happen again and we dated 4 more months. It ended BADLY because, when they beg for you to take them back, or even if it's a notion that they want to be back with you, you need to think about their motives. Their motives are not always yours. They could be after money, sex, popularity... you never know, but then again, they could be after the love they took for granted before. Think about WHY would this person who already burned me want to be back with me again> If you even have a slight feeling that his motives are not pure, don't even think about starting back up with him. That's my advice... take it or leave it.
2006-11-15 22:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you broke up in the first place and who and what he has been doing in the mean time-that is since you broke up-You don't need to be hurt again- or toyed w - take care- and make a good decision- D
2006-11-15 22:22:15 · answer #3 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give him a chance just move on with your life and forget him he do it once and he can do it again, just tell him that he made the best choice, cause if you take him back he do it again you are gonna be on the same emotional rollercoaster over again and its nothing healthy
2006-11-15 22:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you a question. First of all, how old are you? If you are old enough to understand the concept of settling down, then this is what you do.
Close your eyes and picture yourself old and grey.
Reach deep down and who do you see beside you?
If it is your ex, then give him a second chance. If not, then you two need to become friends and keep it at that.
2006-11-15 22:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by passionate_play270 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should move on with your life, 3 years is a long time to get over it, you're still healing, move on with your life and forget about him. Whatever the reason he broke up with you, it won't change, it'll still be there if you get back with him.
2006-11-15 22:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he really does feel bad and you can seriously tell then go ahead and get back together with hiim if you feel ok with it but if you feel like you need more time for yourself then i would just tell him to wait a while
2006-11-15 22:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by courtney5839 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋