A friend of mine has been speading a lot of rumors. He said that one girl (my friend) gave him mono. He said another girl slept with him. Then he tells people that I'm sleeping with this one girl. (Which, I'm still a virgin.) Well he made the wrong people mad. They want to ankle him during a time at school when everyone is in the same room. They dont want to just pull down his pants but his boxers too. Now, I have a problem. Should I tell him and spare him the embarrassment or let him learn his lesson about rumors? (By the way, he is a little below average, if you know what I mean, and that would make it extra embarrassing to him if his pants were dropped.)
2006-11-15 14:19:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Warn him, but at the same time confront him with what he is doing. Tell him to do some fast apologizing to the people he has spread rumours on, or else. And let him know it is the last time you stand up for him in any way unless he changes his behaviour.
2006-11-15 14:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Ed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first four words were 'a friend of mine...'. Because he is a friend, a frank conversation with him regarding his behavior and what is planned for him is in order.
If you were making bad decisions and someone was planning to humiliate you for it, wouldn't you want a friend to tell you?
2006-11-15 22:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by lisa_tilton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it would be easy to say that What goes around ,comes around. But would u want it done to you? ,i think u should tell him ,but also tell him why they are going to do it,and be blunt about it,dont be all cosy when u tell him
2006-11-15 22:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by lakersfanatic132 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre nice to be worried about his...position, however I'd let him get what deserves maybe it will teach him a lesson.
2006-11-15 22:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by Typical White Person 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around, comes around....perhaps he'll think twice in the future about lying about others and causing them humiliation, when he thinks about how it made him feel...
2006-11-15 22:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I normally like to protect others, but this guy even made comments about you. I would let him learn his lesson.
Take care,
Troy
2006-11-15 22:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of the the times he spread rumors or did something nice.even if he's your friend he still deserve it because of the rumors.
2006-11-15 22:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around comes around...
2006-11-15 22:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋