sorry people this is gonna be a long one.
Ok, Im 21 and my husband is 26. He has diabedes and has had it since 11. He told me that before we got married. He never told me he had erectile problems because of the diabedes. well, ever since about a month after we got married, we rarely have sex. Rarely meaning maybe twice to three times a month , maybe. Here is my problem. My self esteem and self worth is dwindling downward. I dont feel atractive ( i know im an attractive woman) and i dont feel desirable to my husband . I somtimes spend whole days getting everything "perfect" to have sex. I start in the morning doing my hair, makeup, cleaning up the house making the bed, make the bedroom romantic etc...I have once again, tonight, been turned down by my husband and I feel like screaming. what should I do to make sure that i dont loose my self esteem because of his problem? he doesnt kiss me at all. How do I maitain my self esteem without going crazy witout sex??
2006-11-15
14:35:50
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chicwitpurpose
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