I think my friend wants my husband.?

Question

I am friends with my husbands best friends sister (got that?). My husband has known her his whole life, they grew up across the road from eachother. When they were younger, she was 15 and he was 17, she came to his house and was in his room with a short sleeve shirt and without her hair covered (we are Muslim and this is forbidden). He told her to leave and told her he would tell her brothers if she didn't. She has wanted his since they were teenagers, but he didn't want her because she has no respect for herself. She has since gotten married and has 3 kids. Since she met me she has been extremly jealous and is showing it. She starts rumors about me and tries to make my other friends not like me. She even named her daughter Maysam (my husband is called Sam) and bought her a necklace that she makes her daughter wear everyday that says Mysam. What can I do? I know my husband has no intrest in her at all, but she still bothers me. Anyone else been through similar situations?

Answer 1

I'm not Muslim.. But your husband has turned her down...in the past. So he does not like, want or love her. Her feelings are one sided. yes she is jealous you have the man she wanted but didn't want her. I agree with others she is no friend of yours. If at all possible I would exclude her from your house and set her away for the lack of respect she has shown you and your family. If you have to be near her than I would ignore her be polite but stay away from her...tell you husband about what she does that you know it's childish and petty but it's hurtful and maybe he can talk to her brother about it. But I agree never leave her around him alone she is spiteful and is likely to start another rumor that won't be pleasant for anybody.

Answer 2

Since you know your husband has no designs on her, you have nothing to fear on that end. However, she is another problem.

Why do you let her bother you? If she's starting rumors about you, and you know they're not true, and your (real) friends know they're not true, don't even acknowledge them. She will be left alone and lonely.

Be friendly to her, be kind to her, be hospitable to her, but never, ever leave her alone if your husband is around. If she hasn't already said that your husband did something, she will, if given the chance. Good luck.

Answer 3

First of all she is not your friend she is your husbands best friends sister. I really don't know if you are confrontational in your religion but I would confront her tell her to stop speaking your name out of her mouth and leave your husband alone if he wanted her he would have been with her back then.

Answer 4

I think my friend wants my husband.?

Answer 5

I think that you are starting to let this consume you. Stop putting so much energy into thinking about it. Your husband loves you and has rejected her in the past...you have nothing to worry about. You have no control over what she calls her kids, she could call the next one Samsam. Let it go. hold your head up high and feel sorry for her.

Answer 6

first of all she is not your friend shes only hanging around to suit her own purpose & she will not let up until you put your foot down. you need to let her know that she is no longer your friend & that she needs to move on & that she is not welcome in your home & not to be comeing around you or your husband any more or else shes gonna have to deal with the autorities if shes still up to no good. {good luck}

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Answer 8

First sweetie she not your friend, thats an over used word. That B............th needs to excuded from you life and you need tell her something quick fast in HURRY. ice her NOW. wake up girl before it's to late.

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