My Girl friend Left Me?

Question

Hello every body
i really feel bad and i am crying right now and i cry every night
well i'll tell u my story
from 2 years when i was in 2nd year high school
i met a girl she loved me but i didn't love her
i said let's be friends i didn't want cheat her at that time i didn't feel any thing towards her also because i wanted to concentrate on my study
but when i finished high school i started to go out with her
we had alot of fun
and i started to love her
love grew up more and more we had a great love story
i considered it as a friend as a mother as a lover as a girl friend every thing in my life and i told her that
we had alot of problems and fights like any lovers normally we fight and then forget
but at the end she said i stoped thinking with my heart i don't know wha will happen later lets be friends and god knows what will happen later
it was a great shock 4 me
i feel lost sad and i am crying i lover soooooooooo much
i cryed in the phone while i was talking to her

I want her back i can't live without her
i want her to love me again but my main question am i going to love her like before after all what she did i may be made her do this i pressed on her alot but i never tried to leave her

Answer 1

I cannot take away your pain. I can, however, assure you that this will pass. The pain will lesson over time, and you will fall in love again.

Take care.

Answer 2

Life sucks and relationships are always problematic. Your paths crossed for a time and it was good, now it is over. Have a good cry, pick yourself up and go find another.
Consider it practice, there will be plenty more women in your life that will stomp your heart flat and scamper off.
Sorry, that is just the way it is.

Answer 3

Hai
Don't be upset.
Try to talk to her clearly and sort out the issuse.
If problem is solved ,it's okay.Forget the past and love her as much as you did before.
If not,you need not cry,only she has to cry to miss a good soft natured guy like you.

Answer 4

If its tears your shedding and you can't get her off of your mind then love may be it...but if ur in my boat where ive liked this guys for almost a 1 1/2 years and you still can't get him off you mind maybe that person is suppost to be there. State that to her "If you can't get somebody of your mind, maybe they're suppost to be in there" hopefully she feels the same but the guy i like likes me back...hes in the marines...but we've never once said we loved eachother..and i hope one day it will come to it :-/

Answer 5

provide up doing that to youself its no longer worth hurting your self at the same time as someone already left you.. Love isn't each thing there are countless extra major issues in our life take care!!!

Answer 6

You might have hurt her many a times that is what has forced her to change her mind.Whatever is in your mind your body language shows it all,she might have read you and your feelings.So nothing to worry first try to be honest with yourself.

Answer 7

so sad, i know it hurts now and will for awhile. just try talking to her but dont put a lot of pressure on her. remember you wanted to be friends before. do that and see what happens. good luck to you/

Answer 8

ohhh that is really sad to here im sorry!! but like she said god knows best.... and if this is her decision i think you should respect her awnser... and if you guys fought a lot then maybe it wasnt for the best

Answer 9

Such drama in marriage and divorce when your not even married.

Answer 10

Get a shrink. You'll find another gal.