I know I stay up with her all night, tell her i love her at;east more than 20 times a day, hug her and kiss her 5 times a day, respect her, lover her, talk to her constantly, beleive her, trust her, stand up for her, right poems for her, never lie, never get mad at her, and help her but how do I be a good boyfriend? Sometimes I get depressed and feel unloved.
2006-11-15 14:23:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You feel unloved because your trying TOO hard, and, to be frank, she thinks your a p*ssy.
2006-11-15 14:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey I have a boyfriend that acted the same way you do and I told him to chill the hell out! no offense, but you are over doing it. she doesn't need to hear I love you 20 times a day. If you want to make her happy, pay attention to how she acts towards you. Is she that dramatic? probably not. tune down to her comfort level so that the 2 of you are on the same page. the last thing you want to be is overwhelming, it leads to break- ups. try acting natural. she will love it! this over doing it stuff, will only push her away. save the poetry, say i love you when appropriate, try disagreeing sometime. it goes with the old saying if it seems to good to be true it probably is.. take it easy on her, and if you don't agree with what I have just said, ask her if you over do the affection thing.. she will probably say yes. good luck, and remember, tune it down a little :)
2006-11-15 22:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by Dot9330 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are doing everything right. The question is, Is she doing the same for you if not then maybe you are unloved and need to find someone who appreciates a good boyfriend
2006-11-15 22:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by mamakaty02 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well josh she should be doing the same thing for you in my oppion you doing more than enough and your seem like a good bf to her. trust me you doing a good job and sometimes your partner doesn't give you the same love back thats why you get depressed cause you do alot for her and she doesn't give that same love energy back but your one of the good ones alot of girls would kill to have a bf like you. but just stay loyal a true and am sure in time things will work out for the best
2006-11-15 22:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah this seems true enough. The key word for the designated boyfriend is sharing. Later you can look up spirit wife for greater light..
2006-11-19 08:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a great bf, maybe the reason why you feel so depressed is because she doesnt do the same for you. maybe your doing to much, im not saying she does or doesnt just guessing on maybe thats why.
2006-11-15 22:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by jojo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh dude, what you doing is great..try few more days..and wait for for her resposnse.If she still not recognize your love and caring...better ignore her.
You can not run after people who dont love you.Find who loves you better than you do..that will be heaven.
2006-11-15 22:32:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may be smothering her...I defintly know a guy that does all these things, but way to soon in a relationship!! you need to go slow, and let her do some of the "work"
2006-11-15 22:32:38 · answer #8 · answered by MaryLou 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your overbeing a good boyfriend for her dude. Aren't you gettin tired of doing that everyday?
2006-11-15 22:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by max p 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi Josh, it's good to see that your avatar is no longer sad. What you're doing should be good enough. If that isn't good enough for her, then she doesn't deserve you.
2006-11-16 20:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by Evan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋