What actions do girls consider to make a clingy boy?
2006-11-15 14:26:40 · 8 answers · asked by Avidian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
KK I'm talking about highschool here.
I havent been called clingy but i just want to make sure im not and that im doin the right thing
2006-11-15 14:37:15 · update #1
That all depends on the girl. My man calls me every day (we live apart) and we IM sometimes too, and see eachother 1 or 2 times a week. He tells me how much he loves me and needs me and how wonderful I am, how lucky he is....my friends all say they want to vomit. But I love him, and I love that he loves me that much.
My best friend thinks that if a guy wants to actually consider their relationship serious and use the words "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" he is too clingy and she runs. She is such a commitment-phobe.
2006-11-15 14:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, outside of high school, a clingy boyfriend is one that has to be everywhere she is. If not, he has to know exactly where she is and he might even try to show up - its not jealousy, no, its more of a low self-confidence issue.
Not only that, but he's constantly searching for her reassurances. The clingy man is one who can't make a decision without first making sure the woman is ok with it - like i said, its a lack of confidence. This man is like a lost puppy, following her around...
why, were you told you were clingy?
2006-11-15 14:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by trina_weena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calling nonstop, having to spend every moment together, saying "I love you" every 5 minutes. My ex was like that, it drove me insane. My boyfriend and I hardly ever talk on the phone and spend one day together a week (we also work together though). I like it a lot better this way. We still see each other, but we also have plenty of our own time where we can do whatever we want (hang out with friends, shop, etc) without feeling smothered.
2006-11-15 14:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls tend to think of guys who call excessively, or text them repeatedly as clingy. Girls want to know they are important to a guy, but they also want them to be independent enough to function when they aren't with them, too.
I think the answer to your question boils down to emotional dependence - especially if the relationship isn't mature enough to warrant such a strong attachment.
2006-11-15 14:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by lisa_tilton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always with them wherever they go!! like i had this boyfriend named travis!! omg i couldnt stand him! we were only dating for 3 days and i came home got off the bus and he was in my driveway! i never once told him where i live! it was crazy! and he would do that a lot! and at skool he would be everywhere i turned! it was crazy i just had to dump him! so pretty much dont be with her all the time just give her a little space but not to much
2006-11-15 14:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by courtney5839 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man who calls you too many times a day. We like to know that our man is thinking about us but not 72x a day.
2006-11-15 14:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hanging around with her too often, calling her way too much, pretty much just being obsessed with her, just got to give the girl some room thats all
2006-11-15 14:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by none 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he calls more then 2 times aday is always wanting to be with me and never hang out with his own friends always tells me where he is going.
2006-11-15 14:40:44 · answer #8 · answered by blood_shadow_walks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋