We went out for 5yrs and broke up cuz he cheated on me. I don't love him and NEVER wanna get back with him.
It's been almost 6 months. I sometimes think maybe i can hang out with him as friends, but most of the time, i just hate him. he said he doesn't wanna get back with me either, but he contacts me everyday. why????????
is he just trying to take advantage of me? or does he still care about me? i don't know if i should tell him not to contact me anymore...
2006-11-15 14:28:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if he cheated on you i wouldnt even respond back! i hate cheaters so much because to me if someone really loves you they wouldnt cheat! but i just wouldnt talk back i would ignore his calls, text messages anything like that! he disrespected you thats not right
2006-11-15 14:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Luna: He cheated ... got caught .. broke up with you. He has played the field and is sick of sowing his oats ! Now, he wants you back ! What about next time when a new fling walks into his life and you are back with him? Will he go chasing skirt again? Where there is no trust there is no love ! You should of been dating around having a good time during the past 5 years of your life instead of going steady with Don Juan (ex). You wasted 5 years of your life trusting him. You don't know anything better about life because you were with him for 5 years - try going out with different guys to get in step with what's current in life, apart from your ex. To put it another way to you ... do you want to go through the heart-ache again when your ex cheats on you ? Think about it !!!
2006-11-15 14:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you reread your question you will find the answer. You said, " I don't love him and NEVER wanna get back with him." That says it all. Tell him its over and there is no need for him to contact you, and move on with your life.
2006-11-15 14:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by rec 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only person who can answer that is him. Either he is telling you the truth, that he doesn't want to get back with you. Or he is lying but the only way you will know is if you ask him - again!
Quit torturing yourself by trying to guess why he's doing the things he's doing, just ask. I promise it's less confusing and much less stressful.
2006-11-15 14:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by purpleshopper 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably still cares about you. And now realizes he made a mistake. BUT cheating is never allowed in a relationship.I'd move on and tell him to do the same.
2006-11-15 14:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by mama 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not try and crawl inside his head to figure out why. You talk to him everyday and if you have asked and don't trust his answer and you hate him--I can think of no reason why you should continue contact.
2006-11-15 14:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by donewiththismess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because he still felt something speacial for you.. love moves in mysterious ways soo..it largely depends on the things that happened before..or he wants to explain why he cheated on you..
2006-11-15 14:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
One reason your ex still contacts you is to get into sac. The other could probably me that even though you and them did not make it in relationship, but could be the best of freinds
2006-11-15 14:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by tygr2006@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh been through this just recently he just wants to take advantage cuz thats what happened to me.
2006-11-15 14:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by jessica 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch out! He's back for the booty!
2006-11-15 14:32:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋