Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

The sex is for the most part, great. But I can never get her to fully "enjoy" herself. Are there any tricks of the trade to get "her motor running?" Any help is appreciated greatly and the best answer will be chosen subject to whether it worked or not. :-)

2006-11-15 18:09:01 · 18 answers · asked by jokerscard692000 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Does it mean what he looks like, or how he acts, or both?

Can a guy who is quirky or ugly be cute?

Can a old guy be cute, or is this a term for someone younger only?

2006-11-15 18:08:43 · 9 answers · asked by Middy S 2 in Singles & Dating

That whenever someone on here says anything nice about white girls noone answers with half as many snide remarks as when someone post something on here about black girls being attractive?

2006-11-15 18:08:27 · 6 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married two years. In this two years.. he hasnt EVER tried to wine and dine me... or do anything romantic. Sexually... its all about him. I love sex with him... but here is an example of 99 percent of our sexual coitus... he rubs my butt for about 15 seconds... takes off my underwear and slides it in. If I want an Orgasm... I have to be on top and do it myself. I am 8 mos pregnant and we have a 10 month old daughter. Yes... pregnant for two years. I have put him down out of such anger and frustration.. I have told him he sucks in bed, has no ding dong... etc.... and that is also because he ran me down all the time in the past .., telling me how awesome his ex-girlfriends were. HE especially went on and on about this one girl that was so perfect... yet everyone if his girlfriends and ex-wife cheated on him. HE is really into himself. I sit on the ground talking to him... while he watches television, or playing on the computer. He is more concerned with how

2006-11-15 18:08:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anna Q 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-15 18:07:54 · 13 answers · asked by bhurajignesh 1 in Friends

IF you are in love with a gal and your parents doesnot allow you to marry her and you go againest parenst wish and marry that gal.

but later you got to know that you gal has been cheating and having an affair what one should do in such case...

2006-11-15 18:07:38 · 7 answers · asked by AKV 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this girl from my school, she likes me too, we only talk on MSN since she doesn't want anybody to know about it. Her boyfriend is this gangster guy, and her sister is dating her boyfriends brother. I think thats why she doesn't want him to find out. What should i do?

2006-11-15 18:06:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want it to be something really special and memorable....budget no constraint...but at the same time not very expensive too.

2006-11-15 18:05:43 · 12 answers · asked by MK 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The problem is that we're really close to the extent that he will even tell me about girl problems. Should I assume that because he talks about other girls with me that he does not think of me as a possibility and never will?

2006-11-15 18:04:36 · 11 answers · asked by marie_hall 1 in Singles & Dating

I never ever felt that I love someone the way love is described - that you feel this is the right person and no one else. I think there are many compromises to make. some say dont go with some one you feel you dont love enough; yet there seems to be no such event. Does each person have mr / ms right out there or its rhetoric?

2006-11-15 18:03:26 · 9 answers · asked by Gilbert M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really like this girl that use to have a past 2 year relationship with a guy that i know.. i really like her and she really likes me back.. but every time i see her she kinda fools around with her ex.. and i feel really uncomfortable..and by this i get really shut up and i'll be all quiet and stuff... its like i get all stress and i see them.. and its like they have so alot of chemistry together and im just in the way to them too.. and yeah by the way its been like 5 months since they broke up.. can someone help me or give me some advice.. ??

2006-11-15 18:02:16 · 5 answers · asked by mike s 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi... I've been friends with this bengali muslim girl for more than year already and we see each other in school... and recently for the past 2 months we've been calling each other everyday and talking for 2-3 hrs every night about anything and everything and she is someone I can see myself with. However, she's muslim and she can only marry another muslim I think? I never brought up about me liking her or what not.. but I just really like her company and I would do anything for her. Can anyone give me any thoughts on this and if there are any muslim girls, can you please give me your opinions? I'm chinese and I would marry her, but I wouldn't want to bring it up until I get some clarity on this issue because I wouldn't want to jeopardize what we have now. Also, I noticed in school, she doesn't really talk to me much when her muslim friends are around. But when they aren't, we would always talk... And I would also like to know if us talking so much on the phone means anything. Thanks!

2006-11-15 18:00:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hi... I've been friends with this bengali muslim girl for more than year already and we see each other in school... and recently for the past 2 months we've been calling each other everyday and talking for 2-3 hrs every night about anything and everything and she is someone I can see myself with. However, she's muslim and she can only marry another muslim I think? I never brought up about me liking her or what not.. but I just really like her company and I would do anything for her. Can anyone give me any thoughts on this and if there are any muslim girls, can you please give me your opinions? I'm chinese and I would marry her, but I wouldn't want to bring it up until I get some clarity on this issue because I wouldn't want to jeopardize what we have now. Also, I noticed in school, she doesn't really talk to me much when her muslim friends are around. But when they aren't, we would always talk... And I would also like to know if us talking so much on the phone means anything. Thanks!

2006-11-15 17:59:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im getting married in June, and my soon to be hubby wants me to pick out my wedding set.... and I really like the "puzzle" rings....(where they fit together...sometimes overlap each other)....I've looked around on Ebay...and some of the big chain stores.... (walmart, ect)Can anyone help me?

2006-11-15 17:58:30 · 5 answers · asked by amers_8504 1 in Weddings

Hi... I've been friends with this bengali muslim girl for more than year already and we see each other in school... and recently for the past 2 months we've been calling each other everyday and talking for 2-3 hrs every night about anything and everything and she is someone I can see myself with. However, she's muslim and she can only marry another muslim I think? I never brought up about me liking her or what not.. but I just really like her company and I would do anything for her. Can anyone give me any thoughts on this and if there are any muslim girls, can you please give me your opinions? I'm chinese and I would marry her, but I wouldn't want to bring it up until I get some clarity on this issue because I wouldn't want to jeopardize what we have now. Also, I noticed in school, she doesn't really talk to me much when her muslim friends are around. But when they aren't, we would always talk... And I would also like to know if us talking so much on the phone means anything. Thanks!

2006-11-15 17:58:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Gosh I have to say I had not known this site existed. Katie dear, you forgot to log out of this site before you left for school, and mommy and daddy found it. It doesn't take a genius to figure out what happened after that. I've read every single word you posted about me.
I'm hurt, shocked. Relieved you didn't post the name of the school where I teach. I've got to go to that stinking university every day. I have got to put on a performance every day, put on my happy mask and pretend to all my students I'm not bleeding to death inside.
I already knew you didn't love me.You can't love your father and say the things you've said to me. You can't have any feelings at all for someone and treat them the way you have treated your parents. We still love you. I still love you. If you only knew how much - my God, I would die for each and every one of my kids!!
I know your sister loves me. Im pretty sure your two brothers love me.
If you do love me, I hope you realize it very soon...

2006-11-15 17:57:37 · 11 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Family

I am unhappily married. I have children though. My wife is excellent, though she has betrayed me in the past, a very long time ago if the truth be known. However, I have a problem with forgive and forget. I feel as if my life is contaminated by another man's sperm. I am sickened by all of this. I am sick from it. BUT, I don't want to leave my children and like I said, she is great to me now. And even when it happened, we were separated. But I just don't know how to let go and as a result, I just don't know what I want. I do know that I hate KNOWING what she did over 10 years ago. I am absolutely sickened by it.

What the HELL am I going to do?

2006-11-15 17:57:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A boy (7), his father (37) and his grand father(67) went out to a high moutain. Father carried his father in a big basket. When reaching to top of hill, father put the basket upside down.
Old pitiful helpless man fell and of course died. Boy, shocked and asked "Dad. Why did you do that?" Then father replied "Well. Your grand dad is old and no more useful. So I throw him away." Then they went back. After few seconds, boy rused back to mountain top and took back the basket. When his father asked why, boy replied" This is for me to use when I throw you away one day".

2006-11-15 17:56:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is it their pretty little faces, or the years of commercial brainswashing?

2006-11-15 17:56:14 · 32 answers · asked by Thomas A 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 17:56:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just married, lived together 4 years, dating since H.S., we are in mid 20's, love her to death...but our sex life is not there..
EX. We have not had sex since we have been married (several months) truthfully we havent had good sex since we dated in High school. I treat her like a queen> i get her cofee every morning, I make dinner 97% of the time, buy her flowers, candy, wine constantly. she always says i am "sooooooo sweet" even her mother tells me i am the best thing for her.....but at the end of the night she is ALWAYS "too tired". I try foot massages and back rubs but it always ends up as "you just wanted sex didnt you?"
and she actually gets mad at me because i tried! She says from time to time she does not want kids yet so it is "not worth it" even though we use condoms.
I am stumped people anyone else in this same bind????

2006-11-15 17:55:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-15 17:52:12 · 13 answers · asked by TARUN 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband of 15yrs,had a affair with a 18yr old he is 38 with 4 kids,he told me he loves me but not in love with me when it happened.but wanted to stay so we could work it out,yesterday nearly 12months on i find out he is still seeing her,he says they are just friends nothing has happened,now he does want to go,and leave me with 4 small children,part of me belives she is dragging him away,i really do still love him or am i just scared of being alone.what hope does he have with her.

2006-11-15 17:51:26 · 11 answers · asked by chris b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We've known each other for ages and I love him very much, but just as a friend. Now that he's spilled the beans I don't know how to handle the situation without hurting him or destroying our friendship. How can I say no to him without offending him? He's a very sensitive person and I think it took all his courage to tell me how he feels.

2006-11-15 17:49:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My best friend and I were walking from the movie theater to her house (like a 20 minute walk) and her brother pulled up on their motor cycle. He was like "HEY!"

He said He'd drive home and get his car and come pick us up. This was weird because this was before I really go to know him, and he always seemed pretty grouchy. He got the car and pulled up and my friend says to me

"He's only doing this because YOU'RE here" Then she doesn't say anything else, and never brought up anything about him acting different when I'm around until

like a month later. She tells me that her cousin (17) and this brother (19) were talking and her cousin said I was cute. Then her brother said "Kate weighs 200lbs!" even though, I don’t. I weigh 135, and I'm 5'8.

She also told me that he was watching TV and saw a girl that looked like me and goes "OMG its KATE!"

2006-11-15 17:49:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey ladies,why is it a issue about money before you will go with a guy?dont get me wrong,i got plenty of money,but why does money keep popping up,when a man wants to go with a woman?are they all gold diggers?i mean if a guy wants to spend some money on a guy,they will do it,but they dont need a woman to expect them to have money before they even give a man the time of day.i was just wondering,why does money have to be an issue before you will even go with a guy?

2006-11-15 17:48:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What you guys think???

2006-11-15 17:48:27 · 15 answers · asked by fAn2ogh_koOchoOlOo 2 in Singles & Dating

ok.. There is this guy called Y(num 1). He proposed to me 3 years ago and I asked him to wait for a few years and he waited for me. I actually like num1 very much.

There is another guy called A(num 2). He is num1's cousin and he is 3 yrs older than num1.

A knows that num1's proposal to me and num 2 proposed me in last april .And I dont know what happened to me at that time.. i said yes to num 2 immediately without even thinking. ( i know that's bad). And i become num 2's girlfriend. I was happy but i knew i dont love num 2 at all. After that, i nver get any mails or ph calls frm num 1.

After a few months, i broke up with num 2. But num 2 keeps saying he loves me and he wants to get back with me. But now, I dont wanna get back with num 2 anymore cos i love num 1. I want to be with num 1. I really do. What should i do now? will num 1 ever forgive me? I want to tell him that i love him. But i'm afraid he might think i'm a slut. Pls help. what should i do now. I really love Y

2006-11-15 17:47:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or terminally ill be able to date sucessfully? A serious question.

2006-11-15 17:47:05 · 5 answers · asked by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm a friendless preppy boy, i like emo/punk people and generally everyone but i dont seem to make any kind of bond with people. Is that bad? I've been described as heartless and cold or to use a common nickname "monster" but i dont know. I dont think i'm a bad guy. Just different and maybe a little strange.

2006-11-15 17:46:04 · 6 answers · asked by john s 1 in Friends