hey ladies,why is it a issue about money before you will go with a guy?dont get me wrong,i got plenty of money,but why does money keep popping up,when a man wants to go with a woman?are they all gold diggers?i mean if a guy wants to spend some money on a guy,they will do it,but they dont need a woman to expect them to have money before they even give a man the time of day.i was just wondering,why does money have to be an issue before you will even go with a guy?
2006-11-15 17:48:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because your money buys them happiness and they want a lot of happiness!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-15 17:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Personally, money isn't everything to me. I grew up with a wealthy father and I have found that money isn't everything. You can't buy love with it and it doesn't really make you happy. I married a wonderful man who didn't really have a lot of money, don't get me wrong, he wasn't exactly poor. I never even brought up money around him when we first met. I didn't think that the topic of money was appropriate. Maybe some women arelike you explained and I don't understand why. I mean if you really like someone then I don't see what the problem is.
2006-11-16 01:55:47 · answer #2 · answered by rach 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmmnn...is that so? Maybe you're dating the wrong kind of women?? Or maybe you're at fault too..
Can't buy me love, that's for sure. Come to think of it. I have never been with a man who flaunts his money before me. Maybe I should date you and see how it is to be with rich guy like you. Or maybe not coz you might call me a gold digger too!
2006-11-16 02:07:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that's the VERY FIRST thing a girl asks about- then yeah, she's probably a gold digger. Other than that, most girls just want to know if a prospective boyfriend is going to be able to support her. (Not as in she's looking for marriage; she just wants to know that she won't always be footing the bills.)
2006-11-16 01:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by Mally 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because I don't want to end up finding that I love a guy but he had no money to support our family in the future. Or it would be awkward if I want to go to a nice restaurant and he said he has not enough money (let's say, it is just lifestyle). We don't want that much but just to make sure that you have enough to make us comfartable to stay with.
2006-11-16 02:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by Sunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, because w/o money, where are we supposed to go and what sort of impression does that make on a woman you want to date.If you are broke, you better be one hell of an magician and be able to pull candlelight and wine and roses out of your *** or else you will get nowhere w/ the ladies. We are not very fond of men who live on skid row. Sorry.
2006-11-16 01:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You must be meeting the wrong women. Not all women put money first. Try meeting women some place different than where your meeting them now.
2006-11-16 01:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well yes, maybe you're dating the wrong kind of women..
as for me, the money of my man is not the reason why i've been with him and dated him.. i have my own job and work for my own money.. and i love being called independent..
2006-11-16 02:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by pamz~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know, because for me it is not a big issue at all.
well, I'm only 20, so maybe that's why.
I'm not looking for a man to take care of me yet....on second thought...that would be nice...
but, uh, one more thing, don't go around saying things like, "don't get me wrong, i got plenty of money."
because people can see right through that statement.
you don't have "plenty of money" !
2006-11-16 01:53:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
The same reason guys dont date ugly girls.
2006-11-16 01:54:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jim V 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋