Hi... I've been friends with this bengali muslim girl for more than year already and we see each other in school... and recently for the past 2 months we've been calling each other everyday and talking for 2-3 hrs every night about anything and everything and she is someone I can see myself with. However, she's muslim and she can only marry another muslim I think? I never brought up about me liking her or what not.. but I just really like her company and I would do anything for her. Can anyone give me any thoughts on this and if there are any muslim girls, can you please give me your opinions? I'm chinese and I would marry her, but I wouldn't want to bring it up until I get some clarity on this issue because I wouldn't want to jeopardize what we have now. Also, I noticed in school, she doesn't really talk to me much when her muslim friends are around. But when they aren't, we would always talk... And I would also like to know if us talking so much on the phone means anything. Thanks!
2006-11-15 18:00:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
And I don't know if some of you know this, but muslim women can't date, so I can only get married.. And I am chinese and I have no religion =X so... I wouldn't mind converting
2006-11-15 18:00:09 · update #1
According to Islam Rules and Ethical Values Not a Muslim man/guy/boy and a Woman/girl/lady cannot marry to the woman or man respectively except the Muslims/Chiristianor Israel if any Muslim Violate this Rule It would be considered as a sin for whole life So be care ful ....This is nature's Rule, Muslims Should Follow this rule to be calm and to pass their life in peaceful manner
Note: This Rule is only For Muslim Not for Other Followers so dont considr it Extremism or fundamentalism
2006-11-15 18:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi .. Just came accross your question . . . can a Chinese guy & a muslim girl get married?
Have U ever thought that TRUE LOVE FOR ANYONE
can and shall never have limits or boundaries , conditions ,
TRUE LOVE FOR ANYONE should always be un-conditional ,
no matter what race , religion , color , shape or size .
TRUE LOVE MEANS FOREVER < and forever should never
be a difficult situation that U have found yourself in .
One interesting thing .. U mentioned that when the Muslim girl is with Her friends (When Her friends are around ) She tends not to
talk to U BUT WHEN THEY ARE NOT ??? SHE DOES ?
Just a little advise buddy , (This is my opinion OK ,)
If She can play a double role in who She really is and whatever She as a " MUSLIM GIRL " is allowed to or NOT allowed to do publicly or in front of Her other Muslim friends . . .
I question -
a) - How mature is this girl ?
b) - How much of a true "Muslim " is this girl ?
c)- How honest and trustworthy is this girl if She openly displays
Her pretence of innocence and uses Her religion/ cultural background creating a false immage of who She is ?
Sorry Guy , U must not like to hear this , cause it looks like you
are in a "LOVE IS BLIND SITUATION "
So what is my answer ?
If U do end up marrying this girl , U are prepared to do anything for Her . . ., U seem like a real nice person , thats why I wish to share my thoughts with U -
Would U feel confident that this Girl would not cheat or lie to U as a "WIFE " ?
How about YOUR FAMILY < YOUR PARENTS AND BROS?SISTERS ETC < what would they feel ?
ALL THAT GLITTERS IS NOT GOLD MY FRIEND <
EVERYTHING IS BEST IN THE BEGINNING <
A WHITE WEDDING DRESS WORN BY A BRIDE ON HER WEDDIND DAY DOES NOT NECESSARYILY MEAN THE BRIDE IS INNOCENT < or more specifically -a virgin?
Final thought ?
Sometimes buddy , we get so wrapped around the false immages surrounding us , simply because we see what we want to see , NOT WHAT IT REALLY IS . ..
And in process THE TRUE LOVE THAT COLUD POSSIBLY BE RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOUR FACE AND EYES > > >
How could U see TRUE LOVE ? ? WHEN LOVE IS BLIND FOR U RIGHT NOW ?
U deserve someone who is true to themselves , not someone who changes color like a CHAMMELLION ! ! ! ! - hiiden underneath a veil with the true colors of who she really is ?
GOOD LUCK _ I WISH U THE BEST IN YOUR JUDGEMENTS OF THIS " MUSLIM " GIRL >
2006-11-16 02:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by nic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look man don't think like Chinese or Muslim we are all humans, if both of you have no problem to marry ot each other then go ahead and live long......... an advanced wedding wishes from my side for both of you....
2006-11-16 02:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a question you should really ask herself.
Since you "wouldn't mind converting", you really need to talk to her about it. Good friends should hide anything from each other.
Try to find a good way to tell her about your real feeling.
A friendly warning: don't think you are only marrying her alone. You are actually to marry her whole family ( meaning you need to accept all her family relationship.) Try to see if you can join their family activities to see you can really handle that.
Good luck.
2006-11-17 03:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by paul h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well theres alot of stuff about her tradition.... so maybe she cant marry outside her race. But i dont see a problem with it!! Its juss all about her tradition and if the people like each other or not.
2006-11-17 20:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can! It's your right!
2006-11-16 02:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by Haku_Chan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi.the same thing happened to me.im me so we can talk.
2006-11-16 02:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by Miss D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might have some crazy looking kids.......j/k
2006-11-16 02:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋