Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

okay so here is the deal...a couple days ago i recieved an e-mail from a girl that was friends with my boyfriend, upset because they had got into a fight...i had recently become really good friends with this other frined of my boyfriend named kelli...i had doubts and suspicion that kelli was tryin to mess around with my man..but upon convincing from my man i put that to the side and agreed to give her a chance...kelli and i became better and better friends and i began to confide in her...i also asked her and my boyfriend as well numerous times if they had ever messed around and always got the same response....back to the e-mail...in the e-mail i recieved were pictures of kelli and my boyfriend messing around.... and i want nothing to do with her now and agreed to work things out with my boyfriend only if she was no longer in the picture...am i wrong for being so pissed and not wanting to forgive her at all?

2006-11-15 18:49:20 · 15 answers · asked by brittany w 1 in Singles & Dating

I started seeing a really nice bloke a few weeks ago. We also email each other during the week and we like to swap erotic messages. I'm a bit of a novice when it come to this but he's really good at it. Can anyone help me with this so I can send him a few messages that are as good as the ones he sends me. You can email me then at dottyhella@yahoo.co.uk.

2006-11-15 18:49:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a younger cousin who's 16yrs old now. I find her abit weird or maybe pervert ever since she moved in to live with us as her parents are located overseas (She's a non-singaporean btw) She like to went into my room to bath. and always strip naked b4 entering the bathroom and coming out. Recently, she ask me about sex and a few times, she touches mine while I was having a nap or what. Frankly speaking, she and I has no blood relationship, and sometimes she's making me so horny that I had a feeling of 'raping' her. Am I a pervert too? Till now, I did not mentioned to anyone as I'm afraid she might be sent to Mental hospital or whatever, and I don't wish to ruin her future as she's a bright student in school. What should I do?

2006-11-15 18:48:36 · 18 answers · asked by porridge0000 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

problems with the sexual aspect of marriage?
I have been browsing through some of the questions and there is a theme....
What seems to be the problem?
Sex is a major part of marriage so please tell me what is going on.

mandy

2006-11-15 18:45:47 · 10 answers · asked by cking_pOise... 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

what do you crave all the time? for me it's basketball

2006-11-15 18:45:21 · 10 answers · asked by bboyballer112 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-15 18:43:23 · 14 answers · asked by matt o 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 18:43:13 · 10 answers · asked by Kane 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband keeps getting a text message every morning between 7.30a.m and 8 a.m.Should I worried?He always keeps his mobile phone with him now

2006-11-15 18:41:57 · 21 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Marriage & Divorce

In what order do you do things? Like the cake, garter/bouquet toss, ect.... HELP!

2006-11-15 18:41:45 · 15 answers · asked by amers_8504 1 in Weddings

ok so im 17 y/o and my g/f is 16 the other day we was outside and bla bla bla and i had to **** to we was kinda buy a wooded place and know one was around.... so i pulled it out and started pissing... well my girlfriend looks over my shoulder at it and giggles and laphs a little and says "that your ****"?!?! i said "well yaaa" and "it's soft remember" ya i know i just hope it gets a lot bigger..... then she pats my crotch and were on our way bla bla bla well she wants to have sex now and i mesured my **** today.... it was only an inch soft and not quite 4 hard.... im a vergin so i dont know what she'll think.. so u think 3 something inches will be able to get the job done? do u think its small or advrage or big? what do u think she'll say about it and the sex???

2006-11-15 18:40:42 · 5 answers · asked by micromatt312 1 in Friends

I have been dating the same person for over nine yrs, i am 23 and have never been with any other person except him unitl I cheated. i Think me never dating around and experiencing relationships with other people made me more curious.The other man was 35 and caught me when I was having problems in my life. I know I am fully responsable but in a way he was a missleading. I was with him for about 2 1/2 months. I think I enjoyed the way he made me feel and he was the total opposite of my boyfriend. But in the end I found out he was a really bad person he was involved with lots of heavy things and was ont the person I thought he was. I nevre told my boyfriend, i feel that if he will leave and I would rather just deal with the guilt i feel and how sorry I was for doing it. It has been 8 months since it happened and I have realized that my man is the right one for me, I want to continue of future,get married have kids and just be happy

2006-11-15 18:39:04 · 25 answers · asked by ashloveus 1 in Singles & Dating

how old did u really understand what of s.e.x
is and no i don't mean gender!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-15 18:36:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

EAR 2007 FOR HER LIFE ,AS SERVICES AND MARRIAGE
WITHREGARDS
SURENDER PAL
FATHER

2006-11-15 18:36:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Saving yourself...

You may think I'm only talking about sex or physical purity...... But I'm not. There's a lot more you can save for your spouse, if that's what you choose.

Save yourself for the one God has planned for you!

I used to struggle with the idea of saving myself for my husband. I knew it was the right thing to do, but I couldn't help but think I was missing out. I thought just saving my virginity counted and evrything else was ok...boy was I wrong... it would have been only a temporary sacrifice that would have turned into a priceless investment.

sex is a very special and sacred experience between a man and woman who love each other and have committed to each other by marriage.

What if the mindset of a single person was not just "I'll save sex for marriage," but "I'll save myself" for my future spouse?

Saving yourself, means that you save more than just sex. You save other special things like kisses, touches, and "I love you's." It may sound far-fetched or even very old-fashioned, but can you imagine the feeling of joy and love you'd have if you knew that your spouse had not even kissed another person? Ever? Or if the first time he/she ever said, "I love you," it was to you! ( I know what that is like!!!)

~~~Imagine this~~~

your purity is like a piece of wood...when you are emotionaly or sexualy involved in a relationship...your two pieces of wood are super glued together.....you guys break up and you wood is torn from his. some of his chips are still on yours and yours on his....your in a new relationship...now you glue your wood to this persons. The chips from both of your last relationship are still their between the new relationship.. break up tear up...not only did you get some of his chips but you also got some of everyother woman he was with before you.

Imagine the privilege and honor of having a spouse who didn't just save sex for you, but saved absolutely everything! You can take this as far as you choose. Maybe you don't even want to hold another person's hand before you hold the hand of the one who commits to you for life.

I can tell you that if more couples saved everything for each other, many marriage-harming issues would not exist in their relationship. There wouldn't be haunting memories of past sexual encounters. There wouldn't be feelings of jealousy towards those who had physical experiences with someone's husband or wife. There wouldn't be the mindset that says, "Since I've had sex with someone else, what's the harm in doing it with another someone else?" Or, "Since she's had sex with someone else, what does it matter if I do, too?"

If he doesn't have enough respect to say "no" for you...then he doesn't have enough respect towards you!

Perhaps the best part would be the sense of sacredness that saving oneself completely brings to a marriage. She doesn't have to share him with anyone – past, present or future. And neither does he.

Trust me, people don't LEAVE marriages like that. Why would they?

I'm not saying it will be easy. In fact, I imagine it will be extremely difficult. But on your wedding night, when you give yourself to your spouse without bringing someone else's memory with you, you'll probably consider it to be your greatest accomplishment in life.









What does the Bible say?

Along with all other kinds of sexual immorality, sex before marriage premarital sex is repeatedly condemned in Scripture (Acts 15:20; Romans 1:29; 1 Corinthians 5:1; 6:13,18; 7:2; 10:8; 2 Corinthians 12:21; Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3; Jude 7). The Bible promotes abstinence before marriage. Sex before marriage is just as wrong as adultery and other forms of sexual immorality, because they all involve having sex with someone you are not married to. Sex between a husband and his wife is the only form of sexual relations that God approves of!

(Hebrews 13:4)

Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers.



(Corintians 6: 18-20)

Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins people commit are outside their bodies, but those who sin sexually sin against their own bodies. Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.

2006-11-15 18:36:22 · 17 answers · asked by BreAnna L 1 in Singles & Dating

I would have to say personalty, because money/fame does not matter, but looks are second.

2006-11-15 18:34:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know, i'm 8.5 but i dont know if thats good for my age. If you want to know my age to answer the question e mail me.

2006-11-15 18:32:29 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 18:27:17 · 18 answers · asked by bass 1 in Singles & Dating

well what about the love I have for her...

what if the gal promises you that she would stop cheating now. her parents also didnot agree. she too had to leave her parents.. to get married..

2006-11-15 18:26:53 · 5 answers · asked by AKV 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

today i just got up and bumped into him in the hallway..i looked kinda sleepy..he asked me if i was sick..i said no..

then i held my face with both hands and said sth. like 'still havent waken up?'( i cant remember it clearly)..

i have feeling for him..but i dont know if his action is just being a nice friend or means sth, romantical ?

is that very common to have physical touch between friends??

2006-11-15 18:22:18 · 4 answers · asked by milk 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for years, and I feel like he is ready for marriage and is just holding back because he thinks I am not, and I in the past have put out the vibe that I dont want to get married for a long time, but now I really do and think we are ready. How do i give him hints without being blunt about it?

2006-11-15 18:21:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anne 1 in Singles & Dating

All they had to do was marry a few months ago and their lovely child who is going to be a lovely adult won't hate the two of them for their selfishness. When she is able to fully understand what her parents did to her legacy, she is not going to be a happy camper like so many of her Hollywood contemporaries. When will these parents learn?

http://societyofbastards.org

http://oneminutemarriage.us

2006-11-15 18:20:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

this girl was my bestfriend since 4th grade, then when we moved to middle school, she barely talks to me anymore.
everytime we sees each other we barely say hi.
i wanted to ask why she doens't play with me, but i don't have the guts to.
now she plays with her cousin and 3 of her cousin's friends.
i feel like i got dumped.


p.s. i'm a girl and we're in the same middle school

2006-11-15 18:20:35 · 7 answers · asked by hello world 2 in Friends

The reason she gives is that she has started having a fascination for shaved heads !!!
Is it good to oblige to such fancies of a wife?

2006-11-15 18:18:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Mine would have do be makeup and perfume!

2006-11-15 18:18:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it true that you can sexually please yourself in your sleep that you don't know about, other people maybe nearby tell you what you did but you have no memory or knowledge of what happened. And if it is so what is a person to do about things like that to not be put into a humiliating circumstance one day?

2006-11-15 18:18:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so heres the deal i was exploring around my house
(it has secret passages) any way i found a large room filled with very old VERY expensive stuff (swords books clothes jewals etc...)
and i tell my mom about it and she wants to sell all of it and so i tell her im not going to sell any of it (it also happens to be my house) and she tells me im being moronic and we shold sell it (it would make us alot of money so do you think i should sell it or not

2006-11-15 18:17:09 · 3 answers · asked by lain 1 in Family

Monday my husband and I went for a walk. I told him I planned on having my family watch our children while we went to a meeting the next day. He told me that was good I was teaching his mother a lesson. I told him,"You say that and then you change your mind." He doesn't stick to anything. He kept bugging me about talking to his mother about her having him again. I told him I'm dealing with too many things right now. We got home. Watched TV. I made us dinner. His cell phone rings. It's his mom. I asked why she was calling his cell phone and not our home phone. He told me he asked her to. Then he runs off into another room to talk to her. Later on he bugs me again to talk to her. I said,"Sure, when?" He tells me he doesn't know. Then she shows up!! She's crying. Trying to tell me that she told my husband that she told me that she had apologized for not feeding my son. (She didn't). Then she tried to blame ME for her not feeding him! What do I do?

2006-11-15 18:15:37 · 6 answers · asked by Jenna 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I just started college and I met this very attractive guy. He made it clear to me he wants to 'party' with me by writing it on my paper. I gave him my number and he called me twice. We're going to a party with his friends soon. I talked to him two nights in a row at like 3 in the morning, and it was great. He didn't talk to me much today. What should I do? :(

2006-11-15 18:15:18 · 5 answers · asked by Hillary 1 in Singles & Dating

Does age is a big problem between a relationship?

2006-11-15 18:12:42 · 10 answers · asked by Qucci 1 in Marriage & Divorce

concerning their feelings and confusions about them. If this is true then why do so many of them run, ignore and dumping you? They say that honesty is the best policy so why did I end up alone?

2006-11-15 18:09:32 · 6 answers · asked by e_piphany214 4 in Singles & Dating