Guys??? Men say that they like a girl to be open and honest?

Question

concerning their feelings and confusions about them. If this is true then why do so many of them run, ignore and dumping you? They say that honesty is the best policy so why did I end up alone?

Answer 1

There are two types of honesty. Things that have to be told and things that don't. Don't ask them about their feeling or tell them yours too quickly, it is smothering. Don't ask if you look fat or any other trick questions. Before you talk about your fellings/relationship, ask yourself what you will really gain or if it will just make him uncomfortable. Guys are not discussers, girls are. The minds work completely different, so what they see as appropriate things to talk about will also be different.

Answer 2

I think that the people that are honest are hard to find, and I think that if you find one, you should be honest back. That'll show people that you respect them if you do that. Granted they might not respect you right off, however they'll learn rather quick that if they don't want your oppinion, then they won't ask for after a very short while.

Have a good day.

Answer 3

i think men just get a little afraid as we all do.....So next time be honest but try 2 candy coat it.... like if he says honey did that make you mad....even if it did try saying.....NO honey but next time could you try not 2 do that.... i just mean say it as nice as you can the way you would like some thing 2 be said 2 u

Answer 4

some men juz say.... but not all of them can accept honesty in real. Be yoursef and enjoy yoursef... U might meet the one for u soon...

Answer 5

Because we say be honest and open, not emotional and act like a drama queen.

Answer 6

Nobody mentioned we want it in small doses??