My husband keeps getting a text message every morning between 7.30a.m and 8 a.m.Should I worried?He always keeps his mobile phone with him now
2006-11-15 18:41:57 · 21 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why don't you ask him who it is and see how valid the answers are. If it sounds like an obvious lie then you better start looking for more clues.
2006-11-15 18:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by jdhs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have in the back of your mind 'could my husband be having an affair?' He could also be having serious stress at work, financial trouble or it could be just regular reminders on his calendar.
To stop imagining and guessing what it might be just say to him, "Is everything ok with work?". He might be having an awful time under extreme pressure and like a typical man doesn't want to tell you.
I once read a story that a husband was made redundant yet pretended to his wife he was going to work each day. She thought he was having an affair though really he was too ashamed to tell her what had really happened at work.
Men don't communicate when stressed - they hide it inside. Give him some time to tell you. If he's still secretive then you need to look at his phone when he's fast asleep in the middle of the night and find out if he needs support or a kick up the backside.
Best of luck.
2006-11-15 20:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by OO7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok there are a few reasons why your husband gets a text message at more or less time everyday. He could have signed up to one of the news channels which send out headline news in text messages form to mobile phone.. He could have also set up his e-mail account so that it sends him alerts about any mail he has received.. Finally he could be having a text flirty fling.. Not sure how you will find out which of these is the reason other than asking him.
2006-11-15 19:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could wait until he's in the shower or asleep and check his phone. I'm not sure you should be worried, but you should look into it. If that doesn't work check the phone bill then call the number and see who answers. Don't get too freaked out yet though-- it's not nec something to be concerned about yet. Good luck.
2006-11-15 18:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by Eve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, or failing that get hold of the phone. Be ready for the answer though, you may not like it.
2006-11-15 20:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by honey lugs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want to see the text messages
if he's got nothing to hide then he'll show you,
it sounds to me like there is something going on,especially that you say his phone is NOW always with him.i wouldn't leave it,
2006-11-15 20:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does not sound good- especially if he hides the phone or is secretive about it- take care- he can't take it in the shower w him- D
2006-11-15 18:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him who keeps ringing try and sound casual then if he goes to the toilet or has to nip out the first chance you get grab his phone and have a peek to see who it is,,,it maybe something quite innocence but if it was my hubby i would check that he isn't seeing another woman
2006-11-16 00:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you haven't tried to see those text messages so far .... Take care and pay attention
2006-11-15 19:36:29 · answer #9 · answered by alina d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different behavior - something happened and is coming , but what ... maybe nothing or you are going be single under Christmas tree for someone new.
2006-11-15 18:45:08 · answer #10 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋