2006-11-15 18:43:13 · 10 answers · asked by Kane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And what you could do about it. Move on
2006-11-15 18:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by Toto 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Actually yes, I have been betrayed by my husband , the man that I devoted my life to. Was a flight attendant for a major airline, while raising two children. Thought he was a true gentlemen, only to find out that he was a pig of the highest degree. Talk about hurtful. Here I am working, keeping the house, making a homemade meal every night, except for when I flew, then I froze the meals for him and my children to have when I was gone. It was the shock of my life when a friend of his told me what he did every time I was gone on a trip. Don't really care anymore. Just go every day just to get by. Had to have been the most hurtful thing in my life. I am a good person, always concerned with everyone elses feelings. Jumped through hoops for this man. Wow. What a wakeup call. oh well.
2006-11-18 13:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love relationship what kind . If you are talking about marriage my husband cheated on me .To call it betray isn't hold enough,The pain you feel in your heart is unlivable.It's been 8 years now and the pain is still there . Not as bad as it once was but still there .But if your talking about being betrayed by someone that was married at the time of the betrayal what can I say but you knew that they were married to someone else so I can't and won't feel sorry for you.
2006-11-15 19:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and it just killed me. I'm not sure I will ever love again, the way I have in the past. Being betrayed and lied to just killed my spirit a little with the more I find out. Thank god I have my kids because with out them I would be totally broken.
2006-11-15 23:09:21 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have been betrayed by my wife. Not cheating, but just lies about alot of small things. If she lies about the small things, what else is she being deceitful about. Maybe she did cheat,...I don't know and don't want to know.
It ruins a relationship. I have to agree with another answer I just read, It does something to you after you have been lied to over and over again. For myself and for yourself, we shouldn't let it degrade us, but overcome it and take it for what it's worth. They are the one with the problem, not us.
2006-11-16 00:16:26 · answer #5 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes actually every boyfriend I have ever had but the one I am with now and my first one has cheated/lied to me in some way it makes it hard to trust a man even tho he is a good one that does none of those things.
2006-11-15 18:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by kelly_420_brian 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Boy I sure can relate to this one. And all the hurt that comes with it to. You never want to trust another person again after it happens to you. What makes it even worse is when you treated that person sooooo good and then they end up crapping on you by cheating. Talk about low self esteem, and makes you feel like you are not good enough for anybody else. Mine made me feel like it was my fault that it happened. After I walked out on him for cheating on me, he still calls me and I don't understand why either. If I was good enough for him that he had to cheat on me, why does he still call me? I don't believe in cheating and I don't like playing games either.
2006-11-15 19:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first guy I slept with slept around with an ex- friend of mine and an ex girlfriend of his! I was a sucker for punishment and very naive at that point in my life and I thought he loved me and wouldn't do it again.... big mistake! I eventually ditched him! It's not worth feeling degrated everyday and feeling like you're not wanted enough.
2006-11-15 19:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has.
2006-11-15 18:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by Nep 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes...& his *** got booted!
2006-11-15 18:46:23 · answer #10 · answered by Ivyvine 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋