Monday my husband and I went for a walk. I told him I planned on having my family watch our children while we went to a meeting the next day. He told me that was good I was teaching his mother a lesson. I told him,"You say that and then you change your mind." He doesn't stick to anything. He kept bugging me about talking to his mother about her having him again. I told him I'm dealing with too many things right now. We got home. Watched TV. I made us dinner. His cell phone rings. It's his mom. I asked why she was calling his cell phone and not our home phone. He told me he asked her to. Then he runs off into another room to talk to her. Later on he bugs me again to talk to her. I said,"Sure, when?" He tells me he doesn't know. Then she shows up!! She's crying. Trying to tell me that she told my husband that she told me that she had apologized for not feeding my son. (She didn't). Then she tried to blame ME for her not feeding him! What do I do?
2006-11-15
18:15:37
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I only called once. And that didn't interfer with her feeding him! She tried to say I was a bad mother. Accusing me of things I don't do. My husband just sat there and did NOTHING!!! She says if I have a problem to come talk to her, but when I do, she starts crying, putting guilt trips on me, blaming me for what ever she did because she can't admit when she's done something wrong. And this happens everytime! I asked my husband why he didn't stick up for me when we were talking and he couldn't answer me. What am I going to do??? I feel like it's always those two against me. He even told me I'm not allowed over to her house anymore. I'm trying to make our family work and get along. How is this going to happen now if I'm not even allowed over to his mothers house and they are accusing me of being a bad mother when I'm not??? HELP!! I'm not a bad mother...
2006-11-15
18:20:40 ·
update #1
My husband INSISTS that my son keep going with his grandmother (his mom) even if she does forget to feed him.
2006-11-15
18:48:19 ·
update #2
No, she has 2 sons.
2006-11-15
18:56:24 ·
update #3
My mother in law gets my son once a week so she can bond with him..SHE wants to do this. It isn't that I'M not taking care of him.
2006-11-16
03:08:22 ·
update #4