I never ever felt that I love someone the way love is described - that you feel this is the right person and no one else. I think there are many compromises to make. some say dont go with some one you feel you dont love enough; yet there seems to be no such event. Does each person have mr / ms right out there or its rhetoric?
2006-11-15 18:03:26 · 9 answers · asked by Gilbert M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My Mr. Right is already dead, so if I'm to have any hope for the future I've got to believe that there's no such thing as a Mr. Right. Although to do so is painful.
Some people never really fall in love. It's probably got nothing to do with emotional stuntedness but that doesn't stop some people thinking that this is the case. We're all subtly different so why should we all be able to fall head over heels in love?
2006-11-15 19:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by Katri-Mills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time you love someone you think it's "right". Love is just a combination of the right feelings that someone reflects back at you that fill that magical place in you that set off all those feelings of elation. You will fall in love repeatedly in your life...even after you are married if you allowed yourself to act on your feelings as if you were single you would find someone that could make you fall in love again.
Knowing when it's right requires a lot of life experience. It's when you have gained enough experience and you meet someone that you can say, this person has all the right parts that fit in beautifully with mine...it's like the other half of a whole that you know just fits. The feeling is right, the person is right. You DO just know it because the feeligns are totally and completely MUTUAL.
People fall in love and marry for a million different reasons and circumstances, but to be happy and make it work requires committment and work, understanding and compromise, and you have to be able to fill each others needs, emotionally and intellectually, and the relationship is nothing without respect.
You need to make the right choice for you, because you will meet all kinds of people you can and will have relations with, but only one you will want to spend forever with.
2006-11-15 18:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to Socrates Love is"the desire to possess something or someone in the future".
Now that sounds a bit clingy but the point I'm making is if you've ever felt totally involved with someone, thinking about them constantly, wanting to do things for them then thats love. Its wanting to give but also fearing it may one day be lost.
But you're right. Love isn't just about this. There are compromises to make and this is again where love will show you the way. Basically if you love that someone you will compomise.
Mr/Mrs right, imo, is that person that you feel is right but that is also practical enough to compromise themselves as much as you should to keep that love alive.
So in a way its rhetoric - but the rhetoric is there just to fill in the gaps left by idealism.
If you haven't fallen in love with someone then thats unfortunate - best thing to do is take your eye off the ball "a waiting kettle never boils"
HTH
2006-11-15 19:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true tat u have a person made for u sumwhr .but in the end u have to make compromises fr the relationship to last its all give and take.its like maintaining sumthin so tat it still luks or feels as gud as new.But i don bliv in the fact tat u hav a perfect partner sumwhr cause no one is perfect after all.and if u luk fr perfection u may nt find it at all!
2006-11-15 18:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by ash_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a perfect mate, its finding them that is the problem. Your mate may be on the other side of the world, or the woman who gives you coffee at the cafe. Just keep your eyes and heart open for them.
2006-11-15 18:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is, a person that you cant imagine living without. A person you at times wonder how you survived before you met them. it took me a long time to find him, you have to be patient..... You also need to differentiate between infatuation and love.
2006-11-15 19:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is you can't stop thinking about them and can't wait to be with them.
its about doing all the good things together but having time for yourself also
2006-11-15 20:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by angies_angel_eyes2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that everyone will find true love one day...
You just have to be really patient...
2006-11-15 19:01:36 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If one plays there cards right then maybe so
2006-11-15 19:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋