Family & Relationships - 12 November 2006

she asked personal questions on here all the time , I told her personal should be personal, what do you think?

2006-11-12 12:49:03 · 13 answers · asked by will_go32 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Seriously. Being hurt more than once with just one person?

2006-11-12 12:49:00 · 4 answers · asked by Jazel P 1 in Singles & Dating

just to make your husband/boyfriend happy,,,the reason I ask,my friend is doing it to make her boyfriend happy,thinking it will keep him from looking at other women!

2006-11-12 12:48:17 · 6 answers · asked by kkahn9dodge 5 in Singles & Dating

my bff was fighting with me and she decided she was goign to call me names and tell people lies about me and now she wants to be friends again i have known her my whole life but it seems like everytime we fight wew dont talkt o each other for a while thna she cant live without talking to me and than she wants to be friends again would u be friends with her again

2006-11-12 12:47:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years, but were together for 3 1/2 years before that. We used to be so close- he was not only the love of my life, but my best friend. However, ever since we got married, it seems like he's changed. He treats me more like a servant than a wife. It's always "Do this, get me that." He's completely unromantic as well. I know the giddiness of an early relationship can't last forever, but I feel like he doesn't even see me as a woman anymore. I've tried talking to him about it, but he just gets mad and then shuts me out. It's completely changed how I feel about him. I still love him, but I feel sometimes like I'm not "in love" with him anymore. To make matters worse, lately I've been fantasizing about a guy from my past. I would never cheat on my husband and I don't have a way to contact this guy even if I wanted to, but I feel guilty for even thinking about him. I just want to feel wanted and appreciated again. What should I do?

2006-11-12 12:47:12 · 15 answers · asked by jenl904 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My gf of 3 years broke up with me last week and iam trying to fix the problem.Thing is she is not willing to forgive me for what i have done, i didnot cheat btw way.I work weekend night at my job, and sometimes its hard to get a day off.She had a very serious accident a couple of months back and after the accident she feels like i was not there for her, which i was but i also had a job to do aswell.she feels like the relationship has been failing over time and she made a decision to leave me. Her reason is she is trying to be a big girl and do something right for herself and her daughter, trying to change her ways.She also said that i put her on the back burner and put my car in front of her.which is total bs because i love her sooooo much, i even told her if she felt that i loved the car more than her i would get ride of it in a heartbeat.I love this women to death, and i have tried everything to show her i love her.But when i ask for a second chance she says i made up my mind, helpme

2006-11-12 12:46:59 · 5 answers · asked by j3ffw 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If one know a famous TV personality's email address and she emailed him and told him about the website she made for him and the response she got was that he's her biggest fan .. how can a star be the biggest fan of his fan? the fan isn't even a celebrity nor a famous personality.

1. does this mean that he's in love ? or did the fan took things a bit too far?

2. if the fan truly loves him and told him her feelings, did she do the right thing ? .. [what if she considers that he loves her too according to certain behaviors of his.]

3. how will she know if he truly loves her?

2006-11-12 12:46:56 · 8 answers · asked by haseen_gudiya 2 in Singles & Dating

My wedding is in April and purple is my favorite color. My heart is set on the deep purple but I read somewhere that deep purples are winter colors. Does it really matter?

2006-11-12 12:45:00 · 20 answers · asked by mssweets84 2 in Weddings

My bf & me have been together for about 1 month. It's gone well, exept that he has a tendency of flirting with people. (He is 2 years younger than me) My friend is the same age as him & I think she likes him. I've seen some flirting, but he is always like that. My friend isnt. I asked my bf about it & he started kissin on me & sayin that he only liked me. I can't tell anymore. Did I loose him? I know it would b better 4 him to be with his own age, but I realy like him. As far as I can tell, he does like me. but My question is wether or not I lost him to my friend.

2006-11-12 12:44:43 · 12 answers · asked by Collette F 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 30 and my fince is 22, 6ft, 161 lbs. and great looking! I am 92 pounds, blonde, blue eyed,a nd also a mother of three.. I am not an eyesore whatsover. My fiance was hurt at work last winter and for a while had errectile dysfunction. Then everything seemed better, but as many girls are still felt something was wrong with me. Then the problems happened again. We have been to numerous doctor's including urologists and they find nothing wrong with him. The problems recurr from time to time and I feel it is because I am an older woman and a mother and therefor maybe he does not see me as attractive and as much of a turn on. I tried watching some of those seedy movies with him that come on late night and he doesn't seem to have any of those problems as long as we watch them. Now my problem is that we hardly ever make love anymore, but by the recording status on our DVR he is still watching those movies when i am not around. So why does he deny it and what is the matter with me?

2006-11-12 12:44:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 18 years old, and in my senior year of high school. I dont wanna be all emo, but basically life sucks. lol. I haven't been to school in a week, "sick", and I am having a hard time going back! I just wanna run away and leave everything! I NEED HELP!! Please answer ASAP!

2006-11-12 12:44:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-12 12:44:16 · 15 answers · asked by chikensnsausages 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been dating my Man for 4 mth's now. We started out as friends I wasn't anitionally attracted to him, He wasn't my typical guy (Tall, dark, muscular) in fact he is completely oppisite, short, round & light. But our friendship turned 1 nite when we went to the movies I started to see him in a different light.I just coming out of a 3 yr relationship & loving the single life felt it was time to put my playa card up & throw away da little black book. Being friends with this man I knew of his lifestyle of being a swinger (wanting to sleep w different women, 3somes)b4 hand, although I had experimented in college It was not my lifestyle anymore. Although he hasn't acted out his lifestyle since we established our relationship I know he has the urge, recently some of his female "friends" have been calling on him & out of respect of me hes turned them down, Im wonder if
Im trippin or, Should I let him have his lifestyle being it was there first or should I expect him to give it up now?

2006-11-12 12:44:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Grabbing my boyz in the theatre. She wants me but I don't want to ruin the relationship, what should I do?

2006-11-12 12:43:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 12:43:11 · 16 answers · asked by Andrew26 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months and we live together .He stopped saying he loves me, but he wants to keep working on it. Sometimes it seems like he loves me and sometimes he just seems selfish. What should I do? Is there anything that may work?

2006-11-12 12:42:22 · 6 answers · asked by charlene 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister is trying to teach my nephew how to drive a stick. He was unable to get the car into drive because everytime he did it kept cutting off on him. My sister became so angry with him that she went into her trunk and beat him with her personal collection of whips and chains. He was beaten to a bloody pulp and forced to walk home 2 miles away. To add insult to injury she made him sleep outside in the dog cage because "she couldn't stand the site of his stupid face". I am concerned about my nephew because my sister has a really bad temper and doesn't know how to deal with her son. Whenever she gets mad with him she is always putting him out of ther house or beating him with her whips and chains. Is there anything I should say or do about this or should I just mind my own business and chalk this up to tough love?? Help please

2006-11-12 12:41:14 · 16 answers · asked by mamabag06 1 in Family

She goes overboard on the presents every year, and some of us feel bad because we can't spend as much as she does on gifts. We have tried to tell her to please tone it down a little but every year she surpasses the year before in gift giving, then gets upset when she doesn't get all the things she wished for.---or gets something that doesn't fit quite right and she has to take back. Is this a control issue? She calls us all and asks us what we are buying each other as well, and throws in her suggestions as to what she thinks would be the best gift. I love my mother but sheesh.

2006-11-12 12:40:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-12 12:40:01 · 14 answers · asked by aaaashley_jameson 1 in Singles & Dating

my bff is goin out with my other bff and i think she is only going out with him b/c she knows he willkeep going back to her !!!!!!but she says thats not true!!and he says it may be true!! what should i do!!!!!

2006-11-12 12:39:54 · 3 answers · asked by hottie101 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 12:39:38 · 8 answers · asked by Betty 1 in Singles & Dating

How can I deal with a know it all 19yo daughter? She expects me to pay support for her going to school. I don't mind to do so if I know where and what for. She tells me to prove that she is going to school she needs to get a transcript from office which costs money. However a while ago I got a copy of an e-mail to a proffesser at the school saying that she was droping to part-time due to working full time and being pregnant. I have tried to talk to her about getting pregnant at this point of her life and she will not talk to me as anytime I try to say something I am lecturing her. I do not have any info as to where and when she goes to school. Also she has lived with boyfreind, grandmother and mother, never know where she is living, or what she is doing. I have stopped paying ,however need to have it one legaly but cannot afford to waste the money. She had come and lived with me for a few months when she was 16, I then paid for lawyer to have order changed and she moved to grandmothers

2006-11-12 12:39:14 · 7 answers · asked by Blaze 1 in Singles & Dating

married men and women look outside the marriage for what they don't have anymore as a couple but they won't leave there spouses because they love them..but not in love with them for the simple reason is that no more affection, no more communication. no love, no sharing in the good things, time is just being taken for granted..so like me i love to be passionate, love to cuddle, love to give . love to have someone that can return that, and thats what i call a relationship and more u can say to each other the better, but u still love ur spouse , not being in love is no affection from one to another, so no there is nothing wrong with a relationship that keeps both happy

2006-11-12 12:38:49 · 16 answers · asked by montana_sun_rise 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was dating a guy for 5 years, He recenlty told me he needs time, Though over the past few months he has asked me to marry him 3 times, and then changes his mind, He has since told me that he went out on dates, but yet tells my friends he can't let me go, He knows that i love him , and am finding it hard to move on, Any suggestion to get this man out of my mind and try to move on.

2006-11-12 12:38:01 · 12 answers · asked by Sweetie330 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am ready to move on and i want so badly to just find the right guy. or better yet,him find me... a few people tell me to wait several years to even think about moving on... it's been 11 months seperated. 6 months divorced. he has moved on the day he left. why can't i ??? is it wrong for me to want to move on and think about a possible MR. right? if there really is such a thing for me.. or maybe I blew my chance at ever having that. how long should i have to wait and put my feelings on hold????

2006-11-12 12:37:42 · 27 answers · asked by mercy me 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I need some help......what is it called when you have sex with numerous people just for attention or for a little bit of self-worth for you to feel important? Low self-steem, low self-worth?.....Advice plz!!!!

2006-11-12 12:36:35 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 12:36:27 · 10 answers · asked by drewbacca 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Because of this I have neverl really forgiven him. To this day her remains condescending about it all although his has changed his ways. I am no longer in love, dont' trust him, and feel trapped because we have kids. I want to leave but friends advise me to stay eventhough I know what I want.

2006-11-12 12:36:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i.e. Have you ever been indifferent about a guy and then found out he had the hots for you and then you started liking him? Is it possible for girls to do that. Ladies please!

2006-11-12 12:36:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When is it right to have your 1st boyfriend??
Isn't 12 okay if you have MANY restrictions?

2006-11-12 12:35:39 · 24 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating