I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months and we live together .He stopped saying he loves me, but he wants to keep working on it. Sometimes it seems like he loves me and sometimes he just seems selfish. What should I do? Is there anything that may work?
2006-11-12 12:42:22 · 6 answers · asked by charlene 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him about it, ask him how he wants to work on it, ask him whats really wrong. Ask him why hes been acting like that lately. Ask him if its his own personal problems or something you did, and tell him how his actions are making you feel. BUT if he starts opening up to you don't start talking about your feelings let him talk about HIS feelings and then go into how you understand when hes done talking. Hope I've helped. Good luck.
God bless.
Oh and if he still doesn't give it up I'd think of either seeing a couples counsler and if that doesn't work, I'm afriad you should let him go and find someone who appreciates you for who you are.
2006-11-12 12:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggest problem with us men is that we are unlike women, its kind of difficult to for us to say "I love you" to a woman even though we do love our women alot. Its kind of the Man thing, you know what I mean? Dun worry keep working on it. Anyway, its only 8 months relationship. Give each other more time to understand each other..
2006-11-12 12:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he just wants a sex toy and no commitment
that may be the reason he stopped saying I love you.
2006-11-12 12:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time dear.i use to be that way.some guys it takes longer.just be there for him and he will see you really mean it and when he falls,he will fall hard.so just be a little patience with him,and he will come around.
2006-11-12 12:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be glad you have someone. Nobody loves me, I have no one.
2006-11-12 12:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, move on
2006-11-12 12:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by thoughtfuljon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋