Family & Relationships - 12 November 2006

whats more important to you when dating a girl
brains, stupidity or being average?
and whats the number one thing you would look for in a girl besides personality?

2006-11-12 12:22:58 · 15 answers · asked by Scarlet5 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 12:22:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Tonight I went on blind date with this deaf guy. At first I thought he was one of those guys who are too nice and a walkmat. He seems very nice at first that he sorta of turn me off. However I keep on talking wth him by paper and pen.

Finally out of blue he told me that I'm not his first date and that he clearly can tell I wasn't taking him seriously. Then he told me that he doesn't have time for my game and to find another idiot to do this to. He left right afterward.

When I called my friend who set up this blind date, I found out he's currently studying for master degree in anthropology and has studies oversea in two different countries and can speak four lanaguages. I told her what happened, she say he must have somehow read me. I really regret this since I misread him and he sounds like a really interesting guy. I would like to get him to give me another chance. What can I do? How could he figure me out so fast when no other guys could do it in past?

2006-11-12 12:21:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is VERY into online computer games. Most days when he gets home from work, I see him for about 15 mintues before he goes in and starts playing; I usually don't see him again until dinner, and it usually takes me 3 or 4 calls before he comes to eat. After dinner, he's back on the games, sometimes until 2 or 3 am. His job allows him to work only 4 days a week, so on the weekends (and monday), he will often play his game ALL NIGHT (or at least until 3 or 4 in the morning) and then sleep until 10 or 11 (sometimes as late as noon or 1). Now, I don't dislike the games, I even play with him sometimes, though my back and my eyes get tired after an hour or 2 of playing. This is starting to have a bad effect on our relationship and our sex life because I don't want to have sex with him when he gives me only 2 or 3 hours attention ONLY when he wants sex that night. I feel very resentful & I HAVE talked to him about it... How do I make him understand how much this hurts me?

2006-11-12 12:21:38 · 16 answers · asked by missapparition 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy and i am black and he is white would he not like me because of my color do u guys/girls think HELP

2006-11-12 12:21:17 · 1 answers · asked by maddie s 1 in Singles & Dating

how far do u put ur tounge into someones mouth when ur french kissing them??

2006-11-12 12:21:01 · 4 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Singles & Dating

My bestfriend who has a boyfriend has secretly been talking to my crush the guy she knows that I like behind my back. I just found out about it and I know that my crush likes her alot and likes me a little but can't ask her out because she has a boyfriend and shes thinking of dumping him. HELP!!!

2006-11-12 12:20:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy. i had just gotten out of a relationship when he asked me out and so i said no. now i am ready and he is single and he is always looking at me. we are kind-of friends except he doesnt get along with one of my friends--she is full of drama! so she doesnt really approve. he acts like he likes me but when he is around he friends and im around her is acts rude. i even went to his football game cause he asked me to and he didnt even talk to me. but i think he likes me and i really like him.






he is also my ex-boyfriend.....ah!

2006-11-12 12:20:47 · 9 answers · asked by lauren 1 in Singles & Dating

Im in my 40s and I really want to chat with some good decent peeps about other things besides sex 24/7. Everytime I find a room, its bombarded with "Is there any old guys that wanna see my cam?" and the guys all ask what my fetish is right away. Im far from being a prude...but Im getting weary of starting off a convo like this. Anyone know of a decent site where people actually chat about other things...like actually getting to know each other? This keeps up and Im going to head to the nearest bar...not much of a second option...sigh......

2006-11-12 12:20:34 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in summer of 07' and I'm looking for some good places that offer food, the site, and perhaps an officiant with their package price. If anyone could help it would be greatly appreciated.

2006-11-12 12:20:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Its like he would talk to me a lot in person but now he is shy.

2006-11-12 12:19:24 · 12 answers · asked by Betty 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay my boyfriend now we have gone together before for like 11 months and he cheated on me. I took him back because i love him and i trust him when he says he will never do it again. But this girl and one of their friends ttells me that they are still going out even though he promises me he is not do you think that he is cheating on me with her again?

2006-11-12 12:18:26 · 16 answers · asked by shorty 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey guys!!
Say ur girlfriend came over one night. U 2 watched movies and cuddled. The next day would you think about it at all?? If so how much time would you spend on those thoughts?
Thanks! ♥

2006-11-12 12:17:58 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

A guy i use to date has graduated and is now in college. I've been curious to see what he's been up to mostly on a friends only type call not really relationship interest. I haven't talked to him or seen him since about early August. We stopped bcuz we both had busy schedules. So their SHOULD be no hard feelings. Do u think he's too caught up in the college life for an old high school girl to waste his time? Would this be awkward or a pleasant surprise? What would u guys out there think of a pretty cool ex gf giving u a surprise call?

2006-11-12 12:17:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 12:17:08 · 10 answers · asked by zzum 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is there such a thing as a good marriage...meaning no lying, in infidelity, etc,etc

2006-11-12 12:16:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what made it perfect?

2006-11-12 12:16:00 · 9 answers · asked by kkahn9dodge 5 in Singles & Dating

We are adopting a 15 year old boy tommorow. I haven't met him yet but my parents have. He is from an abusive household, which I believe is his own. I really want this to work out because I'd love to have a brother to talk to (my sister and other brothers can be annoying.)

Can anyone help calm me down?

2006-11-12 12:15:37 · 8 answers · asked by I think... 6 in Family

2006-11-12 12:15:01 · 30 answers · asked by Matt_c 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you prefer someone with street smarts or book smarts? Do you prefer to date college educated or does it matter? What about yourself? Are you college educated and expect the same? Was it much of a deciding factor when you met him? Feel free to go into detail.....

2006-11-12 12:14:53 · 9 answers · asked by me 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am currently debating on whether or not to have a baby with my know current boyfriend of 5 yrs....I dont see much of a future with him, but I am truly wanting to have a child..we just recently suffered a miscarriage and he stated to me that if we get pregnant again thats fine with him. I am totally prepared to be a single mom, which tends to be the trend now a days...What should I do?

2006-11-12 12:14:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with either ms or mr perfect

2006-11-12 12:14:04 · 7 answers · asked by kkahn9dodge 5 in Singles & Dating

she is causing alot of trouble for myself my family and my friends i am now on depression tables and am at my wits end can any one help

2006-11-12 12:12:47 · 5 answers · asked by mickeymummouse 1 in Family

i like this one girl but the problem is that i never talk to her before
she is not in any of my classes or my lunch i only she her once or twice a day it makes me feel scared to to talk to her what should i do.

2006-11-12 12:12:45 · 8 answers · asked by lilmed4ever 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 12:12:25 · 17 answers · asked by Matt_c 1 in Singles & Dating

I have many friends and all of them ask 4 my advice, but whenever i go home none of my cuzins will eaven pay mind at me....i feel invisible to those who 's related 2 me and feel like a princess when i'm with an unrelated friend....should i tell my cuz about the problem or not?

2006-11-12 12:12:20 · 7 answers · asked by miss kiss 2 in Friends

2006-11-12 12:12:04 · 3 answers · asked by vampirelord3210 2 in Family

Ok I was wondering what chance do I have of gaining full custody of my 8yr old son? My situtation is my sons father has been harrassing me since I was pregnant. I gave him joint custody. He never took advantage of the time he had, and he never paid support cause he either wasnt working or he was hurt on the job. Now here is my problem in May he called dcfs on me 3times in 4 months an then put an order of protection me. It was dropped 3 days later and I didnt have a lawyer. Then at the end of his summer vacation he refuse to give him back. Then I get paper that said he filed for full or temp custody and me supervised visits I didnt have time to retain a lawyer but I showed up and the judge gave temp custody to him pending final hearing. The judge said we need to set a time that is longer than 30mins His grounds for seeking custody is I have moved 4times in 8yrs and I have had 5b/f and my son who is a.d.d failed 1st gr. Does he have a leg to stand on? I do have a lawyer.

2006-11-12 12:12:04 · 2 answers · asked by h0w U liK3 m3 n0w 2 in Family

Ok I was wondering what chance do I have of gaining full custody of my 8yr old son? My situtation is my sons father has been harrassing me since I was pregnant. I gave him joint custody. He never took advantage of the time he had, and he never paid support cause he either wasnt working or he was hurt on the job. Now here is my problem in May he called dcfs on me 3times in 4 months an then put an order of protection me. It was dropped 3 days later and I didnt have a lawyer. Then at the end of his summer vacation he refuse to give him back. Then I get paper that said he filed for full or temp custody and me supervised visits I didnt have time to retain a lawyer but I showed up and the judge gave temp custody to him pending final hearing. The judge said we need to set a time that is longer than 30mins His grounds for seeking custody is I have moved 4times in 8yrs and I have had 5b/f and my son who is a.d.d failed 1st gr. Does he have a leg to stand on? I do have a lawyer.

2006-11-12 12:11:15 · 5 answers · asked by h0w U liK3 m3 n0w 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a child from a previous relationship, and my current girlfriend, whom im engaged to marry,gets jealous when I spend time with him. She has told me this herself. We have had countless rows because every time I get him, she dissapears. I would like to spend the time with the 2 of them and for them both to get along. My son is only 4 years old. I had to go to the courts to get access to see him so this only puts more strain on the relationship between my son and I. I just worry about when my girlfriend and I marry, what will happen then? we are not currently living together as we are waiting to build a house. I fear that when we do, things will just get worse. I have tried to talk to her about this, but she just says nothing. It was hard enough to get her to admit what was wrong in the first place! I'd appreciate any help on this.

2006-11-12 12:10:55 · 32 answers · asked by StrongBoy 1 in Singles & Dating