My bestfriend who has a boyfriend has secretly been talking to my crush the guy she knows that I like behind my back. I just found out about it and I know that my crush likes her alot and likes me a little but can't ask her out because she has a boyfriend and shes thinking of dumping him. HELP!!!
2006-11-12 12:20:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have had this happen to me. Believe me It's not easy to go through. But I recommend talking to your so-called-friend and tell her how you feel. If she's a true-friend she will back off and make things clear to your crush she was in the wrong. If that don't work then go straight to the CRUSH, and let him know where you stand with your feelings and that your friend has the wrong intentions for him and her now boyfriend. If he has a any brains or feelings he will accept your words and will not give your friend the time of day. Then if neither of those work, Hire a HIT MAN!!
2006-11-12 12:31:33 · answer #1 · answered by sweet4saucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them both - the friend and the crush. If she is talking to your crush behind your back, then she is not your friend at all. And if she is chatting him up and they like each other, then no matter what you do with him, he will always be thinking of her.
BUT there is something else to think of. Do you talk to your crush at all? If you don't, then get to know him. He might start to like you more. That's if you think he is worth it.
Just pull your finger out and ask him out on a date! Do it now before that ***** dumps her boyfriend and waves her **** under your crush's nose!
At the very least, dump her as a friend. She is a complete ***** for going after the guy you like, and especially because she already has a boyfriend. She sounds like a typical ho to me.
If you want revenge, go out with her boyfriend after she dumps him. But make sure you see the result of STI (STD) tests before you sleep with him, just in case he caught something from her.
2006-11-12 12:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my friend ever did that I would confront her. I would tell her I a can't believe she is going to cheat on her boyfriend for the boy you like. Tell her you feel betrayed and are angry at her. Do this in private so it doesn't cause a scene. Say you are disappointed and would not like to talk to her for a while.
2006-11-12 12:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surely, she's not a competent pal. eliminate her. adult males come and bypass, and boys fairly shouldn't are available between you and your associates, although, if it replaced into that user-friendly for her to attempt this to you, it is continually gonna be that user-friendly. What if down the line she does some thing worse? She betrayed your have self assurance, yet once you're pleased with that...
2016-11-23 18:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by montieth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop your whining, & go after the guy. Your friend is teaching you a valuable lesson. It's called "You snooze, you lose!"
2006-11-12 12:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rip out her hair, shove my whole fist down her damn throat, eye guage out her eyes with a spork. break all her teeth, stab her with a knife into both of her plastic boobs to bust them, super glue her p.ussy lips shut.
2006-11-12 12:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by hotbitch69_xoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...If he likes her more and you less then I think that he just likes her more.........you said that he was your crush not your boyfriend....Come on grow up....there is no harm here.....You just happen to like him more than he likes you....move on!
2006-11-12 12:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by mom of a boy and girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pay some one to beat her up
2006-11-12 12:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
do what ever it takes to stop her
2006-11-12 12:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by jes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋